My gf left me after loooong time :(

[venixx]

I was in the same spot as you 1.5y ago and the breakup was the best thing that could happen to me. I was broke, lazy mfker with no ambitions and the break up opened my eyes and i started working on myself. I started going to the gym, working hard on my IM projects and guess what, now I'm the most happy than I ever been. I should thank that girl for breaking up with me lol.

Edit: And the bitches are nice

 

[jazzc]

BHS - Broken Heart Section

Big Hard Weiners section sounds appropriate.

 

[Skyzo]

"and i recently found out that some guy from work where she works, is hitting on her and that she agreed to go out with him to see if he is good"

That's probably the reason why she left. While you were fighting over and over again, this guy was building his way up to her. Anyway, I'm sorry for the breakup, but that's how relationships are. My advice is if you really wanna move on, delete anything that has any relation with this girl (social media/text messages...). Start doing something new to get out of the routine (go to the gym, have some trips, make new friends...). Your goal now should be improving yourself and making yourself a better person, in every possible aspect. When working on this goal during the next few years, I'm sure you'll encounter another girl and fall in love again.

Stay strong!

 

[jazzc]

I really don't know main reason, she changed a lot when she started working which was like 1 year ago...

It's not an ancient civilizations mystery. Two possible scenarios:

* She got exposed to men, figured out you're not one of them, proceeds to secure one.

* She wants to get married, proceeds to find suitable sucker.

At the very least you should be happy she respected you enough to tell you about it before getting pregnant

 

[IamNRE]

You should get back at her.

Do you have her mom's, sister's, cousin's or best friend's facebook page?

jk, that's life kid.... cry a bit, eat a bit, wank a bit... and move on, you'll find someone else.

 

[knopper]

Congrats Man, Now you can work more focused on your projects
I know It Hurts but Why feel bad for the one who doesn't deserve your Love?

 

[Billy Batts]

Welcome to the real world! I have had my heart broken a couple times and it fucking sucks!! After the last time about 8 years ago I haven't had a real serious relationship anymore, just a girl here and there and currently I don't even want a relationship. Too much of a hassle that cuts into my IM time.

MGTOW

 

[jazzc]

Welcome to the real world! I have had my heart broken a couple times and it fucking sucks!! After the last time about 8 years ago I haven't had a real serious relationship anymore, just a girl here and there and currently I don't even want a relationship. Too much of a hassle that cuts into my IM time.

@Billy Batts contemplating in his office:

 

[LexLuthor]

In times like these, I always remember what my father said about woman and relationships...

"There is always a new Ferrari every year!"

 

[Phoenion]

I get you - remove her from all social media and ignore her when she calls and texts. Find someone else

I don't think she'll call or text.. girls are just like that
It's been more than a week since she tried contacting me..
More than my crush she was my best friend for more than a 12 years.. and still she's ignorant..

 

[Dresden]

Thanks for all messages but i really thought this was place to share this..i know all of you would say come on life is life, go party and find another and another etc...but after 6 years with someone it is not that easy at all...
I really don't know main reason, she changed a lot when she started working which was like 1 year ago...we didn't have too much time to be together, we only saw each other for like 1-2h per day sometimes not even that..but sometimes we also saw each other for 4-5-6 h etc... So my guess she cooled down from me and maybe lots of boys started hitting on her through this time and she felt wanted again, and also people from work for sure told her for example that maybe i am not for her, or there are other guys bla bla...because when she was working i was out with my friends but no around women etc...and she didn't like that too much...she always said that since i am younger i would find someone else but she knew how much i love her and she loved me more then anything...i know that but in this 1 year all that changed and now i just can't get over this that i lost her...maybe it is for the best maybe not...anyhow i feel super bad now

Sorry to hear this OP. Me and my girlfriend are together for over 6 years now and I would definitely feel the same if something like that were to happen.
I'm pretty sure she met someone at work because that's where most affairs occur. It's going to be hard in the beginning but you'll get better with time. I'd recommend spending very little time alone and mostly with friends as it'll help keep your mind off her.

