My first blind date and I like her already.

I was in a situation like this once.

I fell for her big time and she was very beautiful and I enjoyed spending time with her. In the end, although we did have sex quite a few times and even traveled together, it became apparent she saw me as just a friend and eventually fell in love with someone else. All the while I fell for her more and more. It was apparent to me from the start but I thought I could change it.

That shit hurts, I recommend you distance yourself a bit, realize she just wants to be friends and don't hope for too much or you'll get hurt.
 
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I take it back. Go for it man it may not end well but I'd do it all again and it makes me smile just thinking about it.
 
ignore her man.. it's not worth the wasted time.

who the hell has all this time to spend humoring some girl so they can walk all over you?

push her away and forget about her. go make money.
 
I agree, she simply wants sex. And some fun beforehand: a movie, eating out... And growing colder since (in her mind) you don't seem to get it. So she's off to someone else who may finally give her what she wants without maddenning protractions.

ShiftySituation said:
She wants to have sex... think about it, she is there basically to soak in the culture and then head back to Canada, never to be seen from again. Next time you go out with her, make it a point to get her back to you place... have a drink while you ask her questions about her happiest times while visiting, this will get her wet and I'm willing to bet she will bring up times with you. Then slide in and give her another happy moment. After that, just go out with her as friends, with friends, what ever and use her for what she wants to use you for, sex.
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Go back to work or else you'll have neither the girl nor the work. Stop running after a mirage. Once you have money/career, love a nice girl who will date only you -- even after marriage:D. This girl is neither going to love you before nor after...

Real beauty is in the inner mind more than in the outer skin...
 
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troofer said:
I'm her BF..Eh
Could you please pass me a serviette, I just spilled my
Bowl of poutine...eehhh

long story short..be careful. i've been in those situations before, and did sleep with the girls, but that is only me. i have a feeling that the girl is lonely a bit, and wants something more. as you mentioned she is seeing another guy friend, and i think she is smart enough to know and notice what effect she is having on you...think man, being too emotional here will get you screwed. keep it totally cool and relaxed, actually even nonchalant will work, i can't tell you to ignore her for a bit, this is not guaranteed to work, but you being ok and casual with her will help alot in your emotional state...after you're emotionaly stable...eeehhhmm, you can engage with her on your own terms.
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You are probably right. We already made plans for the weekend. I think I will try and keep my mind away from her after that. Maybe its time I started looking at other fishes in pond.
 
krzysiekz said:
Basically, what Benny (above me) is saying, is that some girls are "sluts". No two ways about it.

Got a boyfriend? Still meet up with guys and lead them on & flirt with them? Get real, sl*t.
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yeah, but she isn't sleeping with anyone. lol.
 
kumbhak11 said:
Forget that girl, she has a boyfriend means she already has a "Banged Hole".

Make money,Later Marry some homely and cultural girl to stay from such depressions which are mostly common these days because of such girls who lose virginity but don't lose their lust.

And to take a last chance, call straight and say " Would you like a one night stand?", if no, then say her "F##k you B##ch" and rest in peace.
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I already have the money. I ain't getting married for another 3 years. I just wanna have fun right now.

"And to take a last chance, call straight and say " Would you like a one night stand?", if no, then say her "F##k you B##ch" and rest in peace."
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You are really bad when it comes to giving advice.
 
ericsson said:
So many replies .. with some guy posting about his blinddate?

Well, what is this world going to end like? :)

U talk about girls.. i go fishing some money...
HEY.. CYA! :)
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The whole point of making money is to have good girls around you and get laid right? I've been working too hard lately, I need some fun in my life.
 
Hey Dude ,

This is not the end of the world there are other girls out there , Just check for low traffic less competitive long but not so ugly girl friend :D , Use the tools like facebook , orkut tweeter to find those golden nuggets

cheers bob:)
 
Clear Presence Media said:
The solution is to ignore the shit out of her and act like she is lucky to have even talked to you once, and she probably wont be that lucky again...but dont be a dick...just be verryyyy busy
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Do these things really work? I mean, I stop seeing her and messaging her and she stops messaging me and we move on with life, that is how it will end.
 
philancer2010 said:
I guess i know what she's doing coz im a girl too. Just stop thinking and expecting that there might be a miracle happen. If she's loyal to her bf she will never had a date with other man. She likes to be with guys more than a friend, I guess she's a flirty one. Sorry if i said that, but that's what ive seen in the situation you said. If your ready to get hurt and expect for nothing, you can continue. But if you dont want, stay away from her and instead look for a girl who deserves to have your heart. :) Cheers. There are still lots of pretty girls around. Dont lose hope, you can still find as pretty as her.
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You know what my problem is, I started talking to her about serious topics like politics and economics on our first meet. I think I should have started flirting a little or something.

But again, there was this guy who said he wants to get in bed with her and she never saw him again.

She mentioned that most of the guys here were messaging her and all they want to do is get in bed. According to her, I wasn't like that so she hangs out with me more often.

But yeah, I guess i'm in the friends category now. this is fucked up.
 
sagarpatil said:
Do these things really work? I mean, I stop seeing her and messaging her and she stops messaging me and we move on with life, that is how it will end.
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start ignoring her after u become a habit for her.like she texts you ever morning,gn text everynite.
it becomes a rule to go out once every two days,it becomes a rule for her to talk with you once a day for long on the phone.
then start pretending to be busy.
 
Man Sagar if shes in a serious relation fucking forget it which she is, if shes pissed because she could not talk to her bf.

your falling for her probably and might be fallen for her already.

just stop contacting her , Just be normal as if shes just a friend, if she has some feeling for you, she'll try to contact you.

and one more thing, start going out with SINGLE GIRLS, there are many. :p
 
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