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how do you approach a girl?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Bestcreaters, Dec 24, 2013.

  1. Bestcreaters

    Bestcreaters Power Member

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    i never asked for help when i made my first $5k online i thought i know how to do everything myself but now am asking for help to get girls i am very shy of girls to the extend that even if a girl is flirting with me i look away because am shy it is the main reason am single and have never had a girlfriend not because of anything but even if i was talking to a girl i wanted to ask out i always rush the conversation because am shy i notice its affecting me i dont socialise with people because am always trying to make money online and now i know it has affected my other siide for example i just came from city center i had a drink with my friend there was a girl beside our table very preety and cute she was totally into me she kept smiling and eye flirting with me the people around me noticed and ask me to make a move but i dont know why i feel afraid shy and i told them am sleepy and we when home , i dont know what is rong but i have never spoken to a gril for more than 15 minutes i will rush it and go eevn if its intresting can some one teach or tell me something am missing?
     
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    I rather make a good relationship first on Phone or Facebook. Then set up a date ;)
     
  3. MachineLord

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  4. mickyfu

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    Girls like people who can write in sentences.

    You can continue ruining your own life, or grow some balls and just talk to them. If you cannot grow some balls, you can always stand at a bar with a wad of notes, and I am certain that many of girls will make the first move. However these kind of girls are just cheap, and personally I would rather fuck a no strings prostitute, than a desperate money whore, they are the same, apart from one does not try to hide what they actually are, which makes them a better person.
     
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  5. marttali

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    how do you approach a girl?
    From behind
     
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  7. Bestcreaters

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    one thing i dont like with some ignorant blackhat memebr is there attitude i know i can google this etc i feel connected to the people here and i always ask them but rather some stupids will turn every thing to a joke
     
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  8. Bestcreaters

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    ahh! i see was that how papi meet mami?
     
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  9. marttali

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    OP!
    You used a whopping one comma and one question mark in your opening "sentence".
    You want decent answers - please try again and write it again. Only this time use bit more punctuation.
     
  10. jstover77

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    Dude, the blue lettering is super annoying. Please, please for the love of God, change your font color.

    Also, asking a bunch of dudes who probably still live in their Mom's basement and play videos games all day is probably not the best approach. Just sayin...
     
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  11. CriminalMind

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    go to her grab her hand and make her touch yr d* if its big she will go out with u if not dont even bother
     
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    Most guys complain about getting friend-zoned. This guy hasn't even made it to the friend-zone.

    You need to loosen up, man. "Stop putting the pu**y on a pedestal!" Build some confidence in yourself before you try approaching a woman. That.... or approach the ones that have no confidence themselves. Easy pray. It really depends on what your ultimate goal is.
     
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    What if she squishes it?
     
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    I know I'll tell you the obvious, but your problem is rather obvious. You lack self confidence, and as long as you don't get more confidence on yourself and your ability to talk to girls, you'll never solve your problem.
    How to do that? It's not easy I'll tell you, you have to try everyday to be more and more confident, you have to think that if you can do other stuff without being shy, why are you shy about girls? Girls are just one other thing in life, what is the worse that they can do to you? Laugh at you, give you a slap on the face? Big fuckin' deal! But if you try to talk to them in a nice and respectful way, they won't do anything bad to you, they won't byte you(unless you want them to ;)) so stay confidence and positive, and all will go smoothly.
    And there's no such thing as best way to approach a girl, all girls are different, but as I said, if you aproach her in a respectful way, she'll be nice to you and respect you back, if she doesn't she's a bitch, and dont even waste your time with her. There's plenty of fish in the sea!
    Oh, and always remember one thing, the girl that you'll probably end up marrying, will choose you, not the other way around. In all other animal species, females choose the male, why the hell would that be different with us humans?
     
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    show her some $5 and $10 bills and tell her "how much?"
     
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    This isn't the first time you get annoyed because people don't take your threads seriously.

    http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackh...-relationship-hurt-soul-much.html#post6247412

    Maybe it is time you look at your own shortcomings before asking for advice.

    Oh and the reason you can't get a woman, might be your attitude:

    http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackhat-seo/cpa/629653-what-your-goals-2014-a.html#post6327276

    Grow up or accept the trolling.
     
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    Pulling women is just like IM.
    You're going to fail on your first few ventures.
    But the more times you get right back n the game the better you will get at it.
    Once you've got the traffic you can scale up conversions.
     
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    And just when you think all is going well they break your heart just like Google!
     
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    But only Google f*cks US in the ass.
     
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    "For a small fee.. I can damn near get you any woman you like...lol "