 

[Med Faker]

Maan! i have a first date tattooed on body and i'm doing fine without her take this quote and carry it with you
"If It Hurts, It Isn't Love"

 

[Heiko]

After long time i don't even have courage to say how many years(but over 6 years), my gf left me because she said that she wants to try to move on and find someone who she thinks is for her...like our relationship didn't go, etc...although she is right 10% for that i am not ok for that and i am very bumped now...it has been over 10 days now but i still can't get over that..
I feel in love when i was only 18 years old with this girl and she was older then me few years, but i never wanted this to be obstacle with us and she agreed and everything was going out nicely..we had fights here and then but never to the point that i leave her or that she leaves me for good...we had minor breakups for 1-2 days but eventually all came to happy ending....but now after she told me let's go only on break to see how it works out, i agreed and after 10 days she said no i said break up for good and not like pause....so i asked why etc and she said she don't want to go back to old things(me) and that she wants to find someone who is more fit for here sort of speak and i recently found out that some guy from work where she works, is hitting on her and that she agreed to go out with him to see if he is good...that is even more stressful for me and my feelings.

I still love her and she knows that, but she is acting now like she is hurt for some reason and like her feelings are hurt etc and she wants something new....i know for sure that people from work told her that this is good and that she should move on, even though that is not their business because i am not like that...

I feel like someone told her to do this and she is acting all weird etc, because in this period when we were together, neither of us cheated that was for sure...like i said we had fights like all couples do but never to this point. And she broke this somehow saying okay listen it is better if we are on pause...and we were and then she said no no i meant break up there is no pause bla bla and like she is over more, like for months she was preparing etc...My only thought is that for months she was maybe seeing or talking with that other guy or with someone else but she didn't tell me that or i don't know, my head is in mess now

Anyhow, i wanted to share this with you, since lot of you have similar feelings and similar past relationships and i really want to hear what you have to say.

Sorry for longer text...

6 years is very long dude, sorry about that.

Especially in the first few days and weeks it will be very hard to deal with all the feelings you get. Anxiety, emotional pain and other stuff. Your first step is already done, because the way you can heal is by talking about it. I am into personal development and i am currently working on a degree in personal development and peak performance (relationships is a huge part of it).
I offer you my help over PM to get through this hard time, for free of course - Because there will be a lot of stuff you are going through in the next couple weeks and months especially after such a long relationship. Many of the people here already gave good advice but if you would still like to accept my offer, feel free to PM me.

Don't worry - There are still a lot of Girls out there that would love to talk with you

and if you are broke as fuck like I was, I mean if you have not hv even single cent to spend I again recommend you to start masturbation.

This is the weirdest advice i have ever read on this forum..

 

[dabz5]

The main point in this is that you made her feel secure with you, secure enough for her to start searching for other men and to dump you eventually. If you give the people the security they will end up fucking you up big time.

 

[bluebellehaojue]

Let her go. Spend more time for yourself for now.

 

[-Sylar-]

You can always start playing a game, become pro gamer and earn money and conquer the world

 

[b1step-ahead]

"and i recently found out that some guy from work where she works, is hitting on her and that she agreed to go out with him to see if he is good"

whats the companies name? We can all call/email thier hr and report a home wrecker.

 

[-Sylar-]

"and i recently found out that some guy from work where she works, is hitting on her and that she agreed to go out with him to see if he is good"

whats the companies name? We can all call/email thier hr and report a home wrecker.

All BHW members reporting him?

 

[Mariothecashcow]

All good things come to an end sadly brother, life is a good and beautiful thing, but that at some point comes to an end ️also.

My point im getting to really is that we must experience both up and downs. You can never appreciate true happiness fully if you have never been sad, and suffered pain.

Love is a 2 way thing, and can only work if it's equal. I think ️maybe in time you may appreciate her decision, not now but in time. She is only doing what she FEELS is right for her, and that is no crime. Time is a healer buddy, but now you must focus on you, and build yourself the way you vision YOURSELF.


Hope you feel better soon mate

 

[b1step-ahead]

All BHW members reporting him?

It would be fucken epic. Hey at the end of the day we all stick together in some crazy fucked up way.

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