Man I really hate people

[aishahriar]

I have a gun, you want to use it, the bullet my fit in your head LOL

 

[srb888]

I am from a different locale but its the same allover. Major part of this generation is vastly indifferent to everything around them -- call it the cellphone influence, TV influence, political/cultural/(non/improper)educational, whatever or whateverever. I too mirror/share OP's hard feelings... I too am angered / frustrated when I am at the receiving end of uncalled-for rudeness...

I am from the generation which adored Bruce Lee and his amazing martial arts and Zen philosophy impressed upon our kid minds. We friends trained our bodies, especially our minds to be like him. We too were able to break bricks easily and control our emotions to an extended extent. It was amazing and I didn't knew it then, but in future times I was able to endure the unkindness of the world around me... if I couldn't endure it then I was prepared to give it back with more than double returns. I have seen that rude people simply ignore the fact that they shouldn't be rude or they could be run-over by equal or greater rudeness... most of the time, you can say 100%, these people give you more respect(!) and move out of the way quickly when they experience unexpected earthquake hitting them -- these bast*rds literally implode as the rest of the crowd enjoy the stripping/dressing down they get.

What I do is -- after some controlled emotions I explode into a rage (controlled of course, but for other I'm shaking with anger) and give them a thorough dressing down -- I then don't stop and add some good expletives also. I tell them first that I'm equally stressed and still do not mind a few added moments of their continued rudeness. But it would be just 2 more seconds and any further, the person will get back the same in plenty... so either stop acting the drama and let us all move on... something of this nature. Of course, if the person isn't changing gears fast, I simply run over him/her.

I can easily make steam come out of the person's ears if need be, and I love to do it... and many times I take great pleasure in venting out some top expletives in one breath! I really enjoy the change of my mood after that! I have experienced that fellow sufferers really thank me for doing my act!

I tool felt like running away from such incidences, but then I'd be in horrible mood at home and make myself miserable. Then I decided to hit back, and every time I hit back I really felt that the nature, around me at least, too was happy. Many times the law would be standing near by, and would do nothing because the other person stinked of money or authority. But it too allowed me to carry out the lashing as I was making their job easier! Sometimes even the Energies work for you quite mysteriously!

If I was anywhere near that clean-up guy, I'd go to the smartasses blocking him and would ask them to move aside as the guy needs to do his duty. If the assh*le didn't move out fast, I would gently gently and affectionately "shove" him aside... if the person then got into some verbal nonsense then I would unleash my own version on him which would unfortunately for him be louder and nastier... Believe me, I have done that before. I have made a lot of enemies but some strangers who were present then still smile at me with great affection. I live in a small town, you see!

So guys, don't run away from such testing times. Unless you pass (not bypass) them, these times would return again and again until you get over the tests and come out passing. Look behind then, you may just have changed some situations for the better, or you may have changed some rudeness into fear, or have done your part to make this world a bit more better. It is especially true when you go all out to help strangers who are receiving sh*t and can't hit back at rude 'animals'. My ways wouldn't be ideal for you, but do something instead of absorbing the injustice. There is always an ideal solution for every problem.

Thank you very much for this thread! God Bless!

 

[GreyWolf]

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So guys, don't run away from such testing times. Unless you pass them, these times would return again and again until you get over the tests and come out passing. Look behind then, you may just have changed some situations for the better, or you may have changed some rudeness into fear, or have done your part to make this world a bit better. It is especially true when you go all out to help strangers who are receiving sh*t and can't hit back at rude 'animals'. My ways wouldn't be ideal for you, but do something instead of absorbing the injustice. There is always an ideal solution for every problem.
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Well in the situation I described there wasn't really much that I could have done to make the situation better, and the whole thing only took a few moments anyway. To have said something to the one guy would have escalated it into something more, and the worker was definately capable of taking care of it himself had he wanted it to go there. I did take a moment to stop and let him know that I saw what happened. He seemed to appreciate that someone else noticed and cared about it. It wasn't much, but it was something at least.

 

[xboxps3wow]

i agree.. like is sad and i don't like anyone around me

 

[srb888]

Well in the situation I described there wasn't really much that I could have done to make the situation better, and the whole thing only took a few moments anyway. To have said something to the one guy would have escalated it into something more, and the worker was definately capable of taking care of it himself had he wanted it to go there. I did take a moment to stop and let him know that I saw what happened. He seemed to appreciate that someone else noticed and cared about it. It wasn't much, but it was something at least.

