Girlfriend Keeps Putting Me Down - Feeling Demoralized

f**k it bang it move on there is always work and money anything is nonsense

follow your instinct

Spam her, blast her, do the blackhat way

Here is the message, loud, resounding, crystal clear and reverberating...

dump her

dump her

dump her

dump her

dump her

dump her

dump her!!!


Got that OP?

Just go over that message until it sinks in.

That being said, if you are PW'ed = the above won't work. If you are PW'ed, you need to realize; right now, based on your description, you have been having to deal with this...




But the truth is, you would much rather really want deal this...





Again, I say...

dump her

dump her

dump her

dump her

dump her

dump her

dump her!!!


The faster, the better! Got that OP?

Man, I'm dead serious about this....

G-Spot and Clitoris. (simultaneously of course )

I'm so serious. YOu give her a little attention- go do something short with her like an hr even and then go home and give her a mind blowing orgasm and assert yourself like a man afterwards that you have work to do. (NOT like a dick, just ASSERTIVE and with confidence).

Honestly I just skimmed the thread, and some have a point, she MAY be trying to end the relationship. I doubt it though.

You are missing how females work. I'm sure there are times when you should skip out on some of those activities with her, but sometimes you have to bit the bullet.

She is out of line now though. You have to get that in check. She probably just feels ignored and not needed. Just research a little into basic female psychology and listen to what I said and you should be on the right track in no time.



****Just read TheDon23s post--- He may be right too, she just may be ONE of Those women. In which case you just have to get out of the relationship. But its hard for anyone here to really TRULY know, so thats why you should just learn a little about basic female psychology, then you will be able to decide for yourself if she is.

Put yourself in her situation. All a sudden you are currently ignoring her, not sleeping in the same bed as her, or giving her much, if any at all, attention. You're not doing things she likes to do.You need to learn to juggle the work and the girl, else you're going to find yourself in this situation again. She's speaking up about things she doesn't like because she wants you to change them. Basically, you're in the wrong if you cherish this girl and the relationship.

You've got to understand how a woman thinks - if she's really mad at you for ignoring her and not giving her what she needs you can probably expect some or all of the following:

yelling and calling you shitty names,

tells you she hates your mother (always a gut cruncher for any guy),

maybe throw a few missiles your way, especially things that you really really love,

sulk for perhaps a day

BUT NEVER EVER if she has a shred of respect and any love for her man will she cross the point of no return and start demeaning and belittling him.

Your girlfriend may be there in body but she's just hanging around for the kill. She's emotionally already disconnected and has checked out of the relationship. You need to move on with your pride and dignity intact.

BTW I know I've only heard your side but she sounds pretty spoilt and immature to me. You say you've been together for quite a few years and I'm guessing you're quite young - sounds like the classic drifting apart. It happens all the time - move on and be glad no kids are involved. Good luck whatever you decide.

In my opinion, I don`t understand how everyone is just saying yeah leave her. Have you considered that these two have been together for years? Essentially, you need to remember what first made you attracted to her, and judge whether or not the things that attracted you to her still exist, or whether you have seen her 'True side'.

The most important thing though is to live your life the way it suits you. If you take a long hard think about what you want then decide whether you need to break up.

If your happy to focus on your own IM career, and she is in the way of that, and thats what you truly want then yeah by all means leave her.

Just consider how you would feel if you didn`t have her anymore.

DUMP HER, she doesn't love you

G-S-T said:

Then I asked her how she was doing, she replied "I'm a single mum, living on a council estate and claiming benefits"

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PinkBitz said:

Some advice that will get your relationship back on track. Closed fist is considered assault, open fist is discipline. Now man up and discipline your woman!

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miansc said:

Shorten the chain from the kitchen, that way she can't get into your office.

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Deleted member 84902 said:

Chain her to the kitchen.

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Steeky said:

Use the Chris Brown method

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Gosh I love this forum

Keep your pimp hand strong man, Tell her straight up...I'm trying to get this money you lucky I'm allowing you to even be in my presence POOF BE GONE!!!! say it just like that!!

That is what a lady does when she is fed up of a relationship. I would just forget her and move on with another one.

ErinGirl said:

You've got to understand how a woman thinks - if she's really mad at you for ignoring her and not giving her what she needs you can probably expect some or all of the following:

yelling and calling you shitty names,

tells you she hates your mother (always a gut cruncher for any guy),

maybe throw a few missiles your way, especially things that you really really love,

sulk for perhaps a day

BUT NEVER EVER if she has a shred of respect and any love for her man will she cross the point of no return and start demeaning and belittling him.

Your girlfriend may be there in body but she's just hanging around for the kill. She's emotionally already disconnected and has checked out of the relationship. You need to move on with your pride and dignity intact.

BTW I know I've only heard your side but she sounds pretty spoilt and immature to me. You say you've been together for quite a few years and I'm guessing you're quite young - sounds like the classic drifting apart. It happens all the time - move on and be glad no kids are involved. Good luck whatever you decide.

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Completely agree with this. Sometimes a relationship is just too ruined to repair. When your partner's love has cooled off, re-igniting it rarely gives you the proper flame. Sometimes you just need to accept the defeat and instead of desperately trying to fix things, just try to minimize the losses.

deekay619 said:

Completely agree with this. Sometimes a relationship is just too ruined to repair. When your partner's love has cooled off, re-igniting it rarely gives you the proper flame. Sometimes you just need to accept the defeat and instead of desperately trying to fix things, just try to minimize the losses.

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I don't know if it is ruined or cooled off. Relationships have their ups and downs. Good times and hard times. But I don't think she understands that. Like if we're not hot and heavy all the time - there's something wrong.

Also, I spend a lot of time with her and go down to her parents and all that. My complaint is that I do not get enough time to do my own stuff - IM wise. I mean, I spend less than a few hours a day working on it.

It's one thing to have ups and down. Being put down is a different thing altogether. It's usually a sign that your partner is bored/disappointed in you. That's not something you can just fix over time. I know I sound harsh but that's the truth.

I've had many relationships over the course of time and I've learned to be able to feel when a relationship went beyond the point of any repair. A partner should always support you and be on your side regardless if you're right or wrong, regardless if you're fighting a losing battle. The partner is the one single person that is required to be your best friend at all times.

When a partner stops being that, there's nothing you can do about it. Sometimes it happens in a few weeks, sometimes it takes decades. People get divorced over that exact problem, children get separated and whatnot.

I don't know what kind of nerve you got... The best thing you can do is sit down and have one final conversation with her. Tell her how exactly you feel. No metaphors, no soft words. Tell her the cold, hard truth. Tell her that her words hurt you and that you're not liking it and that you can't go on like that. If after one month nothing goes to better, then you can be pretty much certain that it's time to move on.

If I was you to be honest, I'd put an end to it immediately, but by all means - give it another chance. Just don't make it a habit and give too many "one more" chances. That's when a man turns into a wimp. You've got to stand up for yourself.

go rsdnation to read some advice bro

Dump her, get your money..and buy 2 chicks

OP, you haven't dumped her yet?

You need to make the announcement on this thread and don't pull one of these...

I had same problem 1 year before. My ex. GF dumped me, I don't care about it. Because I still earn money and enjoying my self. One day I will choose a girl who love me and care my effort with IM.