Help me Im Heartbroken

Focus on building yourself up buddy. Don't chase a chick in your 20's, by the time you hit 29/30 and you are solid in your career/business, the 20 year olds will literally throw themselves at you (speaking from experience and I don't even look good). Use your 20's to make yourself into something. And protect those assets when you decide to settle down.

If you really want a good song: Can you Feel My Heart - Bring me the horizon
 
You don´t want a middle aged, gray hair dude with a dad-bod for that. But I know @Willyfish is a fit young guy.
Definetly not the type i would usually go for, but im very open minded and down to try ne thing, let me know. ;)

Focus on building yourself up buddy. Don't chase a chick in your 20's, by the time you hit 29/30 and you are solid in your career/business, the 20 year olds will literally throw themselves at you (speaking from experience and I don't even look good). Use your 20's to make yourself into something. And protect those assets when you decide to settle down.

If you really want a good song: Can you Feel My Heart - Bring me the horizon

Yeah I am going to spend all my energy for bettering myself rn because tbh i feel more satisfaction that way then I did in a relo either way. Also i think bring me the horizon would tear me down a bit too much haha, im over that phase of music haha.
 
hit the gym , do yoga , jog, start walking , add these to your daily routine, and you might start feeling better.
if you both dint have similar thought it would have been difficult to keep the relationship going. so its anyway good you guys broke-up. now focus on your work. still take out time to have some quality time with your friends and family so you dont get bitter ( often breakups change people in different ways)
and m sure someday you ll meet someone with whom your thought will align ;) , cheers
 
Just focus on your ambition and make money, she and every other girl will say latter they love you more than everything.

But if you dont have money, not even stray dogs will love you because you cant feed them.
 
There are millions of beautiful girls all over the world, but there is only ONE you.
Maybe you are right now learning the most essential lesson in your life.
You are the most valuable person in your life and you have to focus on you.
Your personality to develop, your dreams to come true or even closer, your business beeing successfull and your friends being worth sharing your life.
If you focus on these things, you will notice the massive impact it has on your self-confidence, self-esteem and self-love.
Or in short: You will develop a charisma that neither women nor business partners can resist.

Mate, believe an "old" man. I was a master of failed relationships untill I learned this lesson.
 
Thank you bro i am trying my hardest, that was my thoughts exactly, we are always sharing our dreams together about travelling the world and just living free. But.. like... i dont understand what they think sometimes, that they will have the power to do this without going through a period of time where they will need to dedicate there time into building an income? Like obviously if we want to travel the world together and live free we will have to spend a lot, a lot of time working now so that we can reach that goal.. anyways... idk really but thank you for your comment man really appreciate it and it is exactly what i am planning to do.


Thank you brother, Idk i still do believe in love and i dont want to lose hope for now, maybe life will prove me wrong tho and your right.... also, yeah walks and music is great, lmk some of your top songs man my playlist getting old...

Thank you bro i am trying my hardest, that was my thoughts exactly, we are always sharing our dreams together about travelling the world and just living free. But.. like... i dont understand what they think sometimes, that they will have the power to do this without going through a period of time where they will need to dedicate there time into building an income? Like obviously if we want to travel the world together and live free we will have to spend a lot, a lot of time working now so that we can reach that goal.. anyways... idk really but thank you for your comment man really appreciate it and it is exactly what i am planning to do.


Thank you brother, Idk i still do believe in love and i dont want to lose hope for now, maybe life will prove me wrong tho and your right.... also, yeah walks and music is great, lmk some of your top songs man my playlist getting old...
hahaha well i so bad wanted to recommend some music but im not really into sad song thats why, anw my all time favorite sad song ( old but..) back to black by Amy Winehouse, but i think love again by Dua lipa is more suitable for your case and will makes you refresh. enjoy
 
Bro, I’m going to be honest, you’re too obsessed with hustling, you don’t need to be hustling 24/7.

There’s much more to life than working…
 
Going through pretty much the same situation. Just gotta let it go if it affects you and your work. You are young and your prime is yet to come. So just say to yourself "it iss what it iss" and carry on.

