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Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by gman777, Jul 21, 2017.

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  1. gman777

    gman777 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

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    I've just taken the red pill, and god dammit, it's so hard to swallow. But, it's definitely well worth it.

    PUA can lick my balls with their "Oh bro, you just need confidence". Umm, yeah, right. In fact, if you're ugly and confident, a girl may consider it an aggression.

    My concern about genetics proved to be right. The better genetical material an individual has, the more pussy is prone to get. In fact, they'll get admired and considered some sort of gods.

    You'll need an (considerable) amount of facial beauty to be able to be noticed on the girl's detector.

    This goes the other way too. So no discrimination. It's just that the myth with "looks don't matter, go for personality/confidence ." applied to the women.

    I was always wasting my time on Instagram/Facebook trying to figure out what girls like besides appearance. We always like to over-complicate us. Instead of relying on 1, which btw is a reliable metric(looks), we try to bloat with a lot of useless metrics(just like somebody uses DA/PA or TF/CF as a way to measure the potential ranking of a website in Google).

    I've even watched "Got Talent" show. What I notice is that when a cute girl comes on the stage and embarrass her a little, people don't laugh/judge that much.

    But when somebody ugly/average does something even remotely weird, anybody gets so judgemental.

    Somebody said that some of the most rich guys are ugly. Well, those are fucking "outlaws". In an average case, where you're supposed to be an average guy, people will get judgmental with how you look if you want for example to go for an interview.

    Sorry, I just needed to unload the frustration somewhere, and BHW is the only place I feel comfortable.
     
  2. SuppWhitey

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    Oh guess what ? if you have shitty genetics ( which you can't change ) then you have to rely on PUA, by the way I'm average looking guy and I get girls waaaaaaay beyond my league thanks to PUA and especially Ross Jeffries
     
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    so blackhat....
     
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  4. gman777

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    The PUA helps you only after a girl gave you approval. In that case definitely, and it depends on what do you define average.
     
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    I could not agree with you. It's not all about looks. Of course, if you are ugly as fuck and if you are looking unhealthy, you would not get any pussy at all. But it's not all about faking the confidence. You are getting a wrong impression about being a PUA. It's about pushing the right buttons, about the game. So PUAs have a good point. Once the game is mastered, it's very easy, since it's simply a routine. Been there, done that.
    I really have no idea what kind of knowledge about PUA you've got, and what kind of authors have you been reading/following (there's a lot of snake oil out there!), but I can highly recommend googling for The Mystery Method by Erik von Markovich. That guy "shredded" social dynamics into peaces and he is one of the top PUA within the community.
     
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    Sir, do i look good? Do you think i can get the ladies based on looks let alone PUA?
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  7. Peter Ngo

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    Looks of course play a good part, you don't need to handsome, but properly dressed, groomed and fit should do the tricks.

    Would you date an ugly woman with armpits hair? I wouldn't.
     
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    Totally with you, OP. I think this Alpha/Beta stuff is ridiculous. And that comes from someone who is in a LTR 3 Years..
     
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    Looks do matter and so do confidence. I'm a tall person but not so confident and still get some girls without much effort but not that many. If I were more confident I could get pretty much any girl I wanted but I'm not so I don't. Both play a bug role.

    On a side note, what in the seven hells is a PUA!
     
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    "Pick Up Artist. A master in the art picking up babes."
     
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    Lutherblissett Power Member

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    Pick Up Artist. . Its a term used by a group who began to apply a series of loose laws to convincing/manipulating women to want to be with them.
     
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    Bullshit. Bullshit. Bullshit.

    I was in the seduction community for 6 yrs. What outsiders call "PUA" insiders ironically just call "seduction". Most don't even say that they just say "when are we going out again?" And guess what? Normal dudes court women their entire lives whether you're in a seduction community or not.

    We went out 4 nights / week for nearly 4 yrs straight. 1 hr of videos and scripts then we'd hit the bars usually 3 hrs min doing nothing but cold approach.

    I can tell you for a fact I went into the seduction community with the following problems:

    1) Serious social phobia.
    2) Panic attacks while trying to speak to any stranger nevermind women.
    3) Serious anxiety issues in general.
    4) Adrenaline would hit my blood like a train anytime I had to speak in public.
    5) Didn't lose my virginity till after highschool.

    I am the perfect case of a good looking dude who couldn't get pussy if my life depended on it. After the seduction community I was able to:

    1) Approach any woman anywhere anytime.
    2) Completely opened up as an individual and human being.
    3) Panic attacks stopped.
    4) Lost my virginity in the community.
    5) First threesome.
    6) After 6 yrs when I "tapered off" the schedule till this day I can approach women with steel balls.
    7) Went from being jealous and angry about everything to jealous and angry over nothing.

    You can shout all day but you won't convince me for a second that the seduction community isn't the sole reason I'm able to pickup women.
    Let's not bullshit ourselves. Approaching strange women especially when you're a younger guy... 95% of white dudes I knew in college would not, absolutely refused to approach women they didn't know.

    And we had hundreds of dudes bail their first week in. But the ones who stayed over the years every one of those guys today, I can't think of one who still has problems picking up women. Some are ugly, some are good looking... it doesn't matter. In fact, I got into the community to meet a GF and left wanting to be single thats how much it changed my life.

    What I would debate is your statement on looks. It's true that women are far more superficial than most men are willing to admit. But this effect is severely exaggerated online.
    For instance, if you split test multiple profiles on POF the better looking profiles get the most messages that pattern will repeat over and over.

    But in the real world women respond to confidence and body language more than anything. I know this as a good looking dude I had ugly friends who regularly stole 9 & 10s from me in the middle of the dance floor.... it drove me nuts and nobody gave a fuck. Our community was fully devoted to the cruelest form of Darwin theory. You either adapted or your best friend fucked your girl it didn't matter how long you were dating. That's ironically why I stayed so long I was forced to the fact that looks would only get me so far.

    -BB
     
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    i think they just give normal advice .... and if you walk the whole day around chasing girls and be a little funny .. sure one will be into you :)
     
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    @BreaknBrix! I've probably told you this a dozen times already, but it's nice to see you writing these long posts again! :D
     
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    even i want to bang you your so hot
     
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    mate you just think the grass is greener on the other side,

    im so beautiful that the women faint when i talk to them, unless thats your bag its a right cock blocker
     
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    Been in the game for a long time now. Even now i'm homeless I pull a lot of girls. Your game just suck. You got bitter and now you became a mgtow. LOL
     
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    Thats because dutch girls are the easiest species on the planet.
     
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    you look like a thai lady-boy sir!
     
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