Journey to The Future & $100/Day

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Last night was without a doubt the worst night of my young adult life. A girl I've done nothing but care for, love, and treat like a princess for three years up and walked away from our relationship. As the reality has sunk in more and more I can definitely feel myself sliding into a depression. It's hard to even write about this without tears gushing from my eyes. I didn't sleep at all last night. I feel sick to my stomach. I am, for lack of a better term, heartbroken. So why the hell am I bringing my Dr. Phil bullsh*t to BHW? Because I need an outlet. If I spend another second crying about this broad I'm going to snuff myself out. The best medicine for me is money. Lots of it. Enough money so that I'll fuck*n drown in it and forget this girl ever existed. So that's why I'm here, BHW. I know I have a long road ahead of me, a road with a lot more tears and a lot more hard work - but I refuse to just stand by and watch her destroy me. I'm not here for pity, I'm here to take action, and I'll do my best to provide the community with as many tips and tricks as I can along the way. All I ask in return is that you guys don't give up on me like she did.

My first project will be to get an eCommerce site that I've had in the pipeline for about three months. I estimate it's going to take about 2.5 weeks of work to get it up and operational. Once I hit that point I will set a time frame to hit $100/Day.

Back to update tonight...
 
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Sorry to hear about your problems, good luck with your journey, I will watch and see how it turns out :)
 
I'm sorry to hear about your girlfriend :( I too have been hurt a few times in the past by malicious people, and each time I was completely broken I came back stronger. I used to weigh 250lbs, when I was heartbroken for the first time, it fueled me into losing 90lbs. The difference is, after the pain subsides, you get to reap the rewards of your heartbreak-fueled rise from the ashes for the rest of your life, whilst the setback that caused it is but a distant and trivial memory.

The pain is about equal to the benefits, but you will get something good out of this. In this case, perhaps a solid income. Perhaps you will be able to support yourself and live the life that you always wanted to, while others are waking up at 7AM every day, and working to make somebody ELSE rich until 5PM when they can come home just in time to go to bed so they can wake up and do it all over again. Most people live their lives as slaves to work. Typically a job they dread, where every Sunday is a cause for depression.

You CAN achieve freedom. The ability to earn money doing something you love, where every penny earned is a penny in your pocket and not the boss's. Where you wake up every day excited about working on your projects. Where you can devote your life to LIVING and not to working. That much is guaranteed. The only requirement is that you apply yourself and NEVER GIVE UP!

Good luck in your journey! :)
 
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Could not pass this without commenting so its a bit of a hit and run comment as google is driving me crazy with my search results just now jumping everywhere as is all my competition.I just wanted to say to you it is her loss 100% you will rise a much stronger person from it, it wont feel like it right now because you are hurt but in time you will. I went through the same thing 20 years ago ( showing my age now) with a guy i thought the world of and like you i was heart broken. But i went on to meet the man of my dreams years later and we are happily married and i realise now that other guy was just someone i was to cross paths with for a while before i met the right one, This will happen to you. Take your mind of it throw yourself into work ( your stronger already by doing that) and let her realise it was her loss.When you make it and you are driving the big fancy brand new sports car you can toot the horn and wave to her :-))Take time to grieve a little as that is what makes you stronger !Looking forward to following your thread
 
Taking action, the best thing you have just done for yourself right now. Bravo.

Coming from first hand experience you now have NO time consuming, life draining demands from a stupid bitch. Excuse me, went far there.

Another lesson you may learn, is to love and forgive her anyway. Being mad won't drive you for long, but being happy you're away from her and living a better life..that's power.
 
raiderhater9572 said:
Hey man I am in exactly the same boat...i get treated like sh***when all i do is care for this one girl..and all i can do to help my depression is make money..please help me out and we can triumph together
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Absolutely, brother. We are in this together. Anytime you have a question, or even if you just need someone to talk to drop me a PM.

forvenz said:
turn your pain to motivation work hard .
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That's the plan! Thanks for the support.

Calum Jones said:
The difference is, after the pain subsides, you get to reap the rewards of your heartbreak-fueled rise from the ashes for the rest of your life, whilst the setback that caused it is but a distant and trivial memory.
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This literally made my morning. I wrote it down on a sticky note and put it on my bathroom mirror. Thank you.

tammyblogger said:
But i went on to meet the man of my dreams years later and we are happily married and i realise now that other guy was just someone i was to cross paths with for a while before i met the right one, This will happen to you. Take your mind of it throw yourself into work ( your stronger already by doing that) and let her realise it was her loss.When you make it and you are driving the big fancy brand new sports car you can toot the horn and wave to her :-))
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I want my tammyblogger moment, and I will get it. This gives me hope. Thank you.

funkybunker said:
Taking action, the best thing you have just done for yourself right now. Bravo.
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This is my train of thought. Thanks for the support!

UPDATE
I know I didn't update last night as I said I was, and I might as well explain why. So yesterday after I posted this I got pretty down again. I did manage to get some design work on the eCommerce site done, but ultimately I just couldn't stay focused. Before the breakup I was the type of guy who worked all the time, and because of that, I'm not really used to just taking off in the middle of the day to go do something. So I called up one of my buds and we went for a hike. It was a really nice day out and good just to clear my head. I started getting down again once I got back home. Luckily, another one of my buddies is a regular at a Brazillian Ju-Jitsu gym, and he's been trying to get me to come try it out for years. So I thought what the heck, it'll keep my mind off things for a few hours. Best decision I ever made. From the moment I walked in all my troubles disappeared and everyone was extremely welcoming. I woke up today feeling a million times better, granted, my body feels like it was hit by a truck. I'm starting to realize that I was the only one who ever gave in our relationship. It was all me giving and her taking. I think that's probably why she grew to take it for granted. One other interesting point about last night. After being introduced to the owner of the BJJ gym I overheard him talking with someone about his Adwords account not converting. I saw it as the perfect opportunity to step in and offer my cpc management and seo services. The guy was thrilled and we scheduled a sitdown for tomorrow. So all, in all. Not my best day, but certainly not my worst. Today I will try and focus on hiring a few contractors on odesk to build some functions into the eCommerce site.

Thanks again to everyone for the continued support. Update coming soon.
 
Ive been there man, it was terrible for a few months but the pain eventually went away. Pain is temporary but money can last a lifetime if you make enough :) keep your head up get some money! Girls are attracted to money always remember that. I always thought to myself fuck that bitch. Also get in the gym and get swoll! Being huge plus having money = bitches for life!

Plus everytime you see her just remember that you already got what you REALLY wanted :blowjob:
 
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ipodtouchhackerisher said:
Also get in the gym and get swoll! Being huge plus having money = bitches for life!
Plus everytime you see her just remember that you already got what you REALLY wanted :blowjob:
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;);) This provided a much needed laugh - first time I can remember laughing as of late. Thank you.
 
Sorry to hear it. But it will bring you new motivation. E-commerce always has been a good money maker. Go with it!
 
Good luck bro! Here's some hardcore motivation
 
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Great to hear your success from yesterday with the gym and the owner as well. Keep updating us
 
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