would you date a single dad/mom?

i think people with kids should only date people with kids
i think people with kids should only date people with kids
You should date each other!

I'm a single dad and while I'm admittedly completely undateable, I'd be pretty bummed out if someone turned me down just because I have kids.
 
I have a wife.

But hypothetically no I won't date someone with kids. Not judging but I like to avoid drama and baggages. I have my own demons to handle ;) and don't want to overload or be the white knight on a horse.
 
Personally, I don’t have kids, so I wouldn’t date a single mom. It’s just not the kind of situation I’m looking for right now. I honestly think people with kids should date others who also have kids they can relate to each other better and understand the responsibilities that come with it.
 
Suggesting an IMer live in a box where they have to choose box A where they would and box B where they would not?

Have we become BoxHatWorld and now put ourselves in boxes?
 
would you marry someone with kids ?

i think people with kids should only date people with kids

what do you think?

personally, i dont have kids so i woukdnt date a single mom. but if i had kids and their mