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Dearhmmmm I am sure I shared my pool video in the lounge. Not sure when.![]()
Dearhmmmm I am sure I shared my pool video in the lounge. Not sure when.![]()
Wait till I send a screenshot of this to your wife.Honey
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Honey
At the risk of my own dignity, I’ll transparently say I don’t have many friends these days.
I probably have 2-3 genuine friends - the rest have gone onto college or married. Most of my social circle has sort or deteriorated after high school. And I don’t think that’s abnormal - I’m not some sort of freak recluse, it’s just that most of my friends have done their own thing.
My girlfriend went on a family vacation this week, and I realized something… Most of my current friends are directly from her social circle. Makes me feel like a bit of a mooch.
Since she wasn’t around, I decided to go to a bar completely alone.
Might not sound like much, but I read in a book before that the best skill a man can master is the ability to be content alone. This was probably 2-3 years ago - I’ve never mustered the courage to actually do it. It just petrified me for some reason.
Tonight I did it.
It was a fucking blast. Didn’t go in with any expectations - just wanted to prove to myself I could do it. I had a few shots beforehand, and ended up shooting the shit with some random dude about stocks, marketing, and the politics. Had a girl hit on me, but I quickly shut her down and kept conversating with a newly made friend.
I was worried I’d look like some kind of weirdo - but it was quite the opposite. I don’t even know why I’m posting this, but I highly recommend trying it.
It’s very fulfilling.
Never.alone
Seriously, If I stayed in your state, I’d be visiting your house often for those shrimp dishes my man.You guys keep this up and I may go to a bar alone tonight.
Seriously, If I stayed in your state, I’d be visiting you house often for those shrimp dishes my man.![]()
Awesome words. Some stupid people still go with the “men only”. Well, fuck you, the family is more than what you earn. Respect your wife, mother and sister and the girl next door. Or, the world won’t be free.A girl is allowed to have her personal space and time. Being in a relationship doesn't mean you have to spend 24/7/365 together.
I can cook some seafood as I grew up on the Jersey Shore where we always had fresh fish of one kind or another and you are welcome in our home at any time even if you do not live here.
3 blocks from the river where the fishing boats docked and a mile from the Ocean... best life for any kid.
Definitely give it a shot man. I know it seems weird at first - like I said, the thought itself of attending any social place alone petrified me. That's why I pre-gamed and had a few drinks beforehand - it definitely helped. If you want to make friends and increase your sociability you have to put yourself in uncomfortable situations sometimes.That's a great step you took OP. I would also like to try what you did. As in my case, I would always try to get the things done/ done what I came for when I go a to a place rather than waiting around chilling, but the thing is I also like to casually wait and pass some time.
While Bar is a great place to make new friends, in my culture not that much of a great place I think (or since I haven't tried I might have never known). But really enjoyed your story, please continue with your expedition.
I'm the complete opposite. I smoked a bit of weed in my teen years - eventually I began to experience paranoia, and now I hate it. Can't enjoy it at all - not to mention it decreases productivity. If I want to relax, usually my poison of choice is a shot of fireball and a nice cider. They go together beautifully.Never went a bar alone because I am a weed guy more than a alchol xD
It was a fucking blast. Didn’t go in with any expectations - just wanted to prove to myself I could do it. I had a few shots beforehand, and ended up shooting the shit with some random dude about stocks, marketing, and the politics. Had a girl hit on me, but I quickly shut her down and kept conversating with a newly made friend.
I was worried I’d look like some kind of weirdo - but it was quite the opposite. I don’t even know why I’m posting this, but I highly recommend trying it.
It’s very fulfilling.
Oh you already know I’m gonna be going back! Maybe experiment with a bit of offline marketing (I carry business cards in my wallet for this exact reason).Glad you had a blast. Time to venture to round 2.... It gets better.
Good luck! And you got it...Oh you already know I’m gonna be going back! Maybe experiment with a bit of offline marketing (I carry business cards in my wallet for this exact reason).
No expectations though.
I like you bassMy tolerance for abusing others is quite low and especially when they target a fellow staff member.
That person can feel free to to to Redddit and clown about but their presence is not something that BHW thinks is best for the community.
I like you bass
Just doing my job.That guy you banned was really weird
Everything is bad mate. If you eat more sugar you can get diabetics. It dosent matter weed or alchol. If we in our limits then we can enjoy the poisons and life together.I'm the complete opposite. I smoked a bit of weed in my teen years - eventually I began to experience paranoia, and now I hate it. Can't enjoy it at all - not to mention it decreases productivity. If I want to relax, usually my poison of choice is a shot of fireball and a nice cider. They go together beautifully.