The Worst Case Scenario just happened

alwaysinvisible said:

Normally I'd object to calling a woman a ho or a trick but I agree with this statement.

@pewep She has a freaking KID. A child, a progeny, a person who literally depends on her. The fact that she wanted to meet in private was salty af, but then she took you out on a freaking DATE. The hell man?

Cut it out right now. Wing it my ass; you're better than that. If you gave 0 fucks I wouldn't care but you've got a moral compass. Don't go against it. You WILL regret it.

I speak from experience.

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*cough* good people male or female deserve credit where it is due

pewep said:

I didn't lol, and I had a boner lmao.

Hell to the fuck to the nah my brotha, I'm single but she's not and she has a kid.

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thats not your problem

Welcome to Nellyville, Pewep...

Zwielicht said:

Does she live in Nellyville, because your situation sounds just like the story in "Dilemma", give or take some details.

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alwaysinvisible said:

Normally I'd object to calling a woman a ho or a trick but I agree with this statement.

@pewep She has a freaking KID. A child, a progeny, a person who literally depends on her. The fact that she wanted to meet in private was salty af, but then she took you out on a freaking DATE. The hell man?

Cut it out right now. Wing it my ass; you're better than that. If you gave 0 fucks I wouldn't care but you've got a moral compass. Don't go against it. You WILL regret it.

I speak from experience.

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I hear you sis, trust me. It's crazy to push this any more than it already has gone. I really appreciate the responses here, I am definitely paying attention.

Zwielicht said:

Welcome to Nellyville, Pewep...

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I don't like this ride Zwie can I get off at the nearest stop?

Memro said:

might be a stupid question, but do you really have feelings for a woman who is having an affair, who you mentioned also has a partner/kid. mate why do you think you'd be different? hoes & tricks man.

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That's kind of the thing man, it's easy to feel like I'm special, etc... but to be honest I'm not. If she can do it to her current partner, she can do it to me.

pewep said:

Hey, I'm good thanks. Yep, staying with my parents for Christmas + the new year . How are you?

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Glad to hear you are doing good. I was wondering if you could retrieve my luggage padlock password using your powers. Can you help me ?

If your life is being controlled by a pussy then you are in big trouble my pal.

pewep said:

I don't like this ride Zwie can I get off at the nearest stop?

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In the song Nellyville, Nelly states the following:

If you ain't livin accordin to dirty then you stressin me
"And who are you?" Who me? I'm the mayor
And any problems you got, I live up thurr
"Where's that?" The house on the hill, welcome mat of fur
When you pass by that thang, be polite and don't sturr

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So go "up thurr", be rude, and "sturr". Be sure to not live dirty, that why you stress him out. Nelly hates a clean individual.

Plenty of fish on the sea mate. With this kinda chick roaming around the nearest pub or shopping mall, WTF are you going after a married ex?

el barto with the stalker pic

@pewep bro you are lucky nothing happened yet.
So i met up with my ex after like 2 years, i was already dating someone who was everything to me and still is.
But my ex and i flirted so much and we were alone for too long and we eventually had sex, she even wanted me to cum inside her(But i aint dat dumb lol)
After the whole thing was over, i felt disgusted with myself.
I just did something i would never forgive my gf for if she did it to me.
I still haven't forgiven myself and i still feel depressed anytime i think about it.
If you meet her again you guys can shag, but she probably has more to lose than you, since you are single.
Moral of the story is dont do shit you know you will regret later.

i feel you OP... but dont get to deep.

same story, i live in the US away from my home country, had a long distance relationship some years ago i would visit 2-3 times a year. after about 3 years we broke up. its a small world, she met some guy from our home country who lives in the state right next to mine. literally about 4 hours drive away. the guy married her, she came over to the US and lives with him now, and has a child. and a few months ago her husband was sentenced for 1 year for a parole violation, (nothing serious, even i admit it was a pointless stupid reason for the poor guy to be locked up for).

we've been in contact on and off all these years etc. shes beautiful and all, nothing trashy or anything. after he got locked up she started talking more, and asked me to visit her, she said with her husband locked up she has some needs. now the average guy would be at her door before sunrise for such an offer, but i couldnt do that.

shes MARRIED, has a KID. if she doesnt respect the marriage then you atleast need to respect the CHILD. i'm sure the fun would be worth the drive/travel, but the fun would last a day or two at most, then it would be days or weeks feeling this shitty inner guilt, so one of you needs to get a grip on things and say no and just walk away. the past is the past.

pewep said:

I'm single but she's not and she has a kid.

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Look, my opinion about this is always brutal, but that is how I think and act in my life.

Obliviously both of you have some emotions, but she is not "wait for you" and "believe in miracle" that you will be together again some day, no, and she have kid and other man, but you are believe and have feelings all the time.

Result: You are single, and she have family. Yes, she still have emotions for you, but that's how things works on females. She want to see you because of sex or to try to make parallel relationship so she can cheat his husband with you sometimes. In that situation only you will more suffer.

Advice from life experience: As someone mention before, let the past where belongs. Long distance relationships are always shitty except when people start to live together. You must beat it, became stronger, and find girl who will deserve you. Keep walk and get lucky.

@pewep - You know better than to fly close to the sun!

Come on, Man!

This sounds confusing.....it's all about the present and not the past.