Should you marry before being successful or after it?
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charles133
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It depends as society change so much and womens wants you succesful unfortunately
But i think if its a real and good women who loves you ,you dont need to wait to be succesful to mary .But unfortunately its so hard to find a good women these days
But i think if its a real and good women who loves you ,you dont need to wait to be succesful to mary .But unfortunately its so hard to find a good women these days
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There are few numbers of peoples can be successful.
Most of us fall into livin. Like our days is going in a nicer way. But i really can not book a business class seat for my air travel. But i am sufficient to live in.
So, it really depends on your partner too.
In my opinion, If you are financially capable to run a family, go for it. Find a nice partner who does not want business class seat by someone elses money.
Most of us fall into livin. Like our days is going in a nicer way. But i really can not book a business class seat for my air travel. But i am sufficient to live in.
So, it really depends on your partner too.
In my opinion, If you are financially capable to run a family, go for it. Find a nice partner who does not want business class seat by someone elses money.
DecetOpulentos
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Both works tbh, its about the person who starts the business.
If you are married you will work harder for both of you to have an awesome life.
If you are single you will spend less money, as in no fancy dinners, future kids etc.
I think mindset is what is most important.
If you are married you will work harder for both of you to have an awesome life.
If you are single you will spend less money, as in no fancy dinners, future kids etc.
I think mindset is what is most important.
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Marriage is not that important, it's just a piece of paper.
If you're living with a skirt for more than 3 months, it's as close to a marriage as it can get.
What you should be preoccupied with is having kids as early as you can.
As you get older, your patience lowers dramatically.
When you're younger, your parents are young too, so they can help when you're at work.
This is a bigger deal than you might think, and getting help from your parents will have a huge huge impact.
Another piece of advice is don't let your wife get comfortable.
No matter how much money you make, let her work, regardless of her paycheck. It will help her mental health a great deal, and your relationship will be better around the house.
If you're living with a skirt for more than 3 months, it's as close to a marriage as it can get.
What you should be preoccupied with is having kids as early as you can.
As you get older, your patience lowers dramatically.
When you're younger, your parents are young too, so they can help when you're at work.
This is a bigger deal than you might think, and getting help from your parents will have a huge huge impact.
Another piece of advice is don't let your wife get comfortable.
No matter how much money you make, let her work, regardless of her paycheck. It will help her mental health a great deal, and your relationship will be better around the house.
DecetOpulentos
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Really good answer.
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Marrying after being successful is better because it will help you focus on your career after you are successful you can start a family and have a balanced life it's just my personal opinion or it is up to the individual to decide when they are ready to marry and begin a family
JackRabbitSlim
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I'll pass for now. They hate it when you call from Thailand talking about golf trips and such... 
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If people only married after they were successful, there would be very few marriages!
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You're marrying a person, not a bag of cash. If you want to start a family and travel etc., you should have a career, as having kids and being married is a responsibility that shouldn't be taken lightly.
I think you're asking if you should get married if you start making a lot of money and are worried about a divorce. If you go with that mentality, you will never be happy, as it takes two people to become one to make a good marriage.
I think you're asking if you should get married if you start making a lot of money and are worried about a divorce. If you go with that mentality, you will never be happy, as it takes two people to become one to make a good marriage.
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I beg the difference, I got one kid when I was 22 and then one more when I was 31, your far more mature to take care of a child when your older. I´d say wait until after 30 and travel, explore the world before that, do things that you want before you get a child, afterwards your view of life is going to change.