I am alcoholic how do I leave it?

I've had a few addictions and I just dropped them when I realized it was affecting my decisions or my health. I'll still do them occasionally but I know the consequence that follows. You can ask for all the help in the world but the final decision to quit or not depends on you.

When I was drinking everyday I noticed I was depressed and didn't want to feel like that anymore because I couldn't get any work done (job wise and internet marketing).

When I was smoking (because it helped my anxiety) I realized I dealt with my anxiety for how many years without cigarettes, why only now did I need it? Quit smoking in 6 months.

Just find something to channel your frustration/worries/problems/etc to something else other than drugs/alcohol. A lot of people classify it as meditation.
Doesn't have to be where you sit down and ohm to yourself. Maybe try going for a run after work instead of having a beer. Playing video games is my meditation because it relaxes my brain and my problems are forgotten. Hope this helps.
 
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alwaysinvisible said:
Did you come here to bitch about a member, get help with your drinking or troll? Bc it looks like you're either trolling or you're drunk again. Or both.
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Here comes a mam do you really want me be rude??? I have too many problems lady if a girl comes to mine she has more then I have... Also do know this typing words don't make you cool
 
NobelNerd said:
Here comes a mam do you really want me be rude??? I have too many problems lady if a girl comes to mine she has more then I have... Also do know this typing words don't make you cool
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I ran that through Google translate. I still don't know what you're saying.
 
thenwhat said:
I've had a few addictions and I just dropped them when I realized it was affecting my decisions or my health. I'll still do them occasionally but I know the consequence that follows. You can ask for all the help in the world but the final decision to quit or not depends on you.

When I was drinking everyday I noticed I was depressed and didn't want to feel like that anymore because I couldn't get any work done (job wise and internet marketing).

When I was smoking (because it helped my anxiety) I realized I dealt with my anxiety for how many years without cigarettes, why only now did I need it? Quit smoking in 6 months.

Just find something to channel your frustration/worries/problems/etc to something else other than drugs/alcohol. A lot of people classify it as meditation.
Doesn't have to be where you sit down and ohm to yourself. Maybe try going for a run after work instead of having a beer. Playing video games is my meditation because it relaxes my brain and my problems are forgotten. Hope this helps.
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I understand what you saying but are you married or girlfriend?
 
For @alwaysinvisible Don't msg somewhere cuz you want everyone suck up to you..
Be cool but not for me ....Though m too cool for you...cuz.. I don't care about you ....n I sure m not sucking...favor giver + 1 1 1 you so....Soooooo..... with all due respect.... gtfo....
I hope you understand
 
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Hello dude,
Its nice to see that im not the alone with this problem(okay, actually i guess it is not nice)
I am 24 year old dude from Estonia, i am alcoholic. Iv been drinking since i were 14 year old. I joined with military because i tought it will help me out from the problem... it did for a little time, now i am proffessional militant for 7 months,(whole service 18 months) i still was drinking until last weekend. I had vacation for 2 weeks and i were drinking all my savings... i had 4k eur and i wasted it all to alcohol, because when im drunk i dont realize what is happening next to me and i waste money as king. Also my drinking problems havent let me deal with IM, always when i start with something i started drinking again and again and i forgot all my projects. So, after my vacation i knew i gotta do something serious because my hangovers last over 3 days even if i drink only for 1 day. I guess my health is that fucked already. I tought many times dark things and i was on a edge to finish my life by myself. So, i tought always about good things i still have and i got sober. After this situation i knew i gotta do something with my life. I went to AA 3 weeks ago(anonymic alcoholics course) by my own decicion. There were alot of ex alcoholics who have been drinking for 35 years and etc. They were friendly as hell and motivated me to be sober, now i go there once a week and i havent drinked anything alcoholic for 3 weeks now. I just wanna go back to AA everytime i left there, i wait these meetings like a kid who waits for santaclause. I dont know why it helps but it does work. Atleast it works for many people. I havent been there for a long time but i belive that organization will help me to stop drinking. In these 3 weeks when i have been sober many great things have happened, even if im broke as fuck(casual soldier life in Estonia) Also i have loans to pay but somehow these 3 weeks as sober still have been intresting... I get even more matches on tinder somehow, same profile and pictures there... Also i met a one awesome women who works as a stripper and we date now with her. Shes amazing and she is always sober also, i guess she will help me also out from that deep hole. + i started to do IM now seriously and this time i will succsess if i wont start drinking again.
The morale of the story is that maybe you should go to AA also, i guess it will help me... maybe it will help you to.

Thanks.
 
NobelNerd said:
When. I joined BHW most were noobs now they are most awesome people I know ...how do I put my drink down and concentrate.... I have fucked up family.....
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I have been clean and sober for 11 years. feel free to message me
 
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kaurr said:
Hello dude,
Its nice to see that im not the alone with this problem(okay, actually i guess it is not nice)
I am 24 year old dude from Estonia, i am alcoholic. Iv been drinking since i were 14 year old. I joined with military because i tought it will help me out from the problem... it did for a little time, now i am proffessional militant for 7 months,(whole service 18 months) i still was drinking until last weekend. I had vacation for 2 weeks and i were drinking all my savings... i had 4k eur and i wasted it all to alcohol, because when im drunk i dont realize what is happening next to me and i waste money as king. Also my drinking problems havent let me deal with IM, always when i start with something i started drinking again and again and i forgot all my projects. So, after my vacation i knew i gotta do something serious because my hangovers last over 3 days even if i drink only for 1 day. I guess my health is that fucked already. I tought many times dark things and i was on a edge to finish my life by myself. So, i tought always about good things i still have and i got sober. After this situation i knew i gotta do something with my life. I went to AA 3 weeks ago(anonymic alcoholics course) by my own decicion. There were alot of ex alcoholics who have been drinking for 35 years and etc. They were friendly as hell and motivated me to be sober, now i go there once a week and i havent drinked anything alcoholic for 3 weeks now. I just wanna go back to AA everytime i left there, i wait these meetings like a kid who waits for santaclause. I dont know why it helps but it does work. Atleast it works for many people. I havent been there for a long time but i belive that organization will help me to stop drinking. In these 3 weeks when i have been sober many great things have happened, even if im broke as fuck(casual soldier life in Estonia) Also i have loans to pay but somehow these 3 weeks as sober still have been intresting... I get even more matches on tinder somehow, same profile and pictures there... Also i met a one awesome women who works as a stripper and we date now with her. Shes amazing and she is always sober also, i guess she will help me also out from that deep hole. + i started to do IM now seriously and this time i will succsess if i wont start drinking again.
The morale of the story is that maybe you should go to AA also, i guess it will help me... maybe it will help you to.

Thanks.
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TL DL?
 
hope your okay dude

BTW i just locked myself in my room for a month when i was quitting heroin. ive been alcoholic and i did the same. its easier than heroin tbh but all addictions are hard.
just lock yourself in your room with tons of water and food. the first week is the hardest but then youll be okay. trust me
 
NobelNerd said:
What you been smoking n sniffing
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shot dope, sniifed coke and meth. poopred pills drank smoked weed. did it all. Its not what you used its what you want to do with your problem and how we can help
 
just accept with that ur a fucking alcoholic and everything goes better :D thats the morale in a short way
 
Memoirs said:
hope your okay dude

BTW i just locked myself in my room for a month when i was quitting heroin. ive been alcoholic and i did the same. its easier than heroin tbh but all addictions are hard.
just lock yourself in your room with tons of water and food. the first week is the hardest but then youll be okay. trust me
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Dude I am not pshycologist I am just getting over this shit I don't need another burden learn be a man as m trying you are lonly that's it talk to me
 
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