Ok, we talked. Long story short he'll refund me at 25th Jan (this current month) and i agreed on that as a final refund date, no excuses. Below is the skype chat we just had (removed email, name and phone numbers):
[13/01/2012 11:29:33 Ù…] Me: It's me, 'name', memyselfi from BHW
[13/01/2012 11:30:31 Ù…] Me: it has been so long
[13/01/2012 11:31:11 Ù…] Me: i went through a lot of shit in my life because of you
[13/01/2012 11:32:26 Ù…] Me: where are you?
[13/01/2012 11:32:36 Ù…] Me: how you gonna give me my $600 back?
[13/01/2012 11:35:00 Ù…] a1vaps: just writin back in thread
[13/01/2012 11:35:54 Ù…] a1vaps: ok dude in the thread i posted i have a cheque waiting to clear they said two weeks
[13/01/2012 11:36:05 Ù…] a1vaps: the bank its going into is the account which is linked to money bookers
[13/01/2012 11:36:13 Ù…] a1vaps: dude i know i have made your life shit
[13/01/2012 11:36:18 Ù…] a1vaps: so sorry
[13/01/2012 11:39:11 Ù…] Me: after all this time i've to wait more time? i'm in hell here
[13/01/2012 11:39:32 Ù…] Me: why you don't send me the money through Western Union?
[13/01/2012 11:39:40 Ù…] Me: it's easy and instant
[13/01/2012 11:39:43 Ù…] a1vaps: That was just mentioned
[13/01/2012 11:39:55 Ù…] a1vaps: i didnt know if you want it via that or not
[13/01/2012 11:40:09 Ù…] a1vaps: do you want it like that
[13/01/2012 11:40:11 Ù…] Me: yes, i want it
[13/01/2012 11:40:17 Ù…] a1vaps: i cant do it now
[13/01/2012 11:40:34 Ù…] a1vaps: You will have to wait till next week if that is ok
[13/01/2012 11:41:05 Ù…] a1vaps: i dont want to make you a promise as to what date if i cant hold to it
[13/01/2012 11:41:09 Ù…] a1vaps: i know you in the shit
[13/01/2012 11:41:17 Ù…] a1vaps: but i do have a sick daughter
[13/01/2012 11:41:34 Ù…] Me: you don't know, everytime you blocked me i was going deeper into shit that my life turned into living hell from a lot of sides
[13/01/2012 11:41:55 Ù…] Me: and every minute you make me wait like that, shit getting deeper
[13/01/2012 11:42:17 Ù…] Me: i'm not kidding that at some point some people would start of thinking in killing me
[13/01/2012 11:42:42 Ù…] Me: it's my money, and you owe me that money and i want it please
[13/01/2012 11:42:47 Ù…] a1vaps: ok so we both have problems
[13/01/2012 11:43:00 Ù…] a1vaps: but im not going to not pay you what you are owed
[13/01/2012 11:43:11 Ù…] a1vaps: i cant turn the clock back how i made you life shit
[13/01/2012 11:43:23 Ù…] Me: please do it as soon as you can, tomorrow is good WU is always open and it takes only 5 mins
[13/01/2012 11:43:42 Ù…] a1vaps: i cant like i said dude
[13/01/2012 11:43:44 Ù…] a1vaps: daughter comes first
[13/01/2012 11:43:50 Ù…] a1vaps: no matter what
[13/01/2012 11:43:58 Ù…] Me: i don't know why i have to wait for the next week
[13/01/2012 11:44:15 Ù…] a1vaps: because thats when ill be back in london
[13/01/2012 11:44:20 Ù…] a1vaps: when im going to see my daughter
[13/01/2012 11:44:28 Ù…] a1vaps: thats exactly what im going to do
[13/01/2012 11:44:51 Ù…] a1vaps: if i dont pay you i get banned from BHW
[13/01/2012 11:44:53 Ù…] a1vaps: its that simple
[13/01/2012 11:44:57 Ù…] a1vaps: i came back here
[13/01/2012 11:45:08 Ù…] Me: i don't trust you anymore, but anyway i want my money back and you have it
[13/01/2012 11:45:12 Ù…] a1vaps: like a lot of people said im goin to not come back and run away with your money
[13/01/2012 11:45:23 Ù…] Me: so give my an exact date you gonna send me the money
[13/01/2012 11:45:38 Ù…] a1vaps: exact?