In words of Future:
"Chase a check (Chase it), never chase a bitch (Don't chase no bitches)"
The fact that he is in his prime makes it even worse.

He should be enjoying his 20s to the fullest… he’s going to regret it in the future, like I did, after wasting my teenage years, and you cannot make up for it
 
The fact that he is in his prime makes it even worse.

He should be enjoying his 20s to the fullest… he’s going to regret it in the future, like I did, after wasting my teenage years, and you cannot make up for it
What if you waste your 20s and regret you didnt work hard enough to live a comfortable life in your 30s-40s

Because as we age we have less energy and less time to hustle to build enough capital for a worries free life.

Depends on where you come from and your life circumstates, but in my case I wish I didnt party so much in my 20s and worked harder to build my businesess and capital.
 
Now, ask yourself this - you really don't have a few hours a week to go out to a party with your girlfriend?
Are you really working that hard to not be able to afford a few hours to nurture a relationship? A week has 168 hours, maybe dedicate 4-5h for a party once in a while?
 
Hi everyone, well i just broke up with my girl of a year and a half. The relationship just turned into something toxic, she would constantly complain about how we don't do anything like going to parties etc
Good riddance, who tf wants to go parties? get drunk, orgy and other random drugs and shit
no thanks !
trying to build my career as i am only 22 and have a lot to do.
Dw, you are young, focus on your life first, if you dont have a life, htf you gonna raise a family :)
Also please drop some sad/love songs i am currently listening too "she looks just like a dream sped up"
 
Good riddance, who tf wants to go parties? get drunk, orgy and other random drugs and shit
no thanks !

Dw, you are young, focus on your life first, if you dont have a life, htf you gonna raise a family :)

Hahahah, thank you for your kind words. Very nice song pick haha suits my life
 
It sounds like the relationship wasn't healthy for either of you, therefore you should put your own needs and professional objectives first. Taking the time to focus on your self improvement might be a positive move. As for songs "Someone You Loved" by Lewis Capaldi, "All of Me" by John Legend, or "Someone Like You" by Adele.
 
Now, ask yourself this - you really don't have a few hours a week to go out to a party with your girlfriend?
Are you really working that hard to not be able to afford a few hours to nurture a relationship? A week has 168 hours, maybe dedicate 4-5h for a party once in a while?
Well the truth is, I am working a 9-5 during the day which is a must atm so i can survive haha, then as soon as i finish i go to the gym for about an hour, when i finish that and shower/eat it goes to like 7:30, from 7:30-11 i work on my dreams (social media, webistes etc) and then i would meet up with her. The problem is not a party every once in a while. The only thing she would want to do was have fun, which once again is not wrong of her just doesnt work out for me. I had made a deal with her that mon-fri i focus on my work and we just hang out at night and on the weekends we can go on trips/parties, which she accepted but still wasnt enough and she would still complain as if she wanted me to go out with her every single day which to answer your question no i can not.
 
The fact that he is in his prime makes it even worse.

He should be enjoying his 20s to the fullest… he’s going to regret it in the future, like I did, after wasting my teenage years, and you cannot make up for it
I have not wasted my teenage years and had a great childhood, my situation now is very stressful and i am trying hard to help my family through hard times. Also the truth is yes i may be obssesed with my work but tbh i enjoy it, its not like i am bored and depressed, i love my job and it keeps me awake & feeling like I am actually trying. Also you saying i will regret it in the future, are you saying i will fail? Because if I achieve my goals (when*) I believe it will make up for all the time "lost working"
 
There are millions of beautiful girls all over the world, but there is only ONE you.
Maybe you are right now learning the most essential lesson in your life.
You are the most valuable person in your life and you have to focus on you.
Your personality to develop, your dreams to come true or even closer, your business beeing successfull and your friends being worth sharing your life.
If you focus on these things, you will notice the massive impact it has on your self-confidence, self-esteem and self-love.
Or in short: You will develop a charisma that neither women nor business partners can resist.

Mate, believe an "old" man. I was a master of failed relationships untill I learned this lesson.
Love this response man thank you a lot! Glad i get to hear from people like you on these forms
 
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