Don't ever get married

Gogol said:

Yepp. I agree to that. My original point was, that everyone is different and it is not fair to tell everyone to not get married just because OP had a failed marriage

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WilhelmScream said:

I agree with your original point that it comes down to personal preference, I just thought that message got a bit murky in your previous post

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Pixel Groot said:

Well Said " they are prone to emotional thinking"

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ttmschine said:

Because if you then end up getting divorced, it's Hell.

And women can bear a grudge and be nasty far better than we can.

As you can tell, I'm getting divorced, and I'm as miserable as flip with it all

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ExperimentalSEO said:

Isn't it easier to just have a better standard of person you want to be with? If a man or woman can't keep a job for more than 18 months it shows there are obvious character issues.

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Affiliatedon91 said:

Go on a long holiday to thailand and you'll forget you were ever married..

avoid the traps tho D:

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ttmschine said:

LoL I wouldn't trust my judgment.

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ttmschine said:

Because if you then end up getting divorced, it's Hell.

And women can bear a grudge and be nasty far better than we can.

As you can tell, I'm getting divorced, and I'm as miserable as flip with it all

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SpoonFeeder said:

I hate to differ but there are INTJ females who lack emotions and uses only logical thinking pattern. Like how my recent ex used to think.

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payal23j said:

Let me add some 1 tube sugar in this as per my experience.

I am a woman here who been divorced before 6 years ago and got married again 2 years ago. Not every woman will be same and not man will same.
We are humans and we are all different with our expectations, thoughts, advise etc. Both have freedom to do what they want to. If you both not understanding to each other divorce will be there. In understanding you need to be compromise, sacrifice, love, caring, satisfaction everything is required as per situation. If you expect something from your partner definitely same would be expect from your partner for you too. But both expectations would be different not same all the time. In that part you can't say she/he would be known of your expectation till you tell him/her. Because no one came to know your dream expectations or dream with your partner what exactly he/she looking for.
If your marriage is stand up on lie then it never ever be happy, while trying with all your efforts. So be honest with your partner and try to understand him/her and give him/her chance to understand you.
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Stewielenor said:

just left my girlfriend of 7 years.. she was whining for 2 days straight. I had enough and actually left.. Dunno what to do now.

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