Cleast Intwood
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Lots of wise words in here! Considering the decline of western women and divorce rates, I'm not getting married. Unless my dick tricks me Into it.
Married vs married life- Pros and cons
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First you need to quit Kratom dear and then you need to marry, otherwise you will marry to the Kratom and things will become very bad for you sir.
Ryb18
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East / West take your pick. Nothing quite impresses them more than a chippy dinner. There's an old saying in Blackpool after one has doubled their benefits on the slot machines. Winner winner chippy dinner.
American Trends
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I think mindset of people around you is game changer. When I was not married things were 80% fine, even when earning were less. After marriage in two years I had 100 times more earning, but less focus . My mom angry women just fighting , blaming my wife and office is below home in same building so complaining about my wife and this shit become worse, when she started to abuse my wife her parents even when she was pregnant. A baby boy born and died a couple of months back, doctor said fight during pregnancy is the reason.
My two projects worth $5k/month and $2k/month lost due to this bullshit.
My married life is hell for me and my wife.
My two projects worth $5k/month and $2k/month lost due to this bullshit.
My married life is hell for me and my wife.
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What is the solution guys in your opinion ? If we have to replace marriage structure, we need to have a better structure ready. Am I right ?
LeanLow
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Tell that to the 50% of people who divorce.
jazzc
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Prenups are not safe, they can be invalidated by thin air, like this: https://nypost.com/2013/03/11/wife-...estate-mogul-gets-judge-to-rip-up-her-prenup/
bumont
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I'm pleasantly surprised by the the replies in this thread. I honestly was expecting every reply to be "marriage is amazing, my wife is different"
If you're on BHW it's safe to assume you want to be successful in life, including financially.
Here is your contract offer:
Upfront costs - 10-100k
Ongoing costs - Expect to spend significantly more on outings, constant changing of furniture. You will always spend more unless you partner earns significantly more than you.
Gaslighting and Hen pecking - Remember living with your mum? Even the nicest mums will moan and complain all of the time over silly things, imagine that amplified by 100x
Contact ending clause - loss of 50%+ of total assets, including pensions, investments, business, cars etc
Potential Spousal support alimony
If you have children, expect to be kicked out of your house and expect legal fees to mount up to crippling levels.
Valid reasons for her to end marriage: "feelings"
You will never come off better than your ex spouse in the courts, it is a totally gynocentric establishment.
Not to mention the emotional damage the heart break, stress and not seeing your children was cause. Divorce is a huge factor in suicide in middle aged men.
This is all things I've witnessed from people I know, countless experiences I've read and directly from a close friend who works predominantly with martial law and sees complete horror shows.
If you're on BHW it's safe to assume you want to be successful in life, including financially.
Here is your contract offer:
Upfront costs - 10-100k
Ongoing costs - Expect to spend significantly more on outings, constant changing of furniture. You will always spend more unless you partner earns significantly more than you.
Gaslighting and Hen pecking - Remember living with your mum? Even the nicest mums will moan and complain all of the time over silly things, imagine that amplified by 100x
Contact ending clause - loss of 50%+ of total assets, including pensions, investments, business, cars etc
Potential Spousal support alimony
If you have children, expect to be kicked out of your house and expect legal fees to mount up to crippling levels.
Valid reasons for her to end marriage: "feelings"
You will never come off better than your ex spouse in the courts, it is a totally gynocentric establishment.
Not to mention the emotional damage the heart break, stress and not seeing your children was cause. Divorce is a huge factor in suicide in middle aged men.
This is all things I've witnessed from people I know, countless experiences I've read and directly from a close friend who works predominantly with martial law and sees complete horror shows.
kumbhak11
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My solution will be called patriarchal and misogynist by feminists and will spark another controversy. So, for the time being, I will refrain from posting it on BHW.
Ryb18
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Fancy some cod bites Micky, or a kebab with some G sauce and C sauce? Take your pick
martsb
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My heart goes out to you.Coming from a broken family myself i know shit happens.
The pain must is/be terrible,been very lucky that my eldest only just survived.
Being married doesn`t change a thing end of the day it`s only a piece of paper.
It`s whats in the heart that counts.
FreakenSEOsmh
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ExperimentalSEO
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Even before taking into account preventable things, divorce rates aren't even that bad.
Cheating
Poor Diet - Low Libido
Financial issues
Abusive Partner
Addictions
No Marriage preparation.
Example: If there are 1,000 couples with a divorce rate of 11% by 7th anniversary. If 5% of those relationships involved a man cheating on his wife and of those 50 marriages 80%(40) of them ended in a divorce. The divorce rates for non cheaters would be 7.4% (70/950).
https://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/02/upshot/the-divorce-surge-is-over-but-the-myth-lives-on.html
Cheating
Poor Diet - Low Libido
Financial issues
Abusive Partner
Addictions
No Marriage preparation.
Example: If there are 1,000 couples with a divorce rate of 11% by 7th anniversary. If 5% of those relationships involved a man cheating on his wife and of those 50 marriages 80%(40) of them ended in a divorce. The divorce rates for non cheaters would be 7.4% (70/950).
American Trends
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Marriage is something that will be called marriage even if you will have a better structure, improvement can be done by cutting useless expenses during the occasion.
People need a proper financial management, shouldn't go into this and that expenses without earning enough. Because this is something that will give birth more reasons to get separated.
Everyone who is a part of marriage including in laws must need to learn emotion and depression management.
American Trends
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This may be the voice of your heart and heart speaks the truth.