LoL - problem is that she/he might well be the right one when you get married, it's not to say you/they will be a few years later.
That's when the problems start.
Don't ever get married
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LoL - problem is that she/he might well be the right one when you get married, it's not to say you/they will be a few years later.
That's when the problems start.
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I understand, and I don't have any experience with any of this, but it seems awfully preventable.
If you don't grow/change together, it's both of your fault. An incredible amount of maintenance is required to make any relationship work.
Simply saying "the other person changed" seems like a way to excuse yourself of necessary blame.
Just my 2 cents.
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Yeah, but the problem with your logic is that most people don't know they married the wrong person until AFTER they have married that person.
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Yeah, but the problem with your logic is that most people don't know they married the wrong person until they married him/her.
datingsitespot
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We are meant to live alone, just have friends and never get attached to just a single person!
It is a waste of time, energy and you can just miss opportunities being bounded to someone!
It is a waste of time, energy and you can just miss opportunities being bounded to someone!
treeoftech1999
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actually marriage is not bad, if you want to enjoy, you must marry, just you need a plan to live your life with your life partner, you need to compromise sometimes, but only 2-4 years, and you will be settled, you just be cool, because you are going to make a permanent relation with an unknown girl, so please get married, and enjoy bro....
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Because if you then end up getting divorced, it's Hell.
And women can bear a grudge and be nasty far better than we can.
As you can tell, I'm getting divorced, and I'm as miserable as flip with it all
Marriage is not easy but its easier with a prenup. Essential....
ExperimentalSEO
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If humans were meant to live alone they wouldn't develop so many mental health issues from living alone.
https://www.medicaldaily.com/living-alone-tied-de
tompots
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That's a really bad idle.... lol..... Hope you live in a country where they have Prenuptial agreements
I have heard people say "Marriage is a great institution", but they forget that federal prisons and mental hospitals are also called "institutions."
Love that.
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KHer0
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Yup, these threads have been the most discussed threads in the forum for a while. Sometimes I check the url twice to make sure I haven't misstyped it!
And then, we have every newbie complaining about not making a penny and think we are Bots created solely to decieve him.
Anyway, @mickyfu and @Neon would be great at giving relationships advices.. they get my vote as the section moderators
Wow, after reading the rest of pages and replies.. just WOW.. this must be the saddest thread in the history of BHW! -_-
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This is as far as I got into this thread and I think I'm good on reading anymore.also true stories my best friend from college recent divorce too he now in US.... his ex wife is satan man..... right after they file for divorce she purpose bring guys back home in front of their children. she even text him saying she fuck other guy on their bed when he is out work. she even spread lie to kids saying he (father) is one at fault and cause of sadness for family and he have affair. she also get lawyer to lie in court for alimony monies. then when she take kids out (while still fight child rights custody) she bring her boyfriend and tellign them he is new dad and try bribe them by buying present and taking them nice place to ask them request court they want stay with mom. he so depress he nearly suicide
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Ahaha, some people.
Please for the love of god do not fall for this shit OP. I can guarantee you she will come crawling back in a few months/years once she gets sick of the partying, or her new "friends" find another married woman to be sleazes with.
I know, that's what I figured too.
Thanks to whoever it was who suggested reading the red pill reddit, I think basically she's nagged and criticised me for so long I've become subserviant to her, like a Beta male, and she's come to the conclusion she can do waht she wants and I won't complain.
When I threw her out she's being going around telling people she left me (to look like a strong woman?), that I'm the worst human being on the planet - I mean one thing she's done LoL, and I can laugh at it now, is while we've been together for 21 years she's never "felt frightened" or needed any kind of help.
While she's been living at her mums she apparently "felt so frightened" she needed to "talk to a domestic abuse hotline!" - AFTER she's not living with me any more, because we had an argument on the phone!
This is just manipulative, so she can go around saying she left me, I'm horrible, it's been awful, "I mean, I've even had to talk to a domestic abuse hotline" - etc.
That allows people to put 2&2 together and come up with something that makes me look like a monster - and it's TOTALLY untrue.
But as soon as I said right, we're done, I'm starting divorce proceedings, and when she knew I actually HAD done it - she's changed totally into a blubbering wreck.
Probably because suddenly I'm acting like a man and not some wimp of a pussy-whipped beta failure that she can shout and scream at and basically order around.
I think it's probably confused her.
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That's a bit egoistical, isn't it?
Being afraid of not being lonely when you get older, so you went ahead to do something you wouldn't want 100%.
Never do something you don't want 100%.
Live life, and create a path of choices decided by love, not by fear, maybe that marriage would be awesome instead.
I wish you the best
THANK YOU. Water seeks its own level.
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My wedding is October, I am a romantic and said "hey, we been dating for 10yrs and with you not working we get a better tax rate married".OP you should write this post couple of months ago. I am done and going to end my life in August (meant getting married). I pray for me every day now and then.
I've never understood that phrase "a new bus pulls up every 10 minutes" I mean they are usually all going to the same place, too many people been in them, and sticky in places it shouldn't be...
Open relationships and marriages can work just fine.
They are probably distant cousins or some shit like thT
But mom, we are only having fun