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I know BHW is good in relationship/dating advices, so:

My best friend sent his girlfriend (8 years together) to Rome, study Italian for a year.
Spent a lot of money, even got into debts.

It's been 5 months and suddenly this bitch met some imposing, tall and handsome 55 years old Italian man and decided that it is her fate.

He is some artist and knows all well known film producers and etc.

My friend is having nightmares due to this situation and does not know what to do.

So what to do? Go to Italy and beat the shit out the oldman? Or quit all communication and wait until she is back?
 
Ask your friends who know you and/or the situation better and can give better advice than an SEO forum.
 
First of all, don't know where you got the idea BHW is good for relationship advice.

Second, people are free to do what they want. So are you. Live your life, it's too short.
 
Its not the old mans fault. It wouldn't bring anything to beat him up. Its the fault of the girl for taking advantage of your friend and now cheating/messing with him.

Advice to your friend: Learn the lesson, move on. The old man is probably just taking advantage of her as well. Promising her stuff etc, playing with her dreams just to get what he wants (probably a young good looking girl on his side). Not worth it in my opinion.

To all the other guys here: Don't spend too much money on girls or even put yourself in debt. You own nobody anything.
 
Come on dude, use some common sense.
He sends her to Italy and she messes around with another guy behind his back?

1) Don't beat this guy up, maybe he doesn't even know about your friend
2) Your friend needs to cut off all his contact and move on if she is messing around with this guy from Italy
3) Stop wasting your time on people that don't value you as much as you value them.

and last but not least:
To all the other guys here: Don't spend too much money on girls or even put yourself in debt. You own nobody anything.
 
that bitch ain't worth a flight to italy :D move on , there is plenty fish in the sea !!
 
“SWIM”

Just take your losses and leave.

Could of been worst

At least you didn't get married.
 
Move on, she doesn't deserve shit.

I am sure when the old man will be done with her, and all her "fantasies" or luxuries will be over, she will come running back to this guy.

What the guy did is called, CARE, that some bitches take for granted and enjoy as if they f**cking OWN it, own everything what man has.
 
it is not me if somebody thought. It is really my friend.

the problem is that he loves her.

Italian man seems good guy, he does not even know that she has a BF.
 
Just tell him to stay with her and pray for her love

j/k...

He could not have prevented or do anything about it. Can only accept and continue his life. Life is all about building acceptance and moving on.

Not accepting or not moving on its 10x worst for one's happiness, than what it actually happened.
 
@soa0611 are you your friend? Tell us ;)

jk

Best advice is to move on man. Them girls are not worth stressing over.
 
@soa0611 are you your friend? Tell us ;)

jk

Best advice is to move on man. Them girls are not worth stressing over.
no, it is not me, thats my old friend
he called me yesterday and told that was going to go to Italy and make a marriage proposal and there is such shit
 
it is not me if somebody thought. It is really my friend.

the problem is that he loves her.

Italian man seems good guy, he does not even know that she has a BF.

so let me get this straight. They were together for 8 years and then she went to study abroad for a year and 5 months later she met an old italian dude, who has a high social status and decided to leave your friend? Is that correct, or are they still together and the old italian dude is just a friend/acquaintance and your friend is just exaggerates the situation?
 
so let me get this straight. They were together for 8 years and then she went to study abroad for a year and 5 months later she met an old italian dude, who has a high social status and decided to leave your friend? Is that correct, or are they still together and the old italian dude is just a friend/acquaintance and your friend is just exaggerates the situation?
she told him that she fell in love with the dude and can't handle this
Italian dude is sophisticated and romantic and my friend is simple and does not give her what she really want
 
Not worthy it. Move on.

Shame he had invested so much time and money into the chick... but at least he didn't marry her and have kids with her.

Cut her lose and move on with your life / "your friend's life".
 
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