Why do you think that you couldn't do anything ... there is a lot better way and I have experienced great outcomes many times. OK, physically it's better to get out of the situation as soon, but before doing that, IF IT HELPS YOU, in your mind "put" the actual bully on the ground and jump over him until he is grounded thoroughly -- if he deserves it! It takes just few moments! In your mind I said, and make a point that you believe in this little game. You really can do it, and make some great changes to this world this way, simply believe in this. I'm really serious about what I have said here.

I admit that's a killer version though! But you get the idea. It's about changing situations for others. This is where the world is leading now... to bigger mind games. The ancient people used mind over matter more easily, and we are also going to do those things in due course.


There are more subtle ways than the way too!

Of course, this may not be the most ideal way for your mind to believe, but then do "something" in your mind that you believe in and it would also result in great things in due time. BTW, it's an amazing solution (called IMAGING, which is more potent than Visualization).

 

[srb888]

Spot on. I could not agree more.

Not only does it work but this is a proof that we create our realities with the power of the most complex computer in the world, our brain.

Hey buddy, I think I modified my little speech just as you were quoting it. I hope you may like it better ...

 

[Larry]

I hate hate! You need to feel the love!

 

[srb888]

I hate hate! You need to feel the love!

Completely agree! At least, love yourself more! It will do real wonders!!

 

[incognito876]

Wow, this is a really interesting thread for me.

I live in a rural location, with only one set of full-time neighbors who scream and shout, let their dogs bark, play shitty music full whack whenever they feel like it. However, I find putting up with them preferable to leaving the house and having to interact with the masses. I do have a 20 minute drive to a friend's house every night when I pick up his dogs and take them for a walk with my own.

I can honestly say, this is rarely without incident - some arsehole (Sometimes several) inevitably tries to run me off the road so they can pass in an urbanization where kids are out playing on the street and there is no way anyone should be driving a speeds of more than 30km per hour. Most of the streets are narrow one way affairs- people just stop in the middle of the road, regardless of the fact someone is driving behind them, so they can have a chat with their mates.

Going to a supermarket is a nightmare due to people shoving in queues, or standing in large groups blocking the aisles, and ignoring you if you politely say "excuse me."

I had come to the conclusion I was causing it - maybe because I was 'expecting' it to happen, so it did? I've tried expecting only good things, but it doesn't work. Within half an hour some rude bastard will come along who's only agenda seems to be to be despicable to others.

 

[ChanzGrande]

Can't resist. The world is full of self-righteous, hypocritical, lying pieces of shit. Absolutely everyone thinks they are the center of the universe, and that their lot in life was worse than everyone else's.

Additionally, systems have been in play for a long time to systematically dumb down the human race to what we have today...a shit ton of following dogmatic people with a victim's complex.

The truth is ... people actually suck. They suck life from the air. They suck oil from the ground. They suck various anatomical parts we won't mention. They suck the very fabric of reasonable society, and all that's left is videos of fat people falling, greedy businesses, power absorbed ego-maniacs, and a planet on the verge of total collapse.

Don't worry OP - this world is only as good as the people in it, and I suspect we're all going to break-even very soon. Don't feel bad for hating people. We deserve it for the way we've conducted ourselves in the world thus far. I don't think it's going to improve, but I do believe the world will get even soon.

It's still OK to like some people though, and to smile occassionally, but rarely.

 

[incognito876]

Why do you think that you couldn't do anything ... there is a lot better way and I have experienced great outcomes many times. OK, physically it's better to get out of the situation as soon, but before doing that, IF IT HELPS YOU, in your mind "put" the actual bully on the ground and jump over him until he is grounded thoroughly -- if he deserves it! It takes just few moments! In your mind I said, and make a point that you believe in this little game. You really can do it, and make some great changes to this world this way, simply believe in this. I'm really serious about what I have said here.

I admit that's a killer version though! But you get the idea. It's about changing situations for others. This is where the world is leading now... to bigger mind games. The ancient people used mind over matter more easily, and we are also going to do those things in due course.


There are more subtle ways than the way too!

