1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

I am alcoholic how do I leave it?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by NobelNerd, Dec 23, 2016.

  1. NobelNerd

    NobelNerd Power Member

    Joined:
    Feb 21, 2013
    Messages:
    782
    Likes Received:
    343
    Occupation:
    Digital Marketing
    Location:
    India
    When. I joined BHW most were noobs now they are most awesome people I know ...how do I put my drink down and concentrate.... I have fucked up family.....
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 2
  2. Asif WILSON Khan

    Asif WILSON Khan Executive VIP Jr. VIP

    Joined:
    Nov 10, 2012
    Messages:
    12,599
    Likes Received:
    34,732
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Fun Lovin' Criminal
    Location:
    London
    Home Page:
    Try AA, it works for some.
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 2
  3. BassTrackerBoats

    BassTrackerBoats Super Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

    Joined:
    Mar 10, 2010
    Messages:
    17,326
    Likes Received:
    31,785
    Occupation:
    Selling CPA Sites
    Location:
    Not England
    Home Page:
    Man up and make a decision to not drink.

    Then don't drink.
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 12
  4. mirrorer

    mirrorer Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

    Joined:
    Jan 30, 2009
    Messages:
    1,311
    Likes Received:
    1,134
    Try to seek help from professionals?!?!
     
  5. 17com

    17com Newbie

    Joined:
    Dec 20, 2016
    Messages:
    0
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Stupid and pointless thing to say to someone struggling with addiction, what did you achieve by saying that? Other then being a dick?
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 1
  6. BassTrackerBoats

    BassTrackerBoats Super Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

    Joined:
    Mar 10, 2010
    Messages:
    17,326
    Likes Received:
    31,785
    Occupation:
    Selling CPA Sites
    Location:
    Not England
    Home Page:
    That is actually what I did.
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 11
  7. NobelNerd

    NobelNerd Power Member

    Joined:
    Feb 21, 2013
    Messages:
    782
    Likes Received:
    343
    Occupation:
    Digital Marketing
    Location:
    India
    You are like my inspiration dude ...you should know the god with majestic stuff might be wrong but... father is always right.....ALL HAIL ZEUS ..you are most awesome guy I know from start so yeah ZEUS
     
  8. swon

    swon Junior Member

    Joined:
    Oct 16, 2016
    Messages:
    108
    Likes Received:
    158
    Gender:
    Male
    Every. Single. Thing. STARTS WITH YOU.

    You gotta make that choice buddy. I've been in similar situations, drinking heavy liquor straight up for 2-3 weeks straight until i feel like my liver isn't doing well, then i asked friends to come and live with me rent free for a few months so they can be around to tell me not to. Keeping someone who wont judge you helps a lot. Clean out your house from any alcohol.

    All that helped, but the real change came when i had to stay sober for 3 days and have a heart-to-heart with myself about my situation, and think about my classmates from high school what they are doing and what they have achieved that i haven't. What i want in life, where i want to be in life in 1 years time, 3 years, 5 years, set some goals. You deserve better than to drink and wake up with a headache every morning. You are no less than anyone you know, but you need to truly understand that, and admit to yourself that drinking is destroying you. Hope it never happens, but think about what people have to say about you if you die due to some drinking problem, medical, accidental or whatever.

    No sodas, or chocolate, drinking a lot of water and smoking cigarettes helped me, (only if you are already a smoker).

    You deserve the best and nothing less. It all starts with YOU. Treat yourself better! Drinking is not the solution.
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 2
  9. NobelNerd

    NobelNerd Power Member

    Joined:
    Feb 21, 2013
    Messages:
    782
    Likes Received:
    343
    Occupation:
    Digital Marketing
    Location:
    India
    Wow two aTitans in one night? Dude you r way too nice ..you are way too nice they take advantage of you I could call Brahma n Vishnu m drunk so m bit honest please don't block me
     
  10. asap1

    asap1 BANNED BANNED

    Joined:
    Mar 25, 2013
    Messages:
    4,961
    Likes Received:
    3,185
    You just stop.
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 1
  11. NobelNerd

    NobelNerd Power Member

    Joined:
    Feb 21, 2013
    Messages:
    782
    Likes Received:
    343
    Occupation:
    Digital Marketing
    Location:
    India
    Too many words I can't read
     
  12. swon

    swon Junior Member

    Joined:
    Oct 16, 2016
    Messages:
    108
    Likes Received:
    158
    Gender:
    Male
    come back when you are sober dude.
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 1
  13. NobelNerd

    NobelNerd Power Member

    Joined:
    Feb 21, 2013
    Messages:
    782
    Likes Received:
    343
    Occupation:
    Digital Marketing
    Location:
    India
    You think I came on BHW before calling all docs I could ..I am fucked I know
     
  14. NobelNerd

    NobelNerd Power Member

    Joined:
    Feb 21, 2013
    Messages:
    782
    Likes Received:
    343
    Occupation:
    Digital Marketing
    Location:
    India
    I am only when your m..s ... m..d..


    Meaning

    When your
    Manchurian sindjhs moraccoo dominos....damn m bad in English bro
     
  15. davids355

    davids355 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

    Joined:
    Apr 25, 2011
    Messages:
    10,401
    Likes Received:
    8,106
    The truth is you just have to make the decision that you aren't going to drink any more and then stick to it.

    That's not to belittle addiction and say it's easy, it's fucking hard. BUT no one else can do it for you and if you don't do it, it will ruin your entire life and your families lives.

    Think of it as a challenge - it will be really hard, you will hate it, you will be ill, you will be depressed, you'll probably get headaches, sickness, you will miss it so much, your body will be screaming at you to take a drink, but all of those things are the addiction fighting to keep you in its trap - are you going to stand for that? Hell no. You are stronger. You can beat addiction.
     
  16. NobelNerd

    NobelNerd Power Member

    Joined:
    Feb 21, 2013
    Messages:
    782
    Likes Received:
    343
    Occupation:
    Digital Marketing
    Location:
    India
    I
    Can try
     
  17. dawniey

    dawniey Junior Member

    Joined:
    May 26, 2016
    Messages:
    127
    Likes Received:
    67
    Gender:
    Male
    It might sound stupid but... just stop. I know it sounds silly. I once had a problem with procrastination and depressive thoughts for a long time. I was listening to a podcast and i dont remember the name of the guy.It was someone from the billionaire's list. He's answer when asked : How to do or not do something was - just don't it's that simple, just don't. I know your problem is quite different but it can work. Everytime that I meet an obstacle that seems too big I say to myself - Just don't or Just do it (Not affilated with Nike) and it works for me. I hope that things will work out for you. :)
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 2
  18. nikHacker

    nikHacker BANNED BANNED

    Joined:
    Aug 27, 2015
    Messages:
    290
    Likes Received:
    25
    Gender:
    Male
    if youre a men you will do it , if you kiding yourelf you will drink forever !
     
  19. NobelNerd

    NobelNerd Power Member

    Joined:
    Feb 21, 2013
    Messages:
    782
    Likes Received:
    343
    Occupation:
    Digital Marketing
    Location:
    India
    When @BassTrackerBoats says hello.. Jerry Maguire yo
     
  20. swon

    swon Junior Member

    Joined:
    Oct 16, 2016
    Messages:
    108
    Likes Received:
    158
    Gender:
    Male
    I think OP is trolling here... Even i can type with better format and spelling when i'm shit faced.
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 3