Well he is married since he sometimes wears his wedding ring. That's why I was a bit startled when he asked this. He also knows I'm married. I made a thread about him a few months back and knew from the get go that something was a bit off about him.
I ignored his comment about "we should go sometime" and said back "yeah, you should go see it" because at the time I brushed it off because I didn't realize what he said until after the convo was finished.
Anyway, listen to this. When a grown up girl (young lady) is working on the front desk of a motel / gas station / newspaper stand / bar, etc. then she is normally exposed to stalker type people. Not the same with girls working in a bank / shop / mall / offices / institutions where there is additional security like guards, security cameras, etc. That's not the fault of a working girl, mind you. It is the fault of the society where a girl working relatively in the open and without those additional strong walled security and cameras are not as better off as their counterparts. Sadly it is a fact. I don't say that every man looks at the woman in a disgusting way but there are increasing numbers in the today's society, imo, because of the access to internet on PCs and mobiles where the xxx sites are freely available. Earlier it was just a few xxx magazines that were tantalizing magazines that were the provoking factors for men. Now everyone has easy access to anything that can influence him to think dirty. Add the canned alcohol to it.
It is also so bad, chiefly because people who indulge in such anti-social activities have no fear of law left in them. And the rest of the (good) society too doesn't care any more about it. We would like to see an ideal society where every woman get the due respect in all types of environment, but the day is far off in the future... hopefully. Until then, there should be proper safety guidelines for a working woman, working especially at odd hours and a real-time help should be provided.
Nowadays, you have mobiles with a button when it is pressed calls the nearest police station, and the police force too is forced to act on the alarm as quickly as it can (so I've heard, not seen). May be all those gadgets, a body alarm, guidelines, a few lessons (rather an expertise) in self defense, a bottle of pressurized pepper spray, a knife, a revolver, a sten gun, and the ability to kick hard and run fast is needed. How much, OP, are you comfortable with one or more of these safety measures?
P.S.:
As I again went through your OP, I still think that it's a fake story... why?