[13/01/2012 11:45:46 Ù…] a1vaps: ok
[13/01/2012 11:45:50 Ù…] a1vaps: 25th Jan
[13/01/2012 11:46:03 Ù…] Me: 25th isn't the next week
[13/01/2012 11:46:18 Ù…] a1vaps: i said i didnt want to promise you something i can stick too
[13/01/2012 11:46:21 Ù…] a1vaps: if i said
[13/01/2012 11:46:26 Ù…] a1vaps: 18th
[13/01/2012 11:46:28 Ù…] a1vaps: then i dont pay
[13/01/2012 11:46:31 Ù…] a1vaps: then im fucked
[13/01/2012 11:46:46 Ù…] Me: so why you just said you can pay me next week if you won't be able to do it?
[13/01/2012 11:46:54 Ù…] Me: more of the same shit?
[13/01/2012 11:47:29 Ù…] a1vaps: so if i give you a date next week u be ok with that
[13/01/2012 11:48:01 Ù…] Me: i want an exact date you gonna refund me
[13/01/2012 11:48:05 Ù…] a1vaps: i dont want to do what i did to you before
[13/01/2012 11:48:10 Ù…] a1vaps: where i said ill pay u on 15th
[13/01/2012 11:48:13 Ù…] a1vaps: then i couldnt
[13/01/2012 11:48:20 Ù…] Me: for me i'd like to get my money now
[13/01/2012 11:48:34 Ù…] a1vaps: i know you do
[13/01/2012 11:49:02 Ù…] a1vaps: my date ill give you is 25th that is finally date
[13/01/2012 11:49:09 Ù…] a1vaps: you can accept that
[13/01/2012 11:49:13 Ù…] a1vaps: or you can just not accept it
[13/01/2012 11:49:26 Ù…] a1vaps: i really want to just be with my daughter man
[13/01/2012 11:50:42 Ù…] Me: i don't see a point in not giving me my money within 24 hrs
[13/01/2012 11:50:49 Ù…] Me: WU is everywhere
[13/01/2012 11:50:55 Ù…] a1vaps: because im going to be with my daughter
[13/01/2012 11:51:02 Ù…] a1vaps: yeh true it is
[13/01/2012 11:51:04 Ù…] a1vaps: but if im with my daughter
[13/01/2012 11:51:09 Ù…] a1vaps: then i with her
[13/01/2012 11:51:11 Ù…] a1vaps: she doesnt live with me
[13/01/2012 11:51:22 Ù…] a1vaps: so time with her is more important to me
[13/01/2012 11:51:48 Ù…] Me: your problem is personal and shouldn't affect me, as i said i can't trust you until i get my money back
[13/01/2012 11:52:09 Ù…] a1vaps: so you not accepting 25th
[13/01/2012 11:52:11 Ù…] Me: you already fucked me up and giving me my money back is the least you could do
[13/01/2012 11:52:41 Ù…] a1vaps: if you dont accept ill probably be banned until i pay you
[13/01/2012 11:53:11 Ù…] Me: so you can't go to WU for 5 mins and send me my money back? you'll be busy 24/7 and can't give me 5 mins of your time when you owe me money for more than a month
[13/01/2012 11:53:26 Ù…] a1vaps: she is in hospital when i see her
[13/01/2012 11:53:29 Ù…] a1vaps: so no i cant
[13/01/2012 11:53:45 Ù…] a1vaps: i know i owe you your money
[13/01/2012 11:54:25 Ù…] a1vaps: but my priority right now is her i know you dont care cause you just want your money
[13/01/2012 11:55:24 Ù…] Me: i don't know if you say is actually what's ahppening but if it's true i wish she get well
[13/01/2012 11:55:44 Ù…] a1vaps: I could say the same with your life too, but people do have problems i know that
[13/01/2012 11:55:55 Ù…] a1vaps: you are like 1 person i have not paid money too
[13/01/2012 11:56:08 Ù…] a1vaps: its just like when she happens your mind just goes else where
[13/01/2012 11:56:21 Ù…] a1vaps: and thats what has happen i just cant deal with things good like other people
[13/01/2012 11:56:36 Ù…] Me: the thing have nothing to do with mylife and whats going on. you owe me money and you have to give it back to me, that's it
[13/01/2012 11:57:00 Ù…] a1vaps: im just saying the things you told me, like i could say whether it real or not just like what you said too me
[13/01/2012 11:57:14 Ù…] Me: but i don't owe you money
[13/01/2012 11:57:23 Ù…] Me: so it doesn't matter to you
[13/01/2012 11:57:25 Ù…] a1vaps: Will you accept 25th or not
[13/01/2012 11:57:33 Ù…] a1vaps: it bothers me yeah
[13/01/2012 11:57:37 Ù…] a1vaps: cause gives me a shit rep
[13/01/2012 11:57:39 Ù…] a1vaps: as you can see on BHW
[13/01/2012 11:57:45 Ù…] a1vaps: but the other hand
[13/01/2012 11:57:47 Ù…] a1vaps: it dont
[13/01/2012 11:57:50 Ù…] a1vaps: because what ever happens
[13/01/2012 11:57:54 Ù…] a1vaps: daughter first
[13/01/2012 11:57:57 Ù…] a1vaps: everything else means nothing
[13/01/2012 11:58:02 Ù…] a1vaps: if that made anysense
[13/01/2012 11:58:13 Ù…] a1vaps: my final date which you asked for is 25th ill stick too it
[13/01/2012 11:58:27 Ù…] a1vaps: if you dont accept i guess you will have to let wiz know and ill probably get banned
[13/01/2012 11:58:30 Ù…] a1vaps: until i pay you
[13/01/2012 11:59:00 Ù…] Me: if i said yes to 25th, how you gonna pay me?