Of course, this may not be the most ideal way for your mind to believe, but then do "something" in your mind that you believe in and it would also result in great things in due time. BTW, it's an amazing solution (called IMAGING, which is more potent than Visualization).

Can you expand on this a bit? For example if you lent someone some money that you couldn't really afford, but they promised faithfully they would give it back two weeks later, and a year later you were still waiting, how would you use imaging to improve the situation, and your feelings about it?

 

[howard_hughes]

All you need is a shotgun mate, make BHW proud

:rocketwho

 

[srb888]

I had come to the conclusion I was causing it - maybe because I was 'expecting' it to happen, so it did? I've tried expecting only good things, but it doesn't work. Within half an hour some rude bastard will come along who's only agenda seems to be to be despicable to others.

This is a horrible truth. We DO attract what we think all the time. And when we think of getting good things, they don't materialize because we have already programmed ourselves that "i KNOW it won't happen to me ever". Sad but true.

So what's the solution? The keyword here is RELAX, and then think of the goodies in life -- actually "SEE" them happening -- that they getting into your life quite easily, as if they actually are!

But then the animal will say, "you know it will never be, HAHA"... just murder that animal ruthlessly, you're justified. You're of course better than these neg peace-robing guests, your neg thoughts, because you weren't born with them. When you're relaxed you are very powerful!

HTH

P.S.:
You want to try this little technique? OK, just smile for a few seconds... about 300 seconds would do fine! Give yourself a real smile! Then you'll find that those little knots are either reduced or are vanished. If so, think about doing it a few more times daily... you can always pay me much later for this little consultation when you have really changed yourself and those nasty situations! There is really no place for Valium in our lives, you see!

HTH, my dear OP!

 

[thedarkest12]

I have been diagnosed with social anxiety disorder actually and the OP...you're not alone buddy. I feel exactly, exactly the same. No matter how much therapy and drugs they give me...they don't understand that everyone is AN ASSHOLE still!!!

 

[srb888]

Of course there are plenty of assholes in this big world, everyone as you said and if it soothes you... but the medical fraternity has the biggest numbers! They want you to just sleep over your problems, literally until these problems grow into something more pathetic and pathogenic when they can step in with scissors to shred your pockets more. Then they'll end all your miseries by putting you to everlasting sleep...

There are real remedies that don't cost anything and can still cure, but who has the time...

How about smiling!

Keep Smiling!

The mind's Jericho Wall is being built even today. It's only the builder who can unbuild it.

 

[bhbfun]

wow. I actually feel sorry for you, what a waste of a good life. you have time to express who you hate on some INTERNET forum while 97% of the world are still trying just to eat, not get murdered or wiped out in some natural disaster.

Look in the mirror and slap yourself in the face and get a grip.....or go to the drive-through and ask that kid you hate (who serves assholes all day long) to slap you. I am sure he would.

hating is such a time suck.

 

[srb888]

wow. I actually feel sorry for you, what a waste of a good life. you have time to express who you hate on some INTERNET forum while 97% of the world are still trying just to eat, not get murdered or wiped out in some natural disaster.

Look in the mirror and slap yourself in the face and get a grip.....or go to the drive-through and ask that kid you hate (who serves assholes all day long) to slap you. I am sure he would.

hating is such a time suck.

WOW! I actually thought you said it to me!
Did you, really?

 

[GreyWolf]

Why do you think that you couldn't do anything ...

I didn't say I couldn't do anything at all. I said there wasn't much I could have done to make the situation better.

I could certainly have gotten involved, but that most likely would have made the situation worse, not better. No I think the best thing was exactly what I did, which was to let the worker know someone else saw it and thought it was uncalled for as well. Instead of him thinking about the asshole the rest of the night, he got to think about how other people actually do care about things.

As far as your visualization thing goes, ya I do that too sometimes. I'm a pretty easy going guy so I don't dwell on things like that too much anyway though. The story just came to mind because it was pretty recent and it seemed to fit in with the topic of conversation.

 

[incognito876]

WOW! I actually thought you said it to me!
Did you, really?

I think s/he meant the OP.

Can you tell me more about Imaging? I asked you a question a few posts back, but you may have missed it - only if you've got time of course.

 

[mrmarketology]

What a pity to hear that.