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8 years married 2nd day single?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by noob411, Jul 25, 2010.

  1. noob411

    noob411 Junior Member

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    OMG how weird is this. Like in a daze. My world is changing on a daily basis. 8 years gone in a flash, he was awesome and miserable at the same time. Any one been here b4. Going nuts.
     
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  2. dvdvids

    dvdvids BANNED BANNED

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    Been there several times, my last time was last December...Obviously things are gonna seem like shit and they are but time will make you feel better, it's happening to me, at last Im beginning to be happy again after 7 months. Good luck;)
     
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    makingfastcash22 Senior Member

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    I hope that you guys tried everything to make things work out, before throwing in the towel.....

    8 years is a nice stretch of time and alot of memories have been made...

    You say he was awesome and miserable at the same time... So that tells me that there is something that may or may not have been able to be resolved...

    I know in this day in age, I am not sure how green the grass is on the other side of the fence....

    I wish you good luck in your new venture...

    Prepare yourself for an emotional rollercoster.... Hang On and ride it out....

    Were ever you turn up, be thankful for that day, and live in the NOW! :)
     
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  4. momopo

    momopo Junior Member

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    Yea im still dealing with my breakup which happened 8 months ago, the old saying is correct. Time heals everything.

    Good luck and keep your chin up.
     
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  5. hotwicked

    hotwicked Regular Member

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    16 years married and it's gone starting last week. So yea, I know the feeling.
     
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  6. BassTrackerBoats

    BassTrackerBoats Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    I did a 17 year stint before it came apart... been with a super lady for almost 10 years now.

    Things get better at some point, Jody.
     
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    wtf are you guys talking ? :rolleyes:
     
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    biznets2 Regular Member

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    Hey, your not alone, been together 30 years with my wf and it's slowly falling apart, guess it's just life?
     
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  9. Simpatico

    Simpatico Newbie

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    I definitely feel ya. I've been there before - just a few months ago as a matter of fact.

    But then, after about a week , I finally broke down and decided to just go out and get another goldfish.

    It's been three months and he's still going strong, thank God.
     
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  10. Vento

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    Stay Strong.
     
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  11. mapleleafz

    mapleleafz Junior Member

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    I'll help ya get over him. ;)

    (joking :) )
     
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  12. bennyb

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    I've been there as well.
    Spend 7 years with mother of my kid. Last three were only for the baby.

    Never felt better being a single!

    Go make some money and get to feel better.It'll blow over.
     
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  13. GreenGoblin

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    Best way to get over someone is to go have sex with someone else, i know that sounds harsh and shitty, but u have to break the bond u have.
     
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  14. Venture

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    Keep your head up ;]
     
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  15. mofaux

    mofaux Regular Member

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    Fixed that for you. =)

    Disclaimer: I have never been married.
     
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    think of it as the start of something great
    it would have been 16 years !!!
     
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  17. gahoachma

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    things will get better, and the best of luck to you anyways.
     
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    send him pictures of you having sex with a black guy. that should do that trick!
     
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    get engaged wth some one who loves you not whom you love........u will be happy always
     
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  20. lincolnave

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    Some warped advice! Glad I'm not looking for help.

    Sorry to hear of your lose.
     
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