aidenhera
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its psychological trick. that is supposed t make you like thtem more
Stop calling me "Dear".
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its psychological trick. that is supposed t make you like thtem more
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I edited my response to include the screen cap HIGHLIGHTING the two points directly below your response. Don’t be an idiot dear.
Would you rather the Australian form of affection, and have everyone call you a Bloody Cunt?
Would you rather the Australian form of affection, and have everyone call you a Bloody Cunt?
jazzc
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Dude, you're simply wrong. I was taught English 20 years ago, got the degree at the time with score on the top 1/10.000 - I still remember the "Dear X," on the letter. I don't use it because NOW on not-so-formal settings is cringe-worthy, but they are right. It's used and it's taught.
truitt661
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Bro, it's just wrong and gay especially to males, it may be normal just in India, Pakistan maybe China .. just give up, no man like to be called dear.
I've also been taught in school (eastern europe), but for most male english speakers it's cringy. i'm out now for real haha
match my messages please, sorry for double post
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TheAlmightyDada
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Dear BHW users,
I hope all is well. We have some weird arguments on here, don't we?
I have not seen a letter from one person to another without "Dear X". I still use it, even in my PMs here.
Kind Regards,
TAD
I hope all is well. We have some weird arguments on here, don't we?
I have not seen a letter from one person to another without "Dear X". I still use it, even in my PMs here.
Kind Regards,
TAD
feezioxiii
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LOL 
William702
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It's a cultural thing I have been told. I have been told it's their way of showing respect, they think they are saying something along the lines of sir or madam is one way it was described to me also its said like a letter is written so when you think about it, it does make sense. By they I mean people from India and I certainly don't mean it in a derogatory way. I really don't think they realize it's something an old woman would say to her grandchild but like someone else pointed out, there are worse things to be called
but I agree its totally fucking annoying lol
Zwielicht
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Let's make this happen, dearies.
Executor or Magistrate. You know, make me feel like I'm receiving a mission briefing at the command centre!
Tsar, Grand Duke, and Count are also acceptable.
Zwielicht
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I have yet to get called "brah", but I have been called "bro".
Sometimes, I get subtle threats from people like "watch your back, dear..." or "you'll get what's coming to you, sir..."
Are these respectful threats or is it their way of being sarcastic?
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DigitalAdvanced
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It's totally non native english speaking people. I'm not sure what english course they are taking that teaches them this, or maybe they have learned on their own as in school we were taught to start a letter with Dear, Mr blah blah. It's hard to say where they picked it up, however, try to understand that they don't hang around english speaking people all day everyday and they don't know the little nuances of the language. Also consider the fact that they deserve respect in the fact that they are doing all they can with what they have where they are. Instead of bitching that they say it, send them a message and guide them on how to better start a conversation in order to get better results.
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Australian - Hey you bloody cunt, you're fuckin' wrong. Are you daft or just plain stupid?
American - I think you're fucking wrong, and fucking stupid.
Indian - Kindly sir, I disagree with your opinion dear.
WHICH ONE WOULD YOU PREFER?
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In this state one could easily tell how careful your should be - as this seem threat in disguise .
I think it’s easy to tell when these words are used to show some respects and when need to watch out - just like the examples you gave.
truitt661
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Australian sounds pretty manly and cool.
Murrican not bad too but a bit to aggresive.
Indian damn, that dear at the end ruined everything, made me feel so unconfortable.
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Guys, I'm not referring to how a formal letter is started. Dear John letters are not the issue. I understand THAT formality.
Here's my concern..
If I buy a service from you, and your response is something like, "I have your order dear", it's weird. Very, very weird.
Here's my concern..
If I buy a service from you, and your response is something like, "I have your order dear", it's weird. Very, very weird.
The Curator
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American version. Not overly offensive without reason and not fake or questionable.