Should you marry before being successful or after it?

[Madonga]

Feel free to share your experiences ,opinions and advices
Thank you

 

[charles133]

It depends as society change so much and womens wants you succesful unfortunately
But i think if its a real and good women who loves you ,you dont need to wait to be succesful to mary .But unfortunately its so hard to find a good women these days

 

[blackcommoner]

There are few numbers of peoples can be successful.
Most of us fall into livin. Like our days is going in a nicer way. But i really can not book a business class seat for my air travel. But i am sufficient to live in.

So, it really depends on your partner too.

In my opinion, If you are financially capable to run a family, go for it. Find a nice partner who does not want business class seat by someone elses money.

 

[DecetOpulentos]

Both works tbh, its about the person who starts the business.

If you are married you will work harder for both of you to have an awesome life.

If you are single you will spend less money, as in no fancy dinners, future kids etc.

I think mindset is what is most important.

 

[johnyow]

Woman only marry successful man

 

[sikandar]

Woman only marry successful man

I knew many women who got married simply because they became pregnant

 

[Alexion]

Marriage is not that important, it's just a piece of paper.
If you're living with a skirt for more than 3 months, it's as close to a marriage as it can get.

What you should be preoccupied with is having kids as early as you can.
As you get older, your patience lowers dramatically.

When you're younger, your parents are young too, so they can help when you're at work.
This is a bigger deal than you might think, and getting help from your parents will have a huge huge impact.

Another piece of advice is don't let your wife get comfortable.
No matter how much money you make, let her work, regardless of her paycheck. It will help her mental health a great deal, and your relationship will be better around the house.

 

[DecetOpulentos]

Marriage is not that important, it's just a piece of paper.
If you're living with a skirt for more than 3 months, it's as close to a marriage as it can get.

What you should be preoccupied with is having kids as early as you can.
As you get older, your patience lowers dramatically.

When you're younger, your parents are young too, so they can help when you're at work.
This is a bigger deal than you might think, and getting help from your parents will have a huge huge impact.

Another piece of advice is don't let your wife get comfortable.
No matter how much money you make, let her work, regardless of her paycheck. It will help her mental health a great deal, and your relationship will be better around the house.

Really good answer.

 

[BHSEONewb]

Get a pre-nuptual agreement. Consult with an attorney in your area. On the bright side, if you're successful you'll have more women to choose from. On the downside, they'll be more interested in the size of your bank account and spending it.

 

[RankOn]

Marrying after being successful is better because it will help you focus on your career after you are successful you can start a family and have a balanced life it's just my personal opinion or it is up to the individual to decide when they are ready to marry and begin a family

 

[JackRabbitSlim]

I'll pass for now. They hate it when you call from Thailand talking about golf trips and such...

 

[MisterF]

What are you talking about here? "before being successful or after it?"

Business, winning the lottery, having kids, previous attempts at marriage?

 

[GringoMonkey]

If people only married after they were successful, there would be very few marriages!

 

[tomacb]

In my opinion, those are two completely different things. If I love someone very deeply, I will marry her without waiting for anything.

 

[hi5blast]

Be child free.. you can marry.. after getting success , try for babies

babies are big roadblocks if only you two are taking care of him/her.

 

[adshelp]

Marriage comes with responsibility in 3rd world country so be successful first if you are from 3rd country.

 

[Madonga]

I will consider all of this great feedback

Thanks y all and wish me luck

 

[nahid133]

I got married in my 2nd year of uni

 

[Mrnewbie]

You're marrying a person, not a bag of cash. If you want to start a family and travel etc., you should have a career, as having kids and being married is a responsibility that shouldn't be taken lightly.

I think you're asking if you should get married if you start making a lot of money and are worried about a divorce. If you go with that mentality, you will never be happy, as it takes two people to become one to make a good marriage.

 

[Dopious]

As you get older, your patience lowers dramatically.

I beg the difference, I got one kid when I was 22 and then one more when I was 31, your far more mature to take care of a child when your older. I´d say wait until after 30 and travel, explore the world before that, do things that you want before you get a child, afterwards your view of life is going to change.