[13/01/2012 11:59:18 Ù…] a1vaps: i have got until 23:00 here till i go to hertford im just letting you know now
[13/01/2012 11:59:22 Ù…] a1vaps: before hand
[13/01/2012 11:59:30 Ù…] a1vaps: i will send it straight bank to your MB account
[13/01/2012 11:59:36 Ù…] a1vaps: thats if you got same email which i have
[12:00:12 ص] Me: and if there's issues, you gonna pay me with WU?
[12:00:50 ص] a1vaps: ok deal is if any issues on 25th
[12:00:55 ص] a1vaps: then i have to pay you via WU
[12:00:58 ص] a1vaps: correct
[12:01:17 ص] Me: so you pay me on 25th no matter what, no more excuses
[12:01:48 ص] a1vaps: None
[12:01:59 ص] Me: what you mean by none?
[12:02:05 ص] a1vaps: you said no more excuses
[12:02:08 ص] a1vaps: so i mean none
[12:02:09 ص] a1vaps: as in no more
[12:02:46 ص] Me: do you know my contacts where you gonna send me the money?
[12:03:01 ص] a1vaps: 'my email'
[12:04:07 ص] Me: ok, i accept 25th of current Jan as a final date and will wait for the payment in this day
[12:04:19 ص] Me: by MB or WU
[12:04:23 ص] a1vaps: Correct
[12:04:24 ص] a1vaps: and thanks
[12:04:35 ص] Me: if you gonna do it via WU you'll need more info from me
[12:04:40 ص] a1vaps: can i just let you know me being online will be less
[12:04:41 ص] Me: and i'll need you info too
[12:04:43 ص] a1vaps: as im away alot
[12:04:56 ص] a1vaps: but as you accepted this i will keep you informed this time
[12:05:04 ص] a1vaps: i dont want you to think cause im offline i forgot
[12:05:20 ص] a1vaps: i dont need much info from you
[12:05:21 ص] a1vaps: just need
[12:05:23 ص] a1vaps: country
[12:05:26 ص] a1vaps: and name
[12:05:41 ص] a1vaps: and i give you control number
[12:05:45 ص] a1vaps: but it will defo be MB
[12:06:15 ص] Me: ok, let's exchange cell phones
[12:07:05 ص] Me: i'll give you my number and give me a missed call then i'll save your number
[12:07:53 ص] Lieutenant: ??
[12:08:28 ص] a1vaps: 'phone number'
[12:08:50 ص] Me: 'phone number'
[12:08:59 ص] a1vaps: that your cell number
[12:09:07 ص] Me: give me a missed call
[12:09:08 ص] Me: yes
[12:09:33 ص] Me: i won't open the line, just to verfiy the number
[12:10:23 ص] a1vaps: is it on
[12:10:28 ص] Me: yeah
[12:12:59 ص] Lieutenant: ?
[12:14:06 ص] a1vaps: rang it
[12:14:46 ص] Me: weird, it came by the name 'Blocked'
[12:14:53 ص] a1vaps: ?
[12:15:00 ص] a1vaps: isnt that what happens
[12:15:04 ص] a1vaps: when callingn oversieze
[12:15:12 ص] a1vaps: i dont know
[12:15:13 ص] Me: dunno
[12:15:37 ص] a1vaps: well just ring mine and you will see
[12:15:42 ص] a1vaps: have to add +44
[12:15:59 ص] Me: it's ok
[12:16:03 ص] a1vaps: ok
[12:16:44 ص] Me: well, i'll wait for the refund in 25th Jan
[12:17:10 ص] a1vaps: ok thank you
[12:25:02 ص] Me: ok
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Thanks BHW and thanks guys for your support. Let's wait 'till 25th Jan, I'm too nice i know.