First of all
@SonnyXD welcome to BHW.
I'm not talking to you directly, just wanted to share my $0.2 when it comes to
"questioning vs trying".
You know, we see successful people all the time, and instead of
trying to replicate
(not literally) what they do, we ask questions about
"how they do it".
It's a huge difference between
trying and
questioning...
Trying = Progress = Chance of success
Questioning = Failure = People that will always finish their projects with
"it's just hard" and continue finding the way to
"ask questions"
How does he do this? How they do that? How... Just how?!
I get the point where most people will wait and search all their life for the "how-to - from dot A to dot B" step-by-step guide,
instead of creating their own, but...
Unless you try and fail and try and fail and guess what...?
You try and FAIL the next 5 or 55 times, you ain't gonna find the answers!
1st Fail = You get to know 5% out of 100%
2nd Fail = You get to know 10%
3rd Fail = You at 20%
After 3rd failure unfortunately over 80% of people will just stop, a small % will try something different, huge % will simply vanish from the Internet.
If you keep pushing after 4th and 5th fail,
mark my word, you can feel that success is so close!
And that's where the difference is made when we see 9 out of 10 people on the internet who say something doesn't work while that 1 succeeds in the end because he didn't ask but created his plan of action and after a few falls matured in his head and realized how things work.
Once you break through these barriers, you will come across your unique method of work that no one but you knows!
Sounds good and simple, right?
I know, and we're not so stupid that we can't understand these things, but sometimes, as I've said many times, sometimes we need someone to say what we already know in order to understand the point of the final goal.
And no, I ain't trying to be a smart ass cause I've been there myself, anyway...
When something gets my attention I ain't gonna ask questions, I will go all in and find the answers myself!
My point is, instead of focusing on
"how he did it", we already know it's possible,
what are we waiting for...?