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Man I really hate people

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by tygrus, Sep 8, 2010.

  1. tygrus

    tygrus Supreme Member

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    I am getting to the point where i don't want to interact with anyone but my immediate family and friends. To me, just about everyone else is an insignificant asshole that I could less about.

    I hate my freelancers, I hate my fiverr and ebay customers, I hate my neighbors, I hated my cubicle mates, I hated my bosses, I hate the guy in the car next to me, I hate the people at the mall, I hate the kid at the drive thru window. I hate the jerks on Jersey Shore, I hate Kate+8, I hate American Idol and dancing with the stars. I hate oprah and ellen and dr. phil. I hate google and facebook and twitter. The list is endless.

    Maybe I have become jaded, but it just seems like everyone is a difficult person to get along with or is on an ego trip or trying shove something in my face. Maybe I should be looking for that log cabin in Montana.

    End venting
     
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  2. JackSparrow

    JackSparrow Supreme Member

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    try exchanging the word 'hate' with 'love'; might make things look a little different!!
     
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  3. HaRRo

    HaRRo Elite Member

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    This is the start of social anxiety disorder lol
     
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    Those log cabins do look nice, just stock up for winter.
     
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    HAHAHAHAHA! I actually just had to pull my fiance into my office to read this. This post is awesome. I seriously was laughing out loud man, it really really made me laugh. It just brightened my day reading this.

    haha, priceless.
     
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    7878 Executive VIP Premium Member

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    I hope they have strict gun laws where you live. :D
     
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  7. werrich

    werrich Regular Member

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    when it gets to that level, pick something u DO love and do that - anything - walking on the beach, doing nothing, breaking out the old school Nintendo, whatever it takes. Since we all have to deal with other people to some degree (or live in a society created by greed and stupidity), gotta find ways to cope and not go insane. Try to focus on what u do love for a while and the hate part fades away.
     
  8. CashInHand

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    This probably happens with alot of internet marketers because they arent around people alot when they are working
     
  9. Tyrone

    Tyrone Registered Member

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    Yea OP, Harro is right. That's how I started, now I don't talk to anyone unless it's online. Or I have to get something, like food, and toilet paper. Other than that, I'm at home 24/7. Is not good, soon you will not want to be around anyone. Then, you just won't be able to. Once you go somewhere, is as if everyone is watching you, or has something negative to say. But they don't, it's all in your head. I advise you to stay active and do stuff, otherwise you will become a hermit.
     
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    Don't know how old you are but take it from someone who gets that way some times: It is wasted energy (yours) and incredibly stressful on your body to have that kind of an attitude. Try to focus that somewhere else that is more positive.
     
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    But you don't hate BHW right? :rolleyes:
     
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    I felt the same way you did but found it easier to change my own attitude rather than to change everybody else's bad attitude.
     
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  14. tygrus

    tygrus Supreme Member

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    Maybe I can just use the word "strongly dislike" and bhw isn't on my list.

    I don't know what causes this, sometimes I think we just live in a ruder and more self centered world and that gets to me.
     
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  15. Rhazha

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    Maybe the most significant information taken out of your "venting" is the fact that what every perceived asshole you see around you,
    Every single person, celebrity, shows, social networking site have ONE THING in common...
    YOU!

    I've been there... more than once, twice...
     
  16. tomster123

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    Harro is right that definitely is the start of social anxiety disorder, I feel nervous in situations involving people I don't know but thats because I feel people look down on me for not having a contracted job.

    It started with how I felt about myself mind, but my advice is to eat and drink well, exercise regularly and just relax, it can be hard but it works for me.
     
  17. Halilovic-Squad

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    BERTBABY says it all...just prefect...
    "I felt the same way you did but found it easier to change my own attitude rather than to change everybody else's bad attitude. "
    ...
    Dude...
    ...your goin` down if u keep it up like that - and it`s a pretty hard way back to the surface. Just to have this metioned.
    The World is a Buttmonkeyplace and it keeps getting worse - but what will you do against it? Bitching around how much everyone and everything sucks?
    Until everyone says that you suck because you are all in all just bitching around bout everything?

    That is exactly why you feel like that - because it`s a circle!!!

    At the moment you just suck too...
    ...you have become/are on the way to become just one of the others.
    Depression is the new AIDS is the new Cancer is the New World Order etc.

    People around here always say that if everybody would sweep their own...
    ...this world would be a pretty clean place.

    Stop bitching around...
    ...step up and look in the mirror.
    Like it? Not? Is it only the others?
    Be happy that you`re able to feel like that - the truth is: It`s an Honor.
    Sounds dumb but if you would have to fight everyday just to exist at minimum scale - you wouldn`t even have time and space to hate all that people.

    Change it - the world is not going to do it for you as its not a person...
    ...and at the end of the day it`s just the way you look at it.
    Change the way you look at things...
    ...the world will not tell you what you see.
    Focus is key.

    I hope you can get a grip of something you really like for yourself and spend time with it as much as u can...to regenerate what makes us "be".

    The glass is never half empty...

    Heads up Bro`...
    ...don`t let yourself down and point out to the ohters around.
    ...they suck - but they don`t care if you stop "being" because you don`t like it or point at them.
    ...YOU will suffer - not the others.

    This Game is yours...
    ...play it!!!
    ...WIN IT!!!
     
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  18. jstover77

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    Man you must deal with some shitty people. Maybe you are just not that friendly, and people subconsciously pick up on the fact that you are actually a dick yourself?

    I do agree with you on the Kate+8, and Jersey Shore though.
     
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    Yes, but the most important thing is do you hate yourself? If you do not, then all else is good.
     
  20. russaus

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    so much hate when you live in the best country in the world. pourquios? (ps. do you hate quebecers too?)