First off, I'd like to say, that I usually don't share my "feelings" with other people, especially with people I do not know. The reason I started this thread is because I need to know if I'm crazy, or my girlfriend of 4 years is crazy. I started classes at Michigan State University in the Fall of '10 after I completed my Associates at a community college. Michigan State is a fair distance away from home, I'd say about 150 miles. My girlfriend went to college for a while, then went to a private dental school (scam?) and couldn't find a job. Her car broke down and her parents just bought her a new car. And she lives with her parents. I invited my girlfriend at the begining of the year to come and live with me. I offered to pay for her rent, and her school tuition, which at MSU is about 8,000 a year. She said no. Keep in mind she had no job or anything at this time. Nothing. Fast foward to now. She got a job part-time as a receptionist at a doctors office. She works 3 days a week, minimum wage, with no benefits. She still refuses to move down with me, and has only since visited me twice, while I almost drive back home at least every other weekend. She cites a few reasons like, "I have a job," "My dad just bought me a new car," "I don't want to move into a house that has only 1 bathroom" (I have 1 other room mate), and my favorite "I don't want to go back to college." Am I the crazy person for getting really mad for not moving in with me? Or is she crazy for not taking up free tuition and rent? Also, for every anniversery, birthday, special event, she almost expects me to give her a gift that's at least $100. She expects me to take her out to eat, or pay her tab every time I come home. Here is the kicker that really pisses me off. I've always wanted to join the Marines. I feel like I am willing and able to serve my country well. My girlfriend actually WANTS me to do this. And is pushing me to join. So when it comes down to it, my girlfriend has no problem with me possibly putting my life on the line in the Marines for my country, but when it comes to moving in with me along with free rent and getting a free education, she wants nothing to do with me.