How To Stop Being Lazy?
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Zwielicht
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You'd think that, but I knew this guy about a decade ago named Lalo, and let me tell you something, he may have been married with 3 kids, but he was the laziest guy I've ever seen in my life. Him and his wife divorced about 4 years ago, but during the decade they were married, he probably only worked 2 jobs and got fired from both in less than a week. I remember a story he proudly told everyone was that he was working at a job and he got sleepy in the middle of his shift, so he went home and never went back to work. He just sat around doing nothing, not even watching his kids who had to go to daycare instead. His wife worked a government job, so she made decent money and supported the entire family.
X0t0
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sound more like a trap hahahhahahaha
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So, you are incorrectly assuming that all women are the same ? It is like saying all men are the same.
If you marry a lady who is a fucking bad bitch, then life will not go in the right direction. And the same vice versa.
By the way, I am male, single, but I have friends who married bad (fucking bad) bitches and their life turned upside down.
Do not generalize that all women are the same or all men are the same.
moonshine7000
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He can't even support himself but a wife and child,he might die from a heart attack
X0t0
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yes i decided to go back to gym , take care of my body again. and avoid unhealthy food
i'm financially more than stable. just it's not the right time for a familly hahahaha
OccultKingdoms
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First thing I do in the morning is work. An hour of work, even before shower. I do some repetitive tasks usually in that time.
I make money in the morning and usually that's enough for my basic necessities. Later I can focus on something harder.
Eating too much doesn't really make sense unless you mean eating a lot of greens and foods rich in minerals and microelements.
Calories are secondary. First are deficiencies and things that you lose while you pee.
You can't really have a lot of minerals and vitamins in your body if you eat them once every 3 days or so.
Most vitamins and minerals you will find in cashew nuts, almonds and of course in the sun rays. Don't forget to eat meat for b12.
One mineral deficiency and the whole system (body) is not functioning properly. Be really careful about that if you want top results.
If you aim for average, you can watch porn, skip meals and skip medical checks. But don't be surprised if you have cancer diagosis 20 years too late.
You want to decrease the need for hunting and activate slow thinking as much as you can. I think you can refer to "slow and fast thinking" book.
If you can do something in a relaxed fashion, choose that. Stress doesn't serve us.
That will help you get stuff organized and create a map and a vision for your life.
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jeronymo29
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This is the most important thing, that you are aware of the problem. The next thing is just to change your habits.
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"xyz depends on x factors" is always what an informed person would say. Intellect helps us see things in relationships to everything around.
Using fast paced thinking causes us to say stupid shit. If you think fast on daily basis and decide to stick with it, you're witnessing your own intellectual tragedy.
Why? Cause all your decisions will be made in seconds, with little analysis and you will f*k up so many things on your road, you will just underperform and have shitty life.
How do I save this, it's the best piece of advice I've seen all day. I never actually realized I do this but this is the reason I never get tired of working, I don't wanna be broke I always imagine the worst scenario.
DecetOpulentos
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Try the pomodoro technique
Get a to-do list and a timer. Set your timer for 25 minutes, and focus on a single task until the timer rings. When your session ends, mark off one pomodoro and record what you completed. Then enjoy a five-minute break. After four pomodoros, take a longer, more restorative 15-30 minute break.
Get a to-do list and a timer. Set your timer for 25 minutes, and focus on a single task until the timer rings. When your session ends, mark off one pomodoro and record what you completed. Then enjoy a five-minute break. After four pomodoros, take a longer, more restorative 15-30 minute break.
Cyam
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That is actually a solid idea, I might try this myself since I've been battling procrastination
DecetOpulentos
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It really is, i use it all the time.
OccultKingdoms
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I repeat 40 pomidors of 20 minutes. What is balance? I lost it.
blackbeans
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Quoted for truth: The brain isn't very good at moving towards what it wants. It's much better at avoiding pain.
The Oracle
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Look into ADHD and get tested by a professional. Try the medication. Life before and after Ritalin or Adderall can be like night and day if you have ADHD. It's often misdiagnosed as laziness, when in fact it's a biological defect in your brain. Ritalin helped me significantly.
X0t0
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i don't know if it's ADHD , i think it's just the lack of motivation , because for my previous work i was seeing results i would sit and work for more than 16 hours