My gf left me after loooong time :(

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feal bad for you bro:(
just focus on yourself and business ;)
you have a lot of time now for your business.
time and alcohol will heal your wounds.

hope you will be fine soon:)
 
Dude dont be weak focus on yourself alot read books,make money,chill out and you'll see how you will forget her.Also ban her from social media and all that stuff.Have a good day :)
 
Thanks to all! I read all your comments and i really really thank you for all support. I know this will be hard time for me, and i am too emotional and like someone said maybe she is not that meant to be person in my life...but it is very very hard to accept fact after all those years, someone you love and have everything just says okay we are on pause or break up...I know it is good thing, if she wanted break up before going with guys and it is right thing to do, but damn i am that kind of guy that it hurts me a lot.
Thank you again for all great comments and for making this thread so big....i never imagined this will be so popular here on BHW...i was thinking should i click post thread or no and somehow did it :)

Also i forgot to mention, that we have dog too and she is keeping care of him too so it is even worse for that because he has over 5 years now and you know how much you can love dog...
So all in all, fucked up situation...but i really hope it will get better and i can go back to working in IM again...
I am graphic designer so at the moment i don't have will or power for anything :/
 
Didn't read what happened to you after your opening post, but something tells me that if she is on this forum, then she will know she that time definitely took The Right Decision...

My plenty of sympathies...dude! :)

But better go do something more useful than get such hollow sympathies over another long 10+ pages... it might just get her re-interested in you! :D

P.S.:
Do it, at least for the dog! Make yourself something that'll let him feel missing you is worthwhile, when he sees your photo receiving the President's Medal... a few years from now at least...

Get motivated! Some heart breaks break the hearts, some break records!! (I know it's a bad copy, but it was the only available one atm. lol)

Good luck!

P.P.S.:
Let's see how good you are at creating Graphics :). Post some of your masterpiece (i.e., enough of the broken heart pieces). :D
 
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Mate, hop on a airplane to pattaya. You wont remember her name when you come back;)
 
"Chase a check, never chase a bitch".
Just focus on making money, go to the gym, become the best version of yourself, f**k some whores and then you will be fine. Show her that she's the one who lost. And NEVER trust a bitch again. They are all the same.. and i'm not even kidding. You should always be ready for things like that because women are unforeseeable.
 
it's very hard to forget a person , Its quite difficult but not so. You can spend much time with friends and family and also find a new partner. Be clear that you are rejected. Just try to busy in doing something. I like this phrase “ what ever happens life has to move on ”.
 
Thanks for all the comments...as time goes by i see i am getting little bit better i hope in time it will all clear up...My fear is if somehow i again start going out with her, it will happen again etc... i am only confused about that, should someone be with his ex after some period(if she wants too of course)....
Thanks again!
 
Why care ?

Make money. Get wealthy. Chose great girl from Russia.

Done.

Be a man. Take responsibility. Make cash.
 
buyingtech said:
Thanks for all the comments...as time goes by i see i am getting little bit better i hope in time it will all clear up...My fear is if somehow i again start going out with her, it will happen again etc... i am only confused about that, should someone be with his ex after some period(if she wants too of course)....
Thanks again!
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I have found that when a relationship has ended it is usually a bad idea to restart/rekindle it, as the underlying issues for the break up are still there unresolved and it causes even more problems and heartbreak latter.

Better to try to move on.
 
buyingtech said:
Thanks for all the comments...as time goes by i see i am getting little bit better i hope in time it will all clear up...My fear is if somehow i again start going out with her, it will happen again etc... i am only confused about that, should someone be with his ex after some period(if she wants too of course)....
Thanks again!
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Went to same situation as you few years back, I felt destroyed for 3 months. It's not as easy as it seems, a 6 years relation won't heal in 15 days but you'll feel better soon.

Here's the thing, you have to decide, you either want her back or no. Once you decided to forget her start meditating a little, even everything s blurry and you don't wanna do anything, get yourself up because there are many girls like there waiting for you. It's hard because you lost your best friend , and you feel there's no one to talk or understands you but that's just for the moment mate, we all went through break ups and for male it's even harder than girls, they heal much faster.

Tip: make a list with every little thing you didn't like at her. remember every argue, and you'll see she's not the only one in the universe, read the list anytime you think at her.

and remember, there will be good days and bad days, tomorrow you might feel down again, that's how it his for 2-3 months, just don't look back, change your perspective for good.
 
Being in a 5 year (going on 6) relationship myself, the best advice I can give is to AGREE with everything OUT LOUD (meaning you don't have to agree on the inside).

Petty fights aren't worth it in the end.
 
Fight for the people you love, forget everyone who dont want to stay next with you. Love yourself.
Stay strong bro. I was in the same boat and now I'm so happy! :]

Listen to the the lyrics.
"They dont love you If they dont matter see you fall"


buyingtech said:
Thanks for all the comments...as time goes by i see i am getting little bit better i hope in time it will all clear up...My fear is if somehow i again start going out with her, it will happen again etc... i am only confused about that, should someone be with his ex after some period(if she wants too of course)....
Thanks again!
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I come back with my woman after 6 month of fighting for her forgiveness. I cheated on her. And now we are so happy. I'm still feeling bad sometimes for what I did, but the important thing is forgive and be forgiven. Real love never dies no matter what. And If it dies, it was not real.

PS: Please open Relationship section hahaha
 
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Anyway, use this time to bring out the very best in you, even if it seems to be impossible. Just get yourself together, remember you have 3 selves , then begin moving hurdles and mountains out of the way. This is your war, and you must fight to win. If she is your soulmate then she will come back. If not, just wish good things for her. Don't hold grudges, against her and against yourself. Make things happen positive from now on. Life is too wonderful to be wasted in gloom and sorrow.

God bless. :)
 
Do you think she will think about you and cry like you? c'mon she found someone ,just move on
Nothing will help man ,time heals everything and time will teach how to handle a women ,never fall in love again.
 
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