rapidsparkey
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- Feb 16, 2014
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To start I am in Afghanistan presently and I have no one back home to protect my interest.
With that being said, I suspect my wife is cheating on me but I do not have concrete proof of the infidelity. I however have intuition and suspisions about a possible affair. To me the signs are there. Multiple texts and calls. Now they work together in a volunteer organization that we are a part of and communication is necessary but the frequency of the texts and calls is alot more than I think is needed. I confronted her when I came home last and her and the douche bag both denied it. Yes I did talk to him and told him to stay away from my wife since the season was over for the project they worked on together. I told her I needed to have access to her Facebook account and Gmail account to ensure that nothing is going on if I choose to look at them. More or less telling her to tread lightly if she wants this marriage to survive. I still have this gut feeling though that something is going on. We have been together for 19 years and have a 7 year old daughter. The guy in question has had affairs with married women in the past and his ex-wife cheated on him. Since then he has had affairs several times with married and attached women. So the fact that he would do it again is very likely. She says she has no involvement or communications with him and the phone bill shows that contact has stopped. But with internet sms services they could still be talking thru apps on their phones. Does any one out there have any suggestions of what I can do from 8000 miles away. I could install an app from her gmail account but she would know it because I am sure she would have to accept some kind of terms. Please only serious responses to this question. I am willing to move on if it is true but I do not want to potentially ruin my daughters life if this is all in my head. I need concrete proof. Thank you
With that being said, I suspect my wife is cheating on me but I do not have concrete proof of the infidelity. I however have intuition and suspisions about a possible affair. To me the signs are there. Multiple texts and calls. Now they work together in a volunteer organization that we are a part of and communication is necessary but the frequency of the texts and calls is alot more than I think is needed. I confronted her when I came home last and her and the douche bag both denied it. Yes I did talk to him and told him to stay away from my wife since the season was over for the project they worked on together. I told her I needed to have access to her Facebook account and Gmail account to ensure that nothing is going on if I choose to look at them. More or less telling her to tread lightly if she wants this marriage to survive. I still have this gut feeling though that something is going on. We have been together for 19 years and have a 7 year old daughter. The guy in question has had affairs with married women in the past and his ex-wife cheated on him. Since then he has had affairs several times with married and attached women. So the fact that he would do it again is very likely. She says she has no involvement or communications with him and the phone bill shows that contact has stopped. But with internet sms services they could still be talking thru apps on their phones. Does any one out there have any suggestions of what I can do from 8000 miles away. I could install an app from her gmail account but she would know it because I am sure she would have to accept some kind of terms. Please only serious responses to this question. I am willing to move on if it is true but I do not want to potentially ruin my daughters life if this is all in my head. I need concrete proof. Thank you
