You will burn out!

Great post and actually super important matter in my opinion. Especially when it comes to SEO it can be frustrating sometimes. For example when a new update is on its way.

I am working countless hours with my computer as well. Doing sports at evening is important to me. Sometimes going to a park without my phone or laptop and just relax. Escaping the virtual world and getting back into the real world.
 
op please help me out... i am literally losing everyone around me because i kept focusing on 1 single project idea. it requires so much energy... that i had to find a friend to do it with me. we are coding on it for months. there is too much to do and the difficulty is beyond extreme levels. i am not telling this to anyone because they wont understand. they are starting to leave me as a friend because i detach from contacts in order to remain in focus towards my goal. no one understands what and why i am doing this for... if i dont do this then i would rather not be alive at all. how to balance life with friends and female friends + still managing to remain in the focused frame towards the end goal?
 
op please help me out... i am literally losing everyone around me because i kept focusing on 1 single project idea. it requires so much energy... that i had to find a friend to do it with me. we are coding on it for months. there is too much to do and the difficulty is beyond extreme levels. i am not telling this to anyone because they wont understand. they are starting to leave me as a friend because i detach from contacts in order to remain in focus towards my goal. no one understands what and why i am doing this for... if i dont do this then i would rather not be alive at all. how to balance life with friends and female friends + still managing to remain in the focused frame towards the end goal?


There is nothing wrong with working towards a goal.

Around you there will be people who support your dream and people who dont.

Unfortunately it will be hard to distinguish which is which.

Make a written plan and start at the end.

Write down what the finished product will be.

Write down how long it should take you to complete.

Work your way back and set a goal for the end of each month.

For example;

Six months from now the app will be complete.

Five months from now the UX will be tested and approved.

Four months from now the final touches will be put on the program.

Three months from now the database will be connected and the program will be 80% complete.

Two months from now the framework will be in place.

Six weeks from now we will have completed the first designs and know how we want the program to look and the design to be.

It will be written down.

Monday to Thursday we will work 12 hour days.

Everyday we will complete so much work.

Every Friday we finish early and go out for a meal and have a relaxed evening.

Every Saturday I will go to the park for a walk and do one thing I enjoy which doesn't involve a phone or computer.

I apologise for the typos I am on my phone and my fingers aren't built for touch-screen.
 
op please help me out... i am literally losing everyone around me because i kept focusing on 1 single project idea. it requires so much energy... that i had to find a friend to do it with me. we are coding on it for months. there is too much to do and the difficulty is beyond extreme levels. i am not telling this to anyone because they wont understand. they are starting to leave me as a friend because i detach from contacts in order to remain in focus towards my goal. no one understands what and why i am doing this for... if i dont do this then i would rather not be alive at all. how to balance life with friends and female friends + still managing to remain in the focused frame towards the end goal?

I think this is one of the most important aspects. Schedule some time to manage the social aspects of life because contrary to a lot of people's beliefs, money typically comes second in everyone's life. What fun is money if you're locked in a room 24/7? If you really look at the OP's list, it all boils down to keeping YOU energized, healthy and sane. Personally, I break every rule on this list, and it's not good. The longer I drift, the harder it is to eat crow and re-establish relationships. It takes a toll on everything I do from top to bottom and it stacks up fast. If it's to the point where it actually makes you question your existence, there is a good chance it's already effecting your work. Start today, even if it's just a quick PM to a close friend just to let them know that while locked away somewhere working that you're actually wishing you were out somewhere with them. A lot of times the small random gestures have a huge impact.
 
Burn out is a real thing in any profession and in life and our mental health needs to be treated better as a society. It really is so important that you talk about burn out. It's about continuing to bring awareness to it. Cus we will forget about it and sadly society doesn't value it because its still a taboo topic, but the only way to break the taboo is to keep creating discussions about it and thinking up solutions to the problems that cause it and the problems it causes.
 
I can totally agree.

I ended up quitting my corporate job after ending up in the hospital in December. I woke up at 7, rarely went to bed before 3 AM. Every week day. I couldn't enjoy weekends. I passed out while out after work and that's when I said no more.

A few months later I'm now starting up my own real estate business and although money is a little low, I value my health a lot more than working some bullshit 9-5 for a big ass company which will never value you no matter how much dedication and work you put in.

Fuck corporate.
 
A few golden nuggets in this article. Especially, planning and focusing. I really need to do this more often. Worth reading again!
 
I literally said fuck it and have a small urge to quit.
But then i sleep, and then got back to learning again.
Thank you very much for sharing
 
We all have an urge to quit.

We hear that voice in our head 'is it worth it', 'you will never make money at this', 'why are you wasting your time'.

Our reaction to that voice is what will make us or break us.

Trust me, lately I have been hearing it a lot. But, if I don't try I will never know.

I would rather fail trying my hardest than fail not trying at all.
 
I literally said fuck it and have a small urge to quit.
But then i sleep, and then got back to learning again.
Thank you very much for sharing
Seriously dude, never stop learning. The day you stop, you are old. ;)
 
This is what kind of posts I like to see on BHW. P.s, don't forget to make this an eBook and start charging people for it. lol

Kudos to you OP.
 
This is what kind of posts I like to see on BHW. P.s, don't forget to make this an eBook and start charging people for it. lol

Kudos to you OP.

