Sorry.. Such Bad News..........

Thank you, sister, for this very positive news! God is Great! James, Keep Smiling! :)
 
It's always a great boost being able to do the basics for yourself, like shower, and toilet etc, you both just need to keep doing what your doing, and life will get better.

I hope you get the best in all things, you both deserve it.
 
sounds like he is making great progress...That makes me happy

Peace be with you and yours 2011nfl
 
Alot happy to hear that inshAllah within some months he will be normal guy :)
 
Wonderful news indeed! Great to hear that James is making fast progress.

Please remind him that he does have to listen to his Dr's when they tell him not to push it TOO fast but it is so great to hear he's been back on his feet.

We will continue to Pray for him - I certainly believe the Prayers (and good wishes) from the BHW is making a difference.

OS
 
He just finished his physical therapy for today, and he made more progress. He was able to take his hands off the walker and stand just on his feet for a few seconds at a time, and he was able to sit at the edge of the bed and lift his feet up off the floor and hold them up. He was unable to do those things yesterday.....

Then, since when he came in he didnt expect to be in the hospital this long, he was not able to pay his car payment, so just now the repo people came with the police, and had a warrant for his arrest, so I had to take them to the parking garage to get the car.. Oh well. Things will get better.

Also, he said that since he has to get disability now, it may take about a year to get it, but they will pay him back all the way til now. He said that when he finally does get it that his first responsability will be to pay his obligations to past parrtners, then the rest he is gonna use to get restarted in IM. I wish I was as good as him at marketing, but he only tought me a little over the years (I guess he didnt want me to be better than him lol). If I was as good as him, I would get a head start for him.

We are thinking of moving to Vermont with his sister when he gets out of the hospital, and if we do then we will be stopping in Virginia on the way to see Matt. James has wanted to meet Matt in person for about 3 years now, so hopefully that will happen. Anyways, i'm done rambling now. Thanks to everyone for reading :)

By the way. How do I change his signiture at the bottom of his posts to reflect more about his current situation? because he is still getting messages about that service and he is no longer offering it.
 
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Hi!

You are as good as James is, and you would love to know that he is an extremely kind person, and a great friend for many many members here. About the signature, do not worry, I think a moderator will be here, and will help you change the Signature messages with your permission. You will get all the help, and OldSalt or some other moderator can definitely help you with those things.

Do tell James that he will become very active soon, and all the negatives will make way for all the happiness and success in your lives. Tell him to tell his worries that he and HIS GOD are lot bigger than all the worries that you all are facing right now.

With God's Grace and Mercies, your family shall be very successful, healthy, and happy. Also this, it was told to me by a very wise man very long ago, that God only gives you worries that you CAN handle and overcome. That's the way HE tests when HE wants you to move to better overall levels. So keep cool and keep Winning.

When James made those first moves only moments or days ago, he passed some of those tests! SO James move ahead, and soon you'd be better than you were before. I have faith in this, and have faith that you'd be successful, healthy, and very happy soon!

God bless!
 
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To change Signature:
Click on this link:
http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackhat-seo/usercp.php

It will take you to a page where, on your left hand side, there is a link named "Edit Signature"

On clicking that you will see another page with a box, and some text in it.

Simply delete (if you want to delete them) all those lines of texts...

and if you want to add some text in place of the deleted text (there may be a limit to the number of characters that you can place but do try it out
smile.png
), add whatever you wish to say there, and...

then click on the Save Signature button that's just below the box. You've effectively changed the Signature. :)

HTH

Or you may ask some moderator to help you.
 
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I really don't know what is going on with me right now. I had not a single private message contact with him, nor did we discuss in a thread.
Though I often read his posts and really like him and his honor which is glowing out of his words.
Now I sit here and I don't know you all, but this fate that happens to you touches me so hard that I really have to fight the tears right now. Please don't be cruel, community and don't call me pathetic i am writing just openly.

I wish you really the best of luck for the future, you deserved it. Please be sure that reading your story made me more aware for the luck I have and I want to thank you for giving us all this broad hint to value the things that are now here in our lives.


Hopefully the positive progress will go further more and more!
 
By the way. How do I change his signature at the bottom of his posts to reflect more about his current situation? because he is still getting messages about that service and he is no longer offering it.

I changed it for you. If you want it to say anything different,
let me know and I will be glad to do it for you. Cheers! :)
 
Hope you will recover quickly man.
I wish you the best.
 
I didn't know him too well but I can tell he is appreciated in the Black Hat World community. I wish him a speedy recovery.
 
Wow , that is tough, sending you guys all the best.
We say a healthy person has thousand wishes but an sick/injured only one.

Wishing you speedy recovery and strength to navigate the courts. One day it all will come to pass and you will look back at this time one evening night together with the kids and realize how much stronger you grew from the experience. we must keep positive and focused thoughts to get over and grow.

I strongly believe that we are not put more burden on our shoulders than we can carry. All best and stay strong!
 
I already had a plan to go to temple today,will pray for you :) Believe me I have always been lucky with whatever I wish to god. Will pray at 6 PM (Australia time), pray with me guys wherever your are. Praying for fast recovery of not just this guy, but for every single person and families who are having hard time.
Every time passes, no matter what. Just remember one mantra to be happy "this too shall pass" Read that in Tough time as well as good time.
 
Well, all of the positive vibes must be doing something. That and the fact that James is so incredably strong and determined, mixed with some tough stubborness..... Since the last time I posted an update he has started using the walking bars and was actually walking without therapist helping, and he started using the bike too.. The occupational therapist says that his upper body strength is absolutely amazing and almost phenomenal for a person his size, and both the occupational and the physical therapist say that he is recovering faster than anyone they have ever seen come through the hospital doors.....


Anyways, I saved the best for last! The doctors said today that he can come home tomorrow. What home we have anyways (staying in a motel right now :( ). Anyways, they said he can continue with outpatient therapy now (which is awesome since most people are inpatient for atleast 2 weeks). So things are really starting to look up again health wise atleast. :)
 
That is horrible! Although it may be tough, try and stay positive. If there is anyone how can recover, it is a seasoned blackhatter! Good luck to you!
 
I am so sorry - my prayers are with you and 2011nfl. I wish him full recovery and may God give you the strength to see this through.
 
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