sagarpatil
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I was kidding. Don't you watch movies? No Strings Attached.
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My first blind date and I like her already.
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I was kidding. Don't you watch movies? No Strings Attached.
winordietrying
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OP I'm curious which Bollywood movie you took her for? 
My suggestion is take her to watch DDLJ. I've heard foreign chicks like that movie a lot. It makes them feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Hope you look like SRK. That will help as well.
On a serious note. Here's something what a wise man once said:
"The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is not.
It is an existential truth: only those persons who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of the other person -
- without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other,
..Without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know that if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now.
Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.
Then why do they want to be together?
It is no longer a need; it is a luxury. Try to understand it. Real persons love each other as a luxury; it is not a need.
They enjoy sharing: they have so much joy; they would like to pour it into somebody. And they know how to play their life as a solo instrument.
The solo flute player knows how to enjoy his flute alone. And if he comes and finds a tabla player, a solo tabla player, they will enjoy being together and creating a harmony between the flute and the tabla.
Both will enjoy it: they will both pour their richness into each other."
From Being in Love by Osho.
Enjoy every moment you spend with her bro. Be honest about the way you feel, express yourself freely. Don't worry about the consequences. Whether you have her or not, life will still go on.. You will make loads of money and will have an awesome life
My suggestion is take her to watch DDLJ. I've heard foreign chicks like that movie a lot. It makes them feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Hope you look like SRK. That will help as well.
On a serious note. Here's something what a wise man once said:
"The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is not.
It is an existential truth: only those persons who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of the other person -
- without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other,
..Without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know that if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now.
Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.
Then why do they want to be together?
It is no longer a need; it is a luxury. Try to understand it. Real persons love each other as a luxury; it is not a need.
They enjoy sharing: they have so much joy; they would like to pour it into somebody. And they know how to play their life as a solo instrument.
The solo flute player knows how to enjoy his flute alone. And if he comes and finds a tabla player, a solo tabla player, they will enjoy being together and creating a harmony between the flute and the tabla.
Both will enjoy it: they will both pour their richness into each other."
From Being in Love by Osho.
Enjoy every moment you spend with her bro. Be honest about the way you feel, express yourself freely. Don't worry about the consequences. Whether you have her or not, life will still go on.. You will make loads of money and will have an awesome life
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winordietrying
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I hope you've told her this. Me thinks if you told her everything you've told us, there are only 2 things that could happen:
- She'll ask you to f*#k off
- Or you'll end up making passionate love to her
downloaddiva
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- Aug 25, 2011
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A female perspective.
Don't read too much into the parts about her bf back home. She's not home now, is she? Perhaps he hasn't made any efforts to see her, maybe he has. I think that those comments are meant to appease her own conscience that she's not doing anything wrong.
If she's spending time with you then she likes you. Actions speak louder than words with chicks. Period
BTW, when I first met my husband he was a friend from work who rescued me from a bad date. We went for coffee and he listened to me vent about the idiot we just ditched. 13 years later we're married and happily prospering together.
Go with your gutirate: and try not to read between the lines.
Don't read too much into the parts about her bf back home. She's not home now, is she? Perhaps he hasn't made any efforts to see her, maybe he has. I think that those comments are meant to appease her own conscience that she's not doing anything wrong.
If she's spending time with you then she likes you. Actions speak louder than words with chicks. Period
BTW, when I first met my husband he was a friend from work who rescued me from a bad date. We went for coffee and he listened to me vent about the idiot we just ditched. 13 years later we're married and happily prospering together.
Go with your gut
irate: and try not to read between the lines.
pavan
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- Mar 30, 2008
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get a blonde girl
fall in love with her
ask her for the best pick up lines like OP did
hang out with her every day till she asks you to f**ck off
create a ebook combine all those pick up lines along with your sad story
and sell it on DP
zebrahat
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- Aug 6, 2008
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The situation in life where a guy meets a hot girl who is, or may still be involved with somebody else is common. What close friend of a buddy with a hot girlfriend hasn't thought, "I wish I had found her first." Many women in this situation can 'read' that look on the other guy's face, and know what time it is. Some will exploit it, some ignore it, and others may have the same thoughts about you. Only life and time will shake out which is which, so you shouldn't depend on a rom-com ending going in your favor.
What you could do is to try distancing yourself from her and moving on, but in a clever way that gives her an opening to expose her real attitude about you. Ask her for a favor as a 'friend,' for example, to be your wing-girl, to go with you to a club, sports bar, etc to provide social proof to other girls that you are a catch. Ask her if she'd even be willing to go up to other girls there and introduce them to you. This is plainly saying to her that you're looking for a girl, and that you think she's not on the market. This gives her a chance to correct you by saying, "oh, me and what's his name, that's so over." Then make your move, and see what happens.
What you could do is to try distancing yourself from her and moving on, but in a clever way that gives her an opening to expose her real attitude about you. Ask her for a favor as a 'friend,' for example, to be your wing-girl, to go with you to a club, sports bar, etc to provide social proof to other girls that you are a catch. Ask her if she'd even be willing to go up to other girls there and introduce them to you. This is plainly saying to her that you're looking for a girl, and that you think she's not on the market. This gives her a chance to correct you by saying, "oh, me and what's his name, that's so over." Then make your move, and see what happens.
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SeriouslyMatt
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- Feb 9, 2012
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I like you more already Taktical! (as I've read your offline thread beforehand)
And yes, what he says is very true. I would know, I've been a "professional PUA" (technically speaking...) and I run a Lair!
If you want to really master it I recommend heading down the rabbit hole and checking it out....