huh, come on, a few insecure guys here has a tendency to bash mods/exec vips based on a few incidents, and generalize that they are all ''untrustworthy''. If they are a mod/exec Vip, it means that they have invested more time and effort than the average user, they are more trust able, but that does not mean they are 100% angles..... they are all human, and they are all different people, don't paint every one of them with the same brush, and start bashing....
when you're deciding to do business with anyone, evaluate all factors, and ensure you're protecting yourself in every way possible. Even then, think out the worse case scenario, the probability of it happening(risk factor), and how much you stand to lose if that happens. If you can't accept that loss, don't do any business around here.
*honestly, based on a few incidents here, the risk factor is typically non-existent when you're talking about tens/hundreds of dollars with execs, but when it goes into the thousands-that's another story.(some of use don't even trust our own parents with that much)
To the OP, have you contacted paypal? Have you pleaded your case with them? Since wealthy has not been responding for so long, you have every right to do a charge back. If you paid with your CC to paypal, contact your CC company, and that would be faster and easier. PP is a prick to sellers, and if you've done things right, you should have gotten your cash back.