Just 301 the old girl to the new one, then she will rise at the top.
Every time I try that, I end up with nothing but a 404 or worse, a 403, 410 (gone) or the worst, a 402 (payment required)! Lol.
Seriously though, if you have a hard time speaking to women, find them in crowds, like 3 girls in a group, and it is even easier if you have 1 to 2 males in the group, then you are no longer a threat and you are talking to the group. Once you approoach, you have to have a "story" that makes you sound cool and confident. Always mention your "Ex" wife, girlfriend or other in the story, it tells them you are available. Don't forget that part, it is critical.
Next, as a previous person posted, you have to "start" out treating them like your best friends kid sister. You need to mess with them a bit, then touch them somehow, maybe grab her gently and pull her hips to your hips and tell he she is so cute, but that the last time you met someone like her they turned out to be a stalker, or just softly but firmly put your hand on the back of her neck or the lower part of the back, but not the rear end....yet. As you are kidding with them and her, you next start getting her to qualify herself. Ask he what she does or plans to do in the future, if she starts telling you her great plans for the future, you got her because she is trying to justify to you that she meets your expectations. The rest should be a cake walk.
Have some fun, loosen up and be yourself from there, you will do just fine.