exchanged link doesn't show up

Hi, i recently exchanged links with one of the top sites in my niche (70dr),

I can see that my anchor text link i sent to them is ******** and indexed, also i can see it on ahrefs and g webmasters,
They send me anchor text link too, but it doesnt show up anywhere ahrefs and g webmaster, when i click it from their site i do follow to my website.

Maybe it hasn't been crawled yet?

Did you make sure the link/page the link is on is ******** and indexable?

How long link has been placed? Try wait for a few days and check again?

I checked it,
My links to their sites indexed and I can see them in ahrefs

From their sites can see them incoming to mine

Do they hide it or something ?