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Discussion in 'My Journey Discussions' started by Determined Diva, Nov 22, 2018.

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  1. Determined Diva

    Determined Diva Registered Member

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    Thank you! Money, in my opinion isn't the obstacle. It's the mindset that alludes our better judgement to take action . Thank you very much for recommending those books to me. I shall be reading them for sure. Every iota of knowledge counts

    Thank you! I take decisions now based on the fact that I'm a mother. What advice would u give my daughter? Same would apply to me :)

    About the website, I learnt it on my own :)
     
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    Your ex husband makes $100,000+ a MONTH and he's suing you for alimony? How many fucking assets do you have if that's the case. I'm not a lawyer but I don't think it works that way.
     
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    Determined Diva Registered Member

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    You're right. Unfortunately he started with this job after I left him and in the courts here, it matters as to who owns more before the divorce. Plus, I'm in a place where we women have no voice. It's sad but I am determined because I will keep grinding for a year before I move out with my girls to a world where they don't have to pay for being girls. A world where they can make choices to be who they want and not be suppressed by the society.
     
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    You are upselling social media services to those that are buying websites from you, right?

    Nice monthly recurring income.
     
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    Wish you all the best. With your determination I'm sure you'll achieve any goal you'll set.
     
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    Good luck, OP! I hope you get that money!
     
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    Your story inspires a lot for people who thinks its an end and giveup. Happy that you have made it .
     
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    If I may give an opinion on this, charge them a monthly mainteinance fee, most of the clients will be calling you to make changes anyway, so charge them that IF they don't get the mainteinance fee they will be more willing to pay for the changes since it is more than clear it is not included once you have delivered teh website, good luck and a GREAT journey!!
     
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    Best wishes to you!
     
  10. Determined Diva

    Determined Diva Registered Member

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    Thank you so much for your encouragement. Coming from you, that means alot:)
     
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    Glad to see you've hit your first goal. No stopping now!
     
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    Go for ir... Who knows, maybe one day they'll make a film out of you... Like the one Jennifer Lawence played the role of that woman enterpreneur.... Can't be bothered to search for the title.
     
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    you go OP!!!!

    it's good to hear good news every once in a while. may I ask did you charge for recurring charges for your service? or did you charge for 1 time payment?

    Thanks
     
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    Wow...You nailed it @Determined Diva ... Keep grinding and don't look backward...

    Hope, you forgot to add your proposal here...It would be very help for people...

    Thanks in advance.
     
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    All of the cxxkboys in this thread screaming " fuck your husband yeah " without having a clue of what's really going on between the 2..

    the fact that he started to earn 100k+ a month after she left him is probably something to take into consideration
    Congrats on your progress anyway
     
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    Umm no. They never took my side because he earns whatever. They felt that way,rightfully so because what father doesn't pay child support you tell me! He actually went on a bargaining spree in court where he wanted to pay $300 for the entire month and for just one child. I told him to stick it! 300 I do not need. I need a father that's concerned for their child.
    And yes he got the job offer long before I left him but was undergoing screening process etc. So, please rethink before youre suggestive of people here being blind sided. People have kids here and they know what it is to be a good parent. Therefore their comments, which I respect from the bottom of my heart.
    Thank you for your well wishes and I wish you the same.
     
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    Where are you from?
    When a separation happens, the court usually take the side of the women, usually being en understatement here. That's why I'm being curious

    If having kids was the only condition to be a good parent, yes, unfortunately it doesn't work like this. and you should know even more with your experience apparently
     
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    Interesting! How else do you become a good parent if not with your child? I'm very curious at this stage.
     
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    The world dont stay in a men , be happy , rise your head and go up too the world. Good luck !
     
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    You clearly didn't understand the point, or act like you didn't on purpose
    Being a parent doesn't automatically equal being a good parent . There should be plenty of examples that comes to your mind