Hola folks, (This is the most interesting story you will ever read) To be honest, I am a workaholic person. I work long hours and my life is all about computers and money. I hang out with my friends on weekends and we get drunk and stuff, but that's pretty much it. I travel abroad once a year for fun. This Saturday, I met a girl on what was my first blind date (I am not sure if I can call it a date, we met for a coffee). I went to her place to pick her up. She was very beautiful. We went to a coffee shop to hang out. We started getting to know each other through small conversations. She told me she's a student and studies in Canada and was in India for a student exchange program. She also mentioned she had a BF back in Canada and they were together for 8 months. We talked about Politics, Corruption in India, Indian Culture, God, Festivals, Love, Friendship and what not. She was very intelligent and I loved talking to her. Later we went for a long walk and when we had to cross roads, I held her hand. I really enjoyed doing that. Afterward we went to meet her new Indian friends, two of them were guys and there was a swiss girl. She knew them for sometime and to be honest, I didn't feel very welcome when we were hanging out. At 4 AM in the morning, we decided to call it a day, we hugged and she said she had a great time. She messaged me after some time asking If I reached home safely and mentioned she would love to hang out with me again. We met again on Monday for a movie. We had to pick up her laptop from the repair guy. When the guy said its not done yet, she was really pissed as she couldn't talk to his BF and family back in Canada. I told her we will get it fixed the next day. All the way to the theater, she was really pissed and didn't talk much. I thought I would give her some time. We finally went to the movie, she wanted to buy some pop-corn, I got them for her, she insisted she will pay for it, I didn't let her. It was a bollywood movie, but even then she really enjoyed it. After the movie, I was going to take her out for Dinner. This is where the sad part of the evening starts. She said she is going out for dinner with a friend and I am welcome if I wanted to join them. I told her that doesn't sound right because I am not invited. She insisted I come, but then I said that maybe the guy wants to take her for dinner alone. She said I was her friend and so was this other guy, so there's really nothing awkward about it. I didn't go. We hugged and she left. At night, she sent me a message saying thank you for everything. I didn't reply. Next morning I went to meet her at university. We went to a restaurant and had our lunch. We listened to some songs. She told me how she's not comfortable with her bf/friends who are possessive about her. She told me how she met her BF and stuff. I asked her some tips on how guys should approach girls at bar. She said "Can I buy you a drink?" is the worst pick up line ever as they can buy a drink themselves. Yesterday she was hanging out with some other friends and when I messaged her she wasn't very excited about talking. So i told her to message me when she's free. She sent a message at night. I received it today morning. I asked her if she wants to hang out in the evening or maybe go for dinner. She sent me a message saying, lets see I am going out for dinner with the other guy. (Last time when they were out for dinner, it wasn't just the two of them, it was her, the other guys and their friends.) Now I feel bad, I want her to hang out with me. I feel stupid. I really hate it the way girls can make you feel. Before I met her, I was kinda happy with my work and my life. But now, I keep getting upset over small thing. I don't think this is a good thing. She said we will hang out on Sunday and she would love to meet my friends. Some facts: 1. I like hanging out with her at the same time I think I am falling for her. I know she's quite serious with her boyfriend and she made it clear to me as well as the other guy when we were together. I believe her when she says that. 2. I know she only looks at me as a friend she wants to hang out with and I would like to believe its the same with other friend. This is the part where I need your help: Should I stop thinking about her? Should I stop seeing her? I know it will affect my work life. I believe I am a very sensitive person. I have no idea whats going on. (Sorry I lied about the story being interesting, I wanted you guys to read the whole story) Can I get some PRO-HELP. EDIT: Each and every advice I've been reading are the awesomest (I know that's not a word). Can I please add you guys on Skype, I would love to stay in touch with you and get more of your advice. Please PM me your skype.