Sorry.. Such Bad News..........

one single line for James " What doesn't kill me make me stronger" BHW is waiting to listen you again. every single comment with wishes is actually positive energy sent to his rapid recovery. bravo BHW community..

Don't worry at all. You both are doing excellent -- you are the source of James' energy and recovery, so keep smiling, dear sister! It will do wonders to you both, your lovely kids and also to your HOME. The HOME is still "there", waiting for you all the time. May be this present home is absolutely necessary which can help James get better energy. And, where ever a couple stays in absolute love and caring for each other is a real HOME for them. So do not allow the depression to get you both. Always "see" God's energy surrounding you and it will work wonders for you and your family.

James, God bless you, and you're real lucky to have such a caring and loving Soulmate at your side and in your life! She will help you get over all these troubles, and will constantly be with you as you both rebuild your home and life... so keep smiling, and Win! And don't worry about your kids... God is caring for them when you both are busy rebuilding your World. Chin & Cheer up, dear friend!

OMG The pictures of where they cut in is painful to even look at =(

get well soon OP

Sorry it has been so long since I updated, but since we are not at the hospital anymore we have not had access to the internet.....

Anyways, since being released from the hospital, James has been doing very well. It seems his pain has dropped atleast 75 percent, and he is building strength in his legs and OBVIOUSLY his arms. He literally will move from the wheelchair to the floor board of the taxi and grab the handle on the sealing of the car and throw himself into the seat like he's throwing a pillow lol. It's like he makes no effort. He is just that strong.

He is also improving very much on his leg strength. He has been using the handles of the wheelchair to stand up with me sitting in the wheelchair seat, and he pushes me around. He usually collapses after a few minutes, but just a few days ago he couldn't stand at all, so he is doing very extremely well.....

I am hoping he makes a full recovery soon because I need him. Things were just starting to look up for us right before all of this. We had both started working at a good job, and he got a promotion within the first month, and we were just waiting on my tax return so we could buy a car and just get caught up on bills. Then this happened and we both lost our jobs because of it, and then I got my income tax return and instead of getting caught up with it, I have had to use it to pay for the motel each week and to eat, and now thats almost dried up, so lets all pray that he gets well soon so he can help.

All in all I am just thankful he is alive, but I really need him right now. I hope I don't sound selfish, but I am used to him protecting me and now it feels like I am fending for myself and protecting him (which I don't mind, but he is better at it than me). I'm just really scared right now because we also found out that his sister won't be able to let us stay there now, so I don't know where we will go once the money is dried up....

Anyways, I am done rambling now. I hope everyone has a great night and makes plenty of money

Hope he'll get better soon. My thoughts are with you and your husband.

he will recover soon
we all with you bro ! dont worry

Don't worry, though the time has began to threaten in a bad way. When you can't do anything to overcome such tragic situations, just pray and ask other to pray for you like you did. The positive power that it generates is simply amazing especially when your back is to the proverbial wall, and you either have to go down, or to get up and move in the only direction that's available... forward.

Just keep enjoying all the positive things that are happening right now -- like James trying to walk -- like a baby tries... it falls, then gets up, and falls, and gets up again, and again... ever time with a new determination and not allowing the fall to make one sink forever... and it learns, grows, and Wins! Same with James too... only a little time more, and then he will rise again and will turn the seemingly lost world around once again. With HIM, and with Faith of course. When you're such helpless, then CALL, and you'll be HEARD mightily.

Just days ago, James was almost written off by everyone, isn't it? Of course you and some others kept pulling him out of the depths of darkness. So what were you then? You were mighty and strong, and determined, weren't you? Now that you've proved your strengths, don't let gloominess of an uncertain future get you down. It's just that... uncertain. You are certain, James is certain, and HOPE is certain. Wipe out the uncertainties as soon as they creep into thoughts.

There shall be mighty ways you don't know yet, and they shall surprise you... only if you remain in unmoved faith in the one who made you strong! It's your OWN self who gathered the strength from the unknown universe when the time wasn't favoring you and James. So keep faith and keep becoming stronger, while you enjoy the moments of joy, in whatever way they are coming to you now. Those moments of positive joys are telling you that bigger things are also coming along. So get him going, and get yourself going forward too.

Simply remember that bad times don't live a healthy life when they are fed pure positivity!

God bless you, and James, and all your loved ones. I pray that all your problems are resolved soon and very mightily while you're given more strengths and joys. Amen!

Keep Smiling... even if the world around you seems to be growing darker. It's really NOT!

I am extremely happy to see your recovery 2011nfl. Though this an online forum but believe me, I am eager to see you back posting. Thank you Mrs. 2011nfl for keeping us updated on his speedy recovery.

Stay motivated and medicated.

Do not give up! If you do it will only go down hill from there!

Wishing you the best. My prayers are with you and your family.