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You can try other things online. If you still see no success, continue with job. You can see good growth there also and live a happy life. Majority takes the same route only.
You can try other things online. If you still see no success, continue with job. You can see good growth there also and live a happy life. Majority takes the same route only.
I don't actually know what kind of attitude you have but here's mine :
I won't give up for 1 second never ever ever.
I mean sure, sometimes things don't work. If you are not good with dropshipping yeah maybe try something else but never give up in that luxury life or that perfect happy job you are looking for.
If you're not in the #3 group, you're in the #1 group IMO. Comfort is boring, and that's what #2 is. 5-6 years of "failure" is 5-6 years of experience figuring out what DOESN'T work. So use that knowledge and push ahead until you hit #3.
Even then, you probably won't be satisfied, which is a good thing, IMO - keep going and pushing yourself. If you give up at the #2 stage you're in now, you're not much better off than being in the #1 group ("it's very difficult for me to get up in the morning every fucking day and I don't like where I live (the city)" - this should be all the motivation you need to keep working towards a better life).
I disagree with you.
There are 2 kind of lives. The miserable one (created by the others) or the good one (the one created by yourself).
Let me tell you my own story in few sentences....
I am a programmer for 12 years and since the beginnings I have been working for me and myself only. I have never worked in any other company. In 2016 I opened my own company for web design and internet marketing... That was the happiest moment in my "business" history! Since then, 99% of my tries were failures. I have been trying to work on/with EVERYTHING and no matter what, I was failing... I failed to properly advertise my software products locally, I failed with getting clients for almost 1.5 years, I failed with my first 2 websites (SEO) and so on.... Today, I LOVE when I am about to fail... You know why? Because I got used to it (yes, it might sound funny). I trained myself that when I fail, I actually learn... I actually learned that if I do the things I did I will fail again and that I have something to bear in mind.
And hmm... The 99% failed tries... What about that 1%? That 1% is my ONE and ONLY success so far. Yes, only one! My only success is that I never quit. My motivation, my desire to do MORE and MORE, to FAIL and FAIL until you make progress, is what kept me "live".
Now my company has 3 employees, 15+ happy (offline) clients, 80+ online clients (Web design, SEO and software users) and I have traveled around the world for the time being.
You control everything. You are the owner of your body and mind. It is YOU that makes the decisions. It is you who will fail... or succeed.
Either start working on your dreams, or someone will hire you to work for theirs.
You never fail. You either win or you learn.
Never aim for money, let them be the award for your success.
It is up to you buddy.
P.S. Never EVER do a job that you hate it when you wake up.
Bro, just stop focusing on money.
Of course money is important, but if it's make you sick as that.. Because you seems to say that your main problem is money, money won't make you A LOT more happy. If you're sick at this job, bro fuck up, go on another country and search for a job you love.
NO never quit keep on pushing on... Spending only $1000 is a drop in the bucket I have spent 10's of thousands of dollars to be where I am today selling my bots. Marketing is not free!!!
Give up and do what?
I dont mind the hard work because I really believe that its easier to do the " work-extremely-hard-and-fail-a-lot-untill-you-succeed-eventually" rather than living a life of struggle, not being sure where the money will come from and all that, which is what most ppl I know of live.
remember that.
you should do what you want... has no sense to ask opinions here if you should quit or not. I mean.. is a personal decision. Like when people asks: you think I could try IM? I cant answer about others life. Is just up to you bro. No one else can know when to give up or continue the hustle
Buddy, what you have to do is you have to find a job that your passionate about. I talk about the job that is bringing tears to your eyes just thinking about it. Sure it's good to do something "on the side" while you are working to archive your biggest dreams and goals in life, but think about.
If you find the right job for you, then working will never be "working" again. It's just something that you do because you like it. So forget all the bullshit dropshipping and fb ads if it's not something that you wanna do your whole life. Get a job that covers the costs and expenses and find your passion. You only have a limited time on this planet, why waste your time when you are miserable in a job that you don't like? The purpose of life is to enjoy it, and the only way you can enjoy life is when you go for what you want.
tl;dr - Find your passion, do a sidejob to cover your expenses until you can make a decent amount with your passion.
