lawrencelau
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1. don't because of one tree, scarify the whole jungle.
2. time will cure you, trust me.
2. time will cure you, trust me.
My gf left me after loooong time :(
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Bro, life is short. Enjoy it!
Think about it: You are not married with her, you don't have children with her. Maybe you are lucky, at this moment, because she's gone. Trust me, it would be worst if she make this step after a 20-30's years marriage ( with children, trust and stuff ). This is a hard moment of your life, but it's not an impossible change for you ( in fact, I think nothing is impssible - it's just a challenge of life .. ).
What to do now?
Concentrate on yourself: Do business and make money. Travel. Visit your family. Go and party with your friends. Also, as I've discover, if you do volunteer things ( help old people, help children, etc ), you will feel 9999% better and your self respect will increase, and maybe you will find a girl good for you in this circle. Anyway, like I said, maybe it is better for you now.
I wish you healthy life and good business!
Think about it: You are not married with her, you don't have children with her. Maybe you are lucky, at this moment, because she's gone. Trust me, it would be worst if she make this step after a 20-30's years marriage ( with children, trust and stuff ). This is a hard moment of your life, but it's not an impossible change for you ( in fact, I think nothing is impssible - it's just a challenge of life .. ).
What to do now?
Concentrate on yourself: Do business and make money. Travel. Visit your family. Go and party with your friends. Also, as I've discover, if you do volunteer things ( help old people, help children, etc ), you will feel 9999% better and your self respect will increase, and maybe you will find a girl good for you in this circle. Anyway, like I said, maybe it is better for you now.
I wish you healthy life and good business!
mezzofanti
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It's not shame to fall down. Not getting up is another story...
Travel, practice sport (gym was mentioned few times), make money online or offline, learn foreign languages, get drunk, date few 'morally questionable ladies' etc.
Suck it up and work on yourself....
Travel, practice sport (gym was mentioned few times), make money online or offline, learn foreign languages, get drunk, date few 'morally questionable ladies' etc.
Suck it up and work on yourself....
I hate to be the one to break the bad news to you, she's been banging him for ages. The reason she left you. Forget about her, you are probably too good for her.
galeon
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Hey brother. I know it hurts like hell. My ex GF and I were together for 6 years as well, but we fought constantly. After many many many many micro breakupa, I end up ending this ( I persued her several months after, but thank GOD she never wanted to come back) why? Because exactly 2 years later I met the most amazing, no, T H E most amazing girl I would have ever lie eyes upon. I mean, my ex would get mad at me for playing video games, my current GF not only thinks I should play video games (for instance if she knows I had a rough day she will cook something for me and tell me just to relax and play some games), but she actually wants me to teach her so we can play together.
I know it hurts like fk, I spent 2 years without touching a single woman (not even when they were drunk at my place I could muster the courage to even kiss them), until this girl came along.
It's not impossible, hang in there bro and if you play some video games (like heroes of the Storm or battlerite or gwent) then PM me and let's play together
Best of lucks
I know it hurts like fk, I spent 2 years without touching a single woman (not even when they were drunk at my place I could muster the courage to even kiss them), until this girl came along.
It's not impossible, hang in there bro and if you play some video games (like heroes of the Storm or battlerite or gwent) then PM me and let's play together
Best of lucks
b1step-ahead
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Glad you took the subtle being around the bush approach.
b1step-ahead
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I guess she didn't want to hodl. Sorry couldn't resist. Call up some old friends and go out for the next 30 days
That's fuck all matey, me and the missus have been together for 23 years (since she was 21) and we're splitting up. Just arrived at this decision this monday.
It's fucking tough but you need (in order to move on) to accept that it hasn't been all amazing and you haven't been some standup guy and she's a bitch, you need to analyse where you went wrong.
For me - in front of a computer 24/7 for the last 10 years while she's working a job and meeting loads of people, lots of friends and a big social circle.
I'm like a recluse, don't know anyone, want to know anyone, or see anyone - she's like mrs outgoing, I'm like a fucking hermit crab - it's pissed her off, I sit here drinking and talking to no one, she wants more.
I'm the twat she's the hero.
I've just let go the best thing that's ever happened to me in my entire life and I've realised it's all my fault.
And it still hurts like a bastard.
The perils of being an "internet entrepreneur".
It's fucking tough but you need (in order to move on) to accept that it hasn't been all amazing and you haven't been some standup guy and she's a bitch, you need to analyse where you went wrong.
For me - in front of a computer 24/7 for the last 10 years while she's working a job and meeting loads of people, lots of friends and a big social circle.
I'm like a recluse, don't know anyone, want to know anyone, or see anyone - she's like mrs outgoing, I'm like a fucking hermit crab - it's pissed her off, I sit here drinking and talking to no one, she wants more.
I'm the twat she's the hero.
I've just let go the best thing that's ever happened to me in my entire life and I've realised it's all my fault.
And it still hurts like a bastard.
