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how do you approach a girl?
- Thread starter Compazz
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Bro, this is solid advice. Trust me
dannym954
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I think advice on this topic needs to be given from someone local, I know that where I live it's as easy to pull a girl as "oi, come here" but in other parts of the country girls still want to be "woo'ed".
Think about why she would want you, that's the reason why she's waiting for you to make a move. Unless you didn't find a reason, then there's your problem and that's no ones fault but your own.
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Think about why she would want you, that's the reason why she's waiting for you to make a move. Unless you didn't find a reason, then there's your problem and that's no ones fault but your own.
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pxoxrxn
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- Dec 21, 2011
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In all honesty, I didn't read the advice here, but fuck the advice here. You sound like your being a little bitch, stop putting women on a pedestal and just talk to them like a normal human being. All to often I see guys that are scared of women because of their fear of rejection, but you will get rejected more as a result of your fear. Just brush off the ones that aren't interested, which will be 99% no matter how good looking you are and keep going for it. Don't take it too seriously and don't beat yourself up because you got rejected, just enjoy the chase because you'll miss it when it's gone.
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Directly ask girl May i touch your boobs ? She will get mad for you.
MoneyIsTheGod
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You probably have social anxiety disorder, just google it and learn more.. If you really have it, it's impossible to approach a girl for you.
MoneyIsTheGod
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And remember that alcohol may help you with this.
pxoxrxn
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So will heroin and methamphetamine.
lucasbraydon
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If your that shy then what you need to do is speak to at least 10 girls a day by just simply asking them the time ect, where the nearest coffee shop/bank/whatever is and just make brief convo with each of them maybe compliment them on their hair etc. Just brief convo not trying to make it go anywhere that way you will feel like you have nothing to lose. Do this for a few days and you will find it much easier to approach and speak to girls i promise you 
Cratos
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- Aug 16, 2012
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LOL can't believe this shit..
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KatsuragiKeima
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- Nov 30, 2013
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Look for the ebook 'The Tao of Badass', itll help you alot man
Kingu Buraddorei
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Only if it was this easy
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BarryAllen
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- Dec 25, 2013
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And be sure to write in full sentences.
Final_Solution
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- Jul 1, 2013
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Well, All depend on you and not same trick you can apply for every girl but conversions can make you experienced so talk with any lady or woman and trust me, your shyness will surely help you to get a better one.. I believe that's your plus one.. Good luck
RomanceUnfolding
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- Dec 25, 2013
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Make an account on Okcupid or some dating website. Set up a legit looking profile that describes yourself. Put a fake photo if your confidence is to low to use a real one. Just make sure the profile that describes who you are is legit.
step 2: practice by messaging the women that are signed up on the site. The usefulness of having so many test subjects plus the ability to stop and think how you should respond is amazing for practice. You can figure out what kind of person you are with this method. You can learn how to bring your humor out if you think you have none, or if you just want to practice what little you have.
Although this method won't equate to instant comfort and confidence when approaching a gal in real life, its a first step that you might need. If you want a first goal to reach, try to get the girl to respond back to you. Women get flooded with messages on dating websites so they don't respond to everyone UNLESS you stand out. Learn to stand out =]
And I'll just throw my method out there so you can try it out if you think it suits ya. Just be brutally honest. There's zero stress when you come out with "f**k i have never talked to a woman in my life, but i just have to try. Hi."
step 2: practice by messaging the women that are signed up on the site. The usefulness of having so many test subjects plus the ability to stop and think how you should respond is amazing for practice. You can figure out what kind of person you are with this method. You can learn how to bring your humor out if you think you have none, or if you just want to practice what little you have.
Although this method won't equate to instant comfort and confidence when approaching a gal in real life, its a first step that you might need. If you want a first goal to reach, try to get the girl to respond back to you. Women get flooded with messages on dating websites so they don't respond to everyone UNLESS you stand out. Learn to stand out =]
And I'll just throw my method out there so you can try it out if you think it suits ya. Just be brutally honest. There's zero stress when you come out with "f**k i have never talked to a woman in my life, but i just have to try. Hi."