Part two will be $9.99

'How to sleep like a guru'
 
Thank for sharing.
Many people dont understand how tiring it is not only to sit all day but to constantly think hard lol
I believe its easier to do manual labor over mental work while in front of a PC
 
This really resonated with me, especially the last section. Working on my business keeps me online for hours others don't understand, especially family. Rather than trying to make them understand what I'm doing behind that screen for so long, I've found just being empathetic to why they feel neglected and taking that offline time to improve those areas really adds balance to my personal life.
 
Knew most of these but thanks for sharing with the community...it's really important to stay healthy mentally and physically in this industry.
 
Thanks for the advice. I can also add that you need to write all your day experience before you go sleep. Just analyze your good and bad things of the day and think how you will improve them the next day
 
Working behind a computer for hours on end isn't easy (regardless of what some may think).
Having to be creative, writing for hours constantly, it will take its toll.

Inevitably, you will burn out at some point. It happens, it is life, and it is OK.

I have had a few instances in my lifetime. I often wake at 6 am and I am on the go until 11 pm. I can usually manage this throughout the week. By Saturday though, I need a couple of hours to myself.

I don't usually get it, but I switch off for a little bit. It helps.
There are a few things I do now, which help me keep going without having burnouts. Things that help me stay more creative, less clustered and able to keep working and keep organized.

  • Keep your workplace tidy
Keeping your workplace tidy may sound simple, but many of us don't. I work from home and my office room can get stuffy, and cluttered with bills and paperwork.

When I find I am working a little less productively, I clean my desk area, open the window and hoover my room. This helps declutter not only my working area but also my mind.

Another place I like to keep tidy is my desktop. Regularly reading new things and downloading new files I often save them to my home screen. It can start to look like a magazine cover.

At the end of the week, I go through it and delete what I don't need. The rest will go into organized folders. Decluttering your home screen will help you focus, and you will not get distracted from the porn you downloaded.

Once a week me and my wife will go through the house and we will have a total clear up. I will hoover the entire house and it feels really therapeutic. You will feel like a new person.

If you work in an office then keeping your desk area tidy shows great initiative, making sure your desk is clear of paperwork by the of the day is an excellent sign to your boss that you are not only organized but productive also.

This will stop your mind becoming bogged down from the energy around you.

  • Try to eat a bit better
This is a hard one. I will admit I struggle. Thank god though, my will power is quite strong when I want it to be. Eating and drinking crap will dampen your creativity and will fuck with your energy levels.

Eating cleaner and healthier foods plus drinking plenty of water will keep your energy levels stable throughout the day. Will allow you to work longer without your energy levels dipping up and down and will also help you to feel better.

This will help you stay creative and have more energy to battle fatigue.

  • Move every hour
This is a big one. My chiropractor helped me with this one. Sitting for long periods ruins your posture, and I have found it doesn't do your stomach much benefit either.

Every hour get up and move. Have a walk around the office or grab some water. If you want to improve on this further, then before you start work every morning go for a brisk walk. This is one of my favorite things to do and my preferred route is three miles.

This will stop you from becoming sedentary in the workplace and keep you creative. Keeping your blood pumping will keep oxygen flowing.

  • Take some time to yourself
I have a wife and two young children. I love spending time with them, but I do also need time to myself. When you're continually doing things for other people, you will neglect your own physical and mental health.

Take a couple of hours once a week and do something you want to do. This doesn't include your gym time or hobby time. This is just a time when you do nothing. Watch a film or read a book. Take a bike ride and switch off from the world.

This will recoup your energy and give you some time away from thinking about the demands of work and family.

  • Plan your day
I wake at 6 am and I have some structure to my day. My time management efficiency is improving week on week. That isn't just by accident though; I actively work to improve my time management.

Know what are your most important tasks for the week and break them down into days.

Then break them down into hours.

When working keep your phone away from you and close all other browsers on your desktop apart from the ones you need.

This will help you focus and you will get done what you need to get done.

  • Focus on one thing
If you are always chasing new ideas, new avenues of revenue you will lose focus and you will never become successful. Almost all people who have found success find it through mastering a skill and working at it until they are well recognized for their brilliance.

This keeps your mind clear to focus on what you need to get done. If you write content then, write content, don't find a new million dollar idea every week and chase it for three weeks before finding another.

This is something I learned through experience. Trying to focus on too many projects will lead you to total failure unless of course your time management skills are fantastic! But for most, that isn't the reality.

This will help you develop a skill which you can then go onto charge a lot of money for.


Just remember, you will never be remembered for the hours you worked. You will only be remembered for the birthdays you miss, the first days of school, the times you worked 18 hours a day while your kids had to entertain themselves.

It is essential to take in life, especially if you have a family. Make sure you have a switch off time, I like to work hard through the week then the weekend I spend time with the family.

I am lucky because during the week I get to do the school run and lunch times. For those of you who aren't as lucky then remember to make memories not just money.

All the best, people.
Focus on one thing. This is so true.
If you think your method to earn from ads isn't working, apply twist but focus on the goal which is to make money off Ads
 
I agree with you OP. Everyone needs to have tame for themself. Many people put money before their health and thats a big problem. They realize after its to late
 
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