My gf left me after loooong time :(

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Fritzyboy said:
OP, are you inlove with her or are you just inlove of the fact being together?

Relationship takes two to tango IN UNITY. So if one doesn't want to cooperate, then you're dancing alone.

However, let's say you have her back, but it's not gonna be the same treatment (it will never will). You'll just end up breaking the relationship... again.

Look, I bet you are still young, so give life (and love) a chance with someone else. This way you'll get to know yourself much better, and learn much better, and love yourself much better. Yep, it's gonna hurt before it gets better, but one day you'll look back and said it was worth it, whether or not you'll end up with her or with someone else.

As for @ShiningWarrior , let me correct you... THERE STILL EXIST a real and serious relationship. I'm having it and my parents have it and anyone both of me and my partner's relatives are having it. Nope, they are not pre-arranged, but they are getting married the right way, not because the girl is pregnant or whatever. NEVER divorced or separated. You probably is screwing whoever you met, but deep inside it's not gonna give you an inner satisfaction. For now, you can't understand it, but soon, when found someone you can settle in, you will.
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GFs are like buses, one come and one go. Dont chase them. My friend told me this.
 
Don't you think it is because of your indecisiveness? I think, well, it is only my opinion, so don't jugde, she tired of your relationship. After 6 years most of the girls will think about marriage (and sometimes babies). For some girls - a marriage is a next step in relationship.
 
You're young, move on and be thankful you aren't dividing a house, possessions, kids etc.
 
pofigy said:
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I am from Croatia.
Thank you all for good comments...i know all what you are saying and i try to be strong....i just somehow want that she tells me that she is with that guy so i can start hating her more...because i feel like being lied and lied...I asked her and she told me that she did that just because i can feel bad, i don't know if i can trust her on that and that is stupid. She also told me that nothing happened between them and she is not ready for relationship but i don't believe her for that, i am really confused and angry. Because i think she is lying to me and one part of me is thinking she is not lying! :/
 
buyingtech said:
I am from Croatia.
Thank you all for good comments...i know all what you are saying and i try to be strong....i just somehow want that she tells me that she is with that guy so i can start hating her more...because i feel like being lied and lied...I asked her and she told me that she did that just because i can feel bad, i don't know if i can trust her on that and that is stupid. She also told me that nothing happened between them and she is not ready for relationship but i don't believe her for that, i am really confused and angry. Because i think she is lying to me and one part of me is thinking she is not lying! :/
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Wjatever she did man, life moves on and time is money.

Look at the bright side, now you have tons of time for yourself, you should start becoming a person with clear goals, a winnable winner, don't need to go after girls, if you have a clear mkndsrt of what you want in life girls will go after you, since it will be a challenge for them for you to give them a chance since you are now too busy working on your dreams. Start a business, read, be fit, healthy, learn about what you are really interested about and don't be afraid to share it with passion to others.

I recommend you watching videos from self improvement channels, such as rsdmax, teachingmenfashion, etc these are just 2 but there many small ones that are much better than these.

Also a book thah changed my life was one called The Subtle Art of not Giving a Fuck
 
bllec1998 said:
Wjatever she did man, life moves on and time is money.

Look at the bright side, now you have tons of time for yourself, you should start becoming a person with clear goals, a winnable winner, don't need to go after girls, if you have a clear mkndsrt of what you want in life girls will go after you, since it will be a challenge for them for you to give them a chance since you are now too busy working on your dreams. Start a business, read, be fit, healthy, learn about what you are really interested about and don't be afraid to share it with passion to others.

I recommend you watching videos from self improvement channels, such as rsdmax, teachingmenfashion, etc these are just 2 but there many small ones that are much better than these.

Also a book thah changed my life was one called The Subtle Art of not Giving a Fuck
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And another thing, whenver I left my first 2 year relationship, at first I didn't understand anything but soon enough I started watching the situation from an external point of view, and thinking about all the stuff that I could've done better, and started researching about it, so next time, whenver I enroll into a relationship again I can give my best to my couple
 
As Usual She will make u confused and till the time you are confused you will have deep feeling and attraction towards her and she will take this for granted and you wont have value infronty of her !

If you feel there is nothing important in your life than her " THEN QUIT " if there is anything more valuable to the life which you have from you mom and dad then stay. Mix with people and remove all your stuffs that u had with her and move ahead :)
 
buyingtech said:
I am from Croatia.
Thank you all for good comments...i know all what you are saying and i try to be strong....i just somehow want that she tells me that she is with that guy so i can start hating her more...because i feel like being lied and lied...I asked her and she told me that she did that just because i can feel bad, i don't know if i can trust her on that and that is stupid. She also told me that nothing happened between them and she is not ready for relationship but i don't believe her for that, i am really confused and angry. Because i think she is lying to me and one part of me is thinking she is not lying! :/
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Damn its very hard to make you understand ,women are not like men ,they deal relationship things easy if they do not like someone they move on and forget about him and find a new one just like that ,those old days are gone man ,marrying high school sweet heart and staying forever ,the world has changed almost all parts of world people started practicing living together lifestyle and if they find someone more attractive/rich they dump other and move on .I'm from India we were a very conservative country even here things changes ,i cant say all ,but very significant percentage of people moved to the culture like i said ,its wise to switch or else if you are really lucky you might find some great women who is really loves from heart and values relationship and human life,but chances of finding is very hard but still those exist may be or not they are with good looking ,just find a women like that and stay with her.
PS) Personally i know and met a women who made a fucking loser into a successful man in the society
 
My suggestion just fine second girl, and try on her best friend if possible. Take chill beer and have snacks.
Everything become fine just in 2 week.
 
Hit the gym, eat healthy, read and meditate, and build a stronger smv for yourself
 
buyingtech said:
I am from Croatia.
Thank you all for good comments...i know all what you are saying and i try to be strong....i just somehow want that she tells me that she is with that guy so i can start hating her more...because i feel like being lied and lied...I asked her and she told me that she did that just because i can feel bad, i don't know if i can trust her on that and that is stupid. She also told me that nothing happened between them and she is not ready for relationship but i don't believe her for that, i am really confused and angry. Because i think she is lying to me and one part of me is thinking she is not lying! :/
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Please, DON'T DON'T contact with her. She wanted to end this relationship, this means she is not a part of your life anymore. As other said, focus on yourself, be succesfull person, do whatever you like. Stay strong!
 
Everything here i see is something deep inside i know...I am just so angry about that, that i would do something and then regret it...i know life goes on and on but fuck what i did for this girl in this period and she is acting like real bitch right now....
That is what hurts me most...sorry ladies who read this(i doubt there are many) but lots of them are bitches when it comes to relationship! :/
 
fuck, can't read it...
A woman can sniff weak man with beta genes, grow some and move on, show her you aren't weak or dwindle on and prove her right so she moves faster away from you.

You did 1 thing bad here, you didn't keep good relationships with your girlfriend's friends if you had you would know whats going on and you would fuck something.
 
Come on be a man! She is gone, dead, forget her... Are you cross at her because she slammed the door and was gone, without you getting the chance to kick her out and slam the door on her back? You can't do that to a woman who has been good to you... She doesn't deserve the hate. You must have done something bad to make her find someone better to spend her life, her time with.

Both ways you must admit that it is past now. All you can do is learn and move on... Dude, spit out the butthurt feeling and give yourself a smile, first of the many, which will make you look forward into a better future.
 
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