Letting a bunch of people know you want to give up is proof in itself you aren't actually
ready to give up. In fact, you're just looking for people to tell you not too!
Don't give up. There. Now get back to it, man!
Haha, I was expecting someone to tell me:
- Hey man, I do dropshipping, I make a good living from it, so it's possible. And I'm not selling a fucking course.
Every business is presented as you can make a bunch of money in the short term, and usually is not like that.
Thank you!
these are some powerful words to take in... i don't know about you OP but i am motivated to do more hard work than i was doing. More fucked it will get, more competitor will come but they don't have what I have... Brain, Thinking and knowledge... thanks @Veil123 for these words ....I disagree with you.
There are 2 kind of lives. The miserable one (created by the others) or the good one (the one created by yourself).
Let me tell you my own story in few sentences....
I am a programmer for 12 years and since the beginnings I have been working for me and myself only. I have never worked in any other company. In 2016 I opened my own company for web design and internet marketing... That was the happiest moment in my "business" history! Since then, 99% of my tries were failures. I have been trying to work on/with EVERYTHING and no matter what, I was failing... I failed to properly advertise my software products locally, I failed with getting clients for almost 1.5 years, I failed with my first 2 websites (SEO) and so on.... Today, I LOVE when I am about to fail... You know why? Because I got used to it (yes, it might sound funny). I trained myself that when I fail, I actually learn... I actually learned that if I do the things I did I will fail again and that I have something to bear in mind.
And hmm... The 99% failed tries... What about that 1%? That 1% is my ONE and ONLY success so far. Yes, only one! My only success is that I never quit. My motivation, my desire to do MORE and MORE, to FAIL and FAIL until you make progress, is what kept me "live".
Now my company has 3 employees, 15+ happy (offline) clients, 80+ online clients (Web design, SEO and software users) and I have traveled around the world for the time being.
You control everything. You are the owner of your body and mind. It is YOU that makes the decisions. It is you who will fail... or succeed.
Either start working on your dreams, or someone will hire you to work for theirs.
You never fail. You either win or you learn.
Never aim for money, let them be the award for your success.
It is up to you buddy.
P.S. Never EVER do a job that you hate it when you wake up.
Haha, I was expecting someone to tell me:
- Hey man, I do dropshipping, I make a good living from it, so it's possible. And I'm not selling a fucking course.
Every business is presented as you can make a bunch of money in the short term, and usually is not like that.
Thank you!
Why do you guys have to open threads like this for validation? I feel like there's at least once every week, all with posters waiting for a reply like this.
Stop chasing instant gratification. Your journey thread you posted about making $1,000,000 in 2018 with no IM knowledge and buying a Bentley at $10k monthly revenue (it's really not that much after taxes). Sure, you might get lucky and hit a great campaign your first few months in, but that's highly unrealistic. Once you realized it isn't as easy as you imagined, you're already about to throw in the towel.
Give up and do what?
I dont mind the hard work because I really believe that its easier to do the " work-extremely-hard-and-fail-a-lot-untill-you-succeed-eventually" rather than living a life of struggle, not being sure where the money will come from and all that, which is what most ppl I know of live.
remember that.
Actually.. it's the other way around - in IM you will struggle and don't know when then money will come. Why people go to a regular job is the exact opposite - you have a stable income that covers your expenses. Sure you don't live luxuriously but you have the peace of mind that you will be fed the next month (unless you get paid too little to get by - that is another story).
Actually.. it's the other way around - in IM you will struggle and don't know when then money will come. Why people go to a regular job is the exact opposite - you have a stable income that covers your expenses. Sure you don't live luxuriously but you have the peace of mind that you will be fed the next month (unless you get paid too little to get by - that is another story).