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Sorry.. Such Bad News..........

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by 2011nfl, Feb 23, 2014.

  1. 2011nfl

    2011nfl Supreme Member

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    This is 2011nfl's wife. Sorry it has been so long since he has been on. I was just online and thought that some of you may be thinking about him so I wanted to let you all know what was going on.

    Back in august we ended up moving, and the neighborhood we moved to was very rough. Many of you know that we were having problems with cps. Well they ended up coming and taking them again, and this time they terminated our parental rights. So he has appealed and has been fighting in court for a few months now...

    Then starting in November he ended up going to the hospital a few times with near stroke symptoms. Then in January he found out that he had a massive blood clot in his aorta that was extremely life threatening, aswell as many smaller clots. The last time he went to the hospital on Feb. 4th, they told him that the clot covered nearly his whole aorta and that if he left the hospital he could be dead within an hour (but definitely within 2 weeks he would be dead). Being the stubborn mf that he is, he tried to leave the er because he was more worried about the court case than his own life, but between me, his family and about 10 doctors, we convinced him to stay at the hospital and get the surgery.

    The surgery itself was life threatening because they had to cut him from his chest all the way to his back, move his heart out of the way, cut out part of one of his ribs, and collapse his left lung. They also had to clamp off the aorta (which is the main artery coming from the heart) which meant that his blood flow was stopped. They had to cut out part of his artery and put a plastic piece that will be there forever.

    Well, in clamping off the aorta and stopping blood flow, that meant that the spine lost blood flow, and his spine was injured. So now he is paralysed from the waist down and it is undetermined whether he will ever be able to walk again. But the good thing is that he is still alive, so atleast we have that to look forward to.

    There are a few people here who he has unfinished business with, and I want you all to know that he thinks about you all the time. If and when he gets better, he will be getting in contact with each of you. There are still risks to his life involved that are there aswell as the possibility of never walking again, but with determination and a few prayer, I believe he will be fine. All of his websites are gone, aswell as his services that he used to offer, because he has not been online or had money for months now because of all of this, but the main thing to think about is his life at this time, and I have had to force him to finally put himself and his health first.

    Sorry to come here under these circumstances, but God Bless all of you. Thatnks for taking the time to read.
     
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  2. PrinceVisi

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    Oh my GOD.

    I feel so bad. I wish him and you the best of luck that someone could possibly have.

    I hope he recovers as soon as possible.
     
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    I hope he will get better soon, it is always a pleasure reading his posts...

    I think that every member of BHW that he was dealing with and done/doing business will have understanding for what have happened and for situation that you are experiencing right now.

    God bless you all!
     
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    I didn't meet him, but wish him a speedy recovery. Bless you.
     
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    Damn... Didnt know he was in a hospital... Hope you both are doing better and better. I really hope he gets better even so good to start living the life he used to live before... Its SOOOO NNIICEE you wrote about him and his condition here, thats very kind...

    Thanks and God please bless you two..
     
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  6. Kaistar

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    Wishing him as complete and speedy recovery as is possible, best of luck...
     
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    Please send him our best. He is a good friend to many of us.

    "Wiz"
     
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    Best of luck to all of you. I'm sure it's a very tough situation.
     
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    When reading the post... I thought for a second that he has departed from our physical world. But am glad he is alive!

    May God heal him speedily. I will remember him in my prayers.
     
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    Wow, sorry to hear this. Terribly sorry. I have never had any personal interaction but obviously have seen his posts and was aware of your struggles. Nobody deserves this. I hope somehow things brighten for your entire family asap.
     
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    I've never met him, but this is something nobody should pass through.
    Regards and really hope he gets back on his feet ASAP.
     
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  12. 2011nfl

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    here is a couple of after surgery photos. He has 42 staples, he had a whole in his chest with a drain tube, he had a tube in his spine, and another tube in his neck. He also had 2 tubes going to his stomache (one from his mouth and the other through his nose).

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    Best of luck, sorry to hear that and hope he gets better.
     
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    I wish for a speedy recovery. Sorry :/
     
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    Oh man that sucks :(
    Really sorry to hear this. Get well soon please. May God bless you and we want to see you again on this forum soon.
     
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    Omg .. This is such a bad news...
    Our Best wishes are always with him and with the entire family..
    Just be strong all of you and stay together as Love is the best medicine of all..
    Really feeling sad but I am sure he will soon be back with a blast :).
    Take care .. :)
     
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    You have all struggled through so much, and now this.
    I'm sure I speak for many of us in saying you will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
     
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    Wish him a speedy recovery.
     
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    We hope and pray for his health, and for his family's well being.
     
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    Thank you for taking the time to let us all know. I personally have been wondering and
    worried about what happened to him. I wish you and yours the best, and my family's
    prayers will be with you.
     
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