The perils of being an "internet entrepreneur".
buyingtech
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WOW thank you all for the true effort...i didn't realize this thread will be sooo active
Sorry if i acted like some "pussy" writing this, but this helped me a lot knowing some of you really care...i mean all of you care, but some are more clear what they say
I know it will be hard, but damn i didn't know it will be hard this way...As for the work and agency, i don't know who that guy is, so maybe he is working somewhere near etc but that is what i found out...anyhow , maybe it is good for me to stop even talk with her via message, because sometimes she says how are you, and how are things and she always say, if you need help getting through this, i am here to help in that way but only as friend etc....WTF that would be even worse for me...imagine going there and she hugs me and says listen just move on etc that would be crazy
Thank you so much for good and funny comments i know this part will be hard but as you always say, life is bitch!
Sorry if i acted like some "pussy" writing this, but this helped me a lot knowing some of you really care...i mean all of you care, but some are more clear what they say
I know it will be hard, but damn i didn't know it will be hard this way...As for the work and agency, i don't know who that guy is, so maybe he is working somewhere near etc but that is what i found out...anyhow , maybe it is good for me to stop even talk with her via message, because sometimes she says how are you, and how are things and she always say, if you need help getting through this, i am here to help in that way but only as friend etc....WTF that would be even worse for me...imagine going there and she hugs me and says listen just move on etc that would be crazy
Thank you so much for good and funny comments i know this part will be hard but as you always say, life is bitch!
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Pixel Groot
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Same condition of you, mate
buyingtech
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Worst thing here is that she acts now like she got over this quickly and like she is teaching me to move on like she is my friend all along and not gf and life partner for over 6 years...so that is worst part...i know harder would be if i saw her with someone else and she didn't tell me that, i would be pissed or something similar so this is gentle condition, and i am aware of that...but fuck it hurts
pibaduck
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If you feel like the reason for you guys breaking up is that she thought that you're not enough for her anymore, then let her go. the one who truly loves you will accept you no matter what you are. If the love between both of you that existed is genuine, you should've helped each other grow. instead, she left, milked your tits and says your milk was not good for her anymore.
Move on man. she's not worth it. its not your loss. pain is temporary.
Move on man. she's not worth it. its not your loss. pain is temporary.
bossofthebosses
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Time is the best healer. Let the time go. Pass the time. Do some good things/find some good habits. Like gardening/gym/walking/running/spending time with your friends/watching movies - just let the time pass anyhow (but DO NOT DO DRUGS). U can also try to do some social work etc. Do not think about anything else, just let the time pass.
Bread
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I don't think she'll call or text.. girls are just like that
It's been more than a week since she tried contacting me..
More than my crush she was my best friend for more than a 12 years.. and still she's ignorant..
Yeah I get you, honestly you just have to move on. All of this getting in your feelings is nice, but eventually you have to be real with yourself and know she's not coming back - if she is don't get back together with her.
Delete her (don't block) off of everything and get back out there. Achieve financial success, make business moves. A lot of guys I know claim to have good game with women, and get finessed out of their money via a marriage then divorce. Don't be like that, use your head
ScribScribScrib
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bro, women play these 420 IQ games with us males, you cannot stop the pain.After long time i don't even have courage to say how many years(but over 6 years), my gf left me because she said that she wants to try to move on and find someone who she thinks is for her...like our relationship didn't go, etc...although she is right 10% for that i am not ok for that and i am very bumped now...it has been over 10 days now but i still can't get over that..
I feel in love when i was only 18 years old with this girl and she was older then me few years, but i never wanted this to be obstacle with us and she agreed and everything was going out nicely..we had fights here and then but never to the point that i leave her or that she leaves me for good...we had minor breakups for 1-2 days but eventually all came to happy ending....but now after she told me let's go only on break to see how it works out, i agreed and after 10 days she said no i said break up for good and not like pause....so i asked why etc and she said she don't want to go back to old things(me) and that she wants to find someone who is more fit for here sort of speak and i recently found out that some guy from work where she works, is hitting on her and that she agreed to go out with him to see if he is good...that is even more stressful for me and my feelings.
I still love her and she knows that, but she is acting now like she is hurt for some reason and like her feelings are hurt etc and she wants something new....i know for sure that people from work told her that this is good and that she should move on, even though that is not their business because i am not like that...
I feel like someone told her to do this and she is acting all weird etc, because in this period when we were together, neither of us cheated that was for sure...like i said we had fights like all couples do but never to this point. And she broke this somehow saying okay listen it is better if we are on pause...and we were and then she said no no i meant break up there is no pause bla bla and like she is over more, like for months she was preparing etc...My only thought is that for months she was maybe seeing or talking with that other guy or with someone else but she didn't tell me that or i don't know, my head is in mess now
Anyhow, i wanted to share this with you, since lot of you have similar feelings and similar past relationships and i really want to hear what you have to say.
Sorry for longer text...
Best thing to do right now is to find ten hookers, fornicate all of them and than you'll be able to think a lot clearer. I'm more afraid of one vindictive woman than ten armed men and I'm not even joking or anything.
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