Man I really hate people

bhbfun said:
wow. I actually feel sorry for you, what a waste of a good life. you have time to express who you hate on some INTERNET forum while 97% of the world are still trying just to eat, not get murdered or wiped out in some natural disaster.
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Don't you think the reason 97% of the people can't get enough to eat or survive is because the other 3% are greedy assholes who want it all for themselves. I mean 10s of trillions of dollars were spent on war and economic stimulus in the past 10 years.
 
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tygrus said:
bhbfun said:
wow. I actually feel sorry for you, what a waste of a good life. you have time to express who you hate on some INTERNET forum while 97% of the world are still trying just to eat, not get murdered or wiped out in some natural disaster.
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Don't you think the reason 97% of the people can't get enough to eat or survive is because the other 3% are greedy assholes who want it all for themselves. I mean 10s of trillions of dollars were spent on war and economic stimulus in the past 10 years.
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There's a lot more to it than that, but yeah that's a good point.

And in case anyone wants to see how much a trillion dollars really is here's a pretty cool link. http://www.pagetutor.com/trillion/index.html
 
Wow - This post caught my attention - Well honestly i have the same hates like you do ... but to be true ... be sure that you will not harms any innocent people ....hates and loves etc.. is normal ... u just need to control it ...
 
Wasn't the log cabin Ted Kaczynski's solution? I forget, how did that all end up again?

J/k - but really you shouldn't allow people to get to you. It sounds trite, but why should you give a flying shit about American Idol or some kind in the drive-thru?

In the end the most important people are your friends and family so all you have to do is tolerate the rest of the herd.

Best of luck.
 
It's ironic how this conversation is on a black hat forum. Where we pump out CPA offers, weight loss, ewhoring, ringtones and total BS to the rest of the population.

It's also ironic that I've 'thanked' more people in this thread than anywhere else.

And as for the person saying "97% of people are starving or being killed, and you're on the internet moaning": there always has to be some self righteous, pseudo mother teresa doesn't there. So when I break my leg should I just remind myself that there are people with no legs and I should be happy to have even one? When my mother gets cancer should I be grateful I have the money to buy bread?

Don't start with that BS, it doesn't help. If you want to make the point then fine, and some people may listen, but blasting it out like you did isn't going to change minds.

And it's also interesting how many pyschiatrists and therapists we seem to have among ourselves. Actually, here's a new one: how many of you have seen a therapist or similar?

P.S Tygrus: I totally agree from the top to the bottom.
 
GreyWolf said:
I didn't say I couldn't do anything at all. I said there wasn't much I could have done to make the situation better.

I could certainly have gotten involved, but that most likely would have made the situation worse, not better. No I think the best thing was exactly what I did, which was to let the worker know someone else saw it and thought it was uncalled for as well. Instead of him thinking about the asshole the rest of the night, he got to think about how other people actually do care about things.

As far as your visualization thing goes, ya I do that too sometimes. I'm a pretty easy going guy so I don't dwell on things like that too much anyway though. The story just came to mind because it was pretty recent and it seemed to fit in with the topic of conversation.
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Hey, friend! I did not meant that you should have done that. I said I would have done that. Absolutely meant it that way.:) I understand how so many people see these things and do not get involved... I'm a part of that society too. But I have done what I said I did, and would do it again. It's just the way I felt about that situation, not that I wanted you to do that way. I hate such injustice because I have literally been through that kind of hell. Will tell you sometime about it and how I changed my ways of handling it... and it really got my life moving positively forward once I was able to shed the overpowering over-burdening "little me" inside me. Never implied that you should have done that.
barca said:
I think s/he meant the OP.

Can you tell me more about Imaging? I asked you a question a few posts back, but you may have missed it - only if you've got time of course.
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I know! :) I was just playing along to keep the flames low and take some of the stinging words away from the person to whom those were targeted.

barca said:
Can you expand on this a bit? For example if you lent someone some money that you couldn't really afford, but they promised faithfully they would give it back two weeks later, and a year later you were still waiting, how would you use imaging to improve the situation, and your feelings about it?
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I actually lost a lot that way, even on this great forum in some other form and my best friend almost killed me for "helping" the undeserved... I reasoned with him why I did the foolish act... I haven't recovered the money, I'll never ever recover that for sure, but as I told my friend, the money has no value even to me, or to that other person if the other person simply "used" the condition of his pregnant wife and scammed. There was more I gave (I say this in the most humble way) then along with the money, I prayed for his (scammers) wife's and his yet-to-be born child's happiness, and I KNOW she and her darling baby will get it (the complete happiness) in plenty, with or without the sh*thead scammer benefiting from it... I actually believe in such things... There are many similar cases too, and I have got used to -- getting something very valuable "in kind" for doing such madness. Because...

Again, I'd again give out some more IF my conscience asks me to. About the non-payment part, well, I think of it as inevitable loss when I commit financial suicides but I always add something very positive to the money I give out, always, and that something always comes back to me and my family in amazing amounts and ways. :) Not that I commit financial suicides every now and then unreasonably. :D
 
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stung said:
And it's also interesting how many pyschiatrists and therapists we seem to have among ourselves. Actually, here's a new one: how many of you have seen a therapist or similar?
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I'm actually a graduate in Medicine & Surgery. I became a doctor when probably some one here (!) wasn't even born.:) So, No! It isn't a case of "new" one born few minutes ago, you see. :D I turned away from it when I saw there was more corruption and greed all around where they shouldn't have been. If I had gotten myself involved I would have had a bungalow, car, etc. When it became apparent that I HAD to get along or get out, I opted to get out and then finding a job or do private practice in that field was simply stopped for me because I knew too much and also talked. ... We were expecting our first child then, and I had to take care of my parents too. I was just 28 then... I don't regret the lost "opportunities", or the lost years... the situation brought the best in me... I studied computer programming, did get to top positions in various engineering and software companies, traveled the world, made a small place for myself even on this wild internet. ... I also believe that this is the only post on this good thread that I would never read a second time... Why? You would never understand. No hard feelings :)


And I don't feel such threads or posts are ironic, even on BHW. We're STILL a big wonderful family, and when someone is down or un-pleased with life, we should try to make him feel better, if you can see! :)

Breaking your leg or someone dear having cancer... no, you're not expected to be God or live like Him. You're expected to be passionate human being, loving, caring, doing business when you need to do business, love your family when you are needed or even not needed, and do all your duties... btw, did you stop your, err, night activities when the leg was broken or healing? Then why cry? You're actually required to do whatever you must and in whatever situation to survive... and possibly try to help the needy if you feel like doing it. Make money, have fun, but know the life's secrets!

If you now call me a preacher, I would be more than happy, I don't have a degree in that but I always had the company of a real Great One. I reflect (sometimes, anyway ;)) whatever I learn from Him. Otherwise I'm a very normal human being. :)

Yes, thank you for the mention... I simply admire and worship Mother Theresa! God Bless Her!

My posts on this thread are written with the sole purpose of trying to reason with OP and put him in a positive frame, that's all.
 
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This thread has been very therapeutic for me...LOL.

Anyway, I'm at the library the other day because my laptop is having issues and is being repaired, so I go to use the comps at the local public library.

I can't believe the asinine people and how they act there.

Just what I experienced in the 2 hours I was there is enough to make me never want to go near a library again.

Of course, I recently moved to Arizona from Rhode Island 2 years ago, and let me tell you something: People who think that east coasters are rude haven't been to Arizona!

Anyway, here are just some of the ignorant things I witnessed:

1. Some asshole conducting job interviews on his cell phone at the top of his lungs.

2. A welfare mom dragging her two little brats around like they were ragdolls while they screamed at the top of their lungs.

3. 2 homeless, filthy, smelly scumbags drinking and swearing on one of the couches.

4. A bathroom that had piss all over the floors and an overflowing wastebasket because the library decided to layoff the day maintenance worker to save money.

5. A trailer park trash fat ass father and fat pig daughter fighting over the computer they decided to share.

6. An ignorant piece of shit who thought it alright to steal a chair from another work station so he could sit next to his slutty looking girlfriend and whisper sweet nothings in her ear so that the poor prick who reserved a computer had no chair to sit on.

7. An asshole old man who kept bitching out loud how using a computer was so ridiculous and difficult and how it's such a shame that he had to fill out his job application online.

Should I continue? Because there is more.

The bottom line is that people don't give a shit about anyone else and think that they are the only ones in the world who matter and I'm sick of it!

I thank my lucky stars that the generation who was alive to fight for us in WW2 wasn't like this or this country would be speaking German today.
 
barca said:
I think s/he meant the OP.

Can you tell me more about Imaging? I asked you a question a few posts back, but you may have missed it - only if you've got time of course.
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Hi Barca :)

Here is a crude effort:
OK, Visualization is the technique where you try to "see" and set some goals. There is plenty of material available on "Visualization".

In "Imaging", In your mind (subconscious, actually) you actually put "yourself" in the situation that you want to "happen" and the Imaging is under your complete control. Like a hologram... you're actually inside the hologram doing things your way, while the actual "you" are watching it from outside. Both the "you"s are in complete command. This technique is very advanced but very "doable", It is also the toughest and the easiest to the untrained or trained minds. I hope this short explanation makes sense! :D
 
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you only need to become excessively obsessive and you have a winning strategy to become a millionaire.
 
simplebeans said:
Gosh it suprises me how much traction a thread like this can gain. It seems we are not alone...maybe gibsons qoute was correct!
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Whih quote?
"I was never less alone than while by myself" ??

BTW, you have a great quote by Martin Luther King, Jr. in your signature. :)

If it's Mel Gibson, then I don't want to read it! lol
Code: 
http://www.ranker.com/list/top-10-most-offensive-mel-gibson-quotes-/stupid-celebrity-quotes
J/K!
 
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srb888 said:
Hi Barca :)

Here is a crude effort:
OK, Visualization is the technique where you try to "see" and set some goals. There is plenty of material available on "Visualization".

In "Imaging", In your mind (subconscious, actually) you actually put "yourself" in the situation that you want to "happen" and the Imaging is under your complete control. Like a hologram... you're actually inside the hologram doing things your way, while the actual "you" are watching it from outside. Both the "you"s are in complete command. This technique is very advanced but very "doable", It is also the toughest and the easiest to the untrained or trained minds. I hope this short explanation makes sense! :D
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Yes, it does, thank you. I am going to look it up, it sounds very therapeutic...but I don't know if imaging myself beating the c*** out of someone is what my maker intended ;)
 
barca said:
Yes, it does, thank you. I am going to look it up, it sounds very therapeutic...but I don't know if imaging myself beating the c*** out of someone is what my maker intended ;)
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When you are on the actual plane, you wouldn't even be dreaming of those lines! ;) "God" has all the bases nicely covered up.

P.S.:
It's actually a great para-science -- para = beyond; para science = beyond the realms of science (modern science, as we know it).

The territory of Imaging is still limiting, although it is as vast as you can imagine. The "God" needs to protect his other children too! And if that someone is hurting you, there will be "someone else" to beat the c*** out of him for you if it is divinely justified! :D

I think now we are getting para-BHW, so I should not get beyond our "realm" and I should also complete my other mortal work. lol
 
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So srb, you are saying when people start getting me I should just go to my happy place? :D I would love to.

Honestly folks, this wasn't a rage or violent thread or even a hate thread. I think its more of a disappointment thread. The human race could be capable of such amazing things but we are locked in our daily squabbles and we develop contempt for each other. Rats in a cage.
 
Yes me too! I just did a quick search, there seems to be very little information, but I will dig deeper later on...Thanks so much for your insights.
 
tygrus said:
So srb, you are saying when people start getting me I should just go to my happy place? :D I would love to.

Honestly folks, this wasn't a rage or violent thread or even a hate thread. I think its more of a disappointment thread. The human race could be capable of such amazing things but we are locked in our daily squabbles and we develop contempt for each other. Rats in a cage.
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I think he is saying that by using your mind to create a different type of outcome to a situation you can also change your reality. I am gonna try anyway, because like you I am sick of the rudeness, greed and selfishness I see in just about 90% of the human race, to the point I isolate myself from other people.

It will be an interesting experiment. :cool:

I did not see it as a rage thread, just the point of view of someone who is fed-up with society due to the aforementioned reasons. I liked the thread anyway, as it has shown me I am not alone with experiencing the majority of the human race as 'not particularly very nice' to put it mildly.
 
For every act of rudeness there is an act of kindness that mostly goes unnoticed. When someone acts like a jerk I try to remember when I acted in such a stupid offensive manner. This puts me in their shoes and creates some empathy with the person. And boy have I acted stupidly in the past!

By doing so I realize somebody is having a bad day or is feeling some real pain in their life. It doesn't remove the rudeness but it creates an understanding and makes the act of rudeness less personal or a threat to myself.

It works and I have actually had people ask me what medication am I on? No meds just an attitude adjustment that took years to reach.

Driving an auto is a good example where rudeness knows no bounds on the road and where the isolation in the car removes all of the inherent signals such as a smile that would diffuse a hostile situation. People do all sorts of rude behaviors on the road but I now realize its nothing personal but sheer stupidity or inattentiveness. Really, how could they know me by driving in their car?

Hope this helps, it would take a book to explain this journey thoroughly. Really, if you can't change how do you expect the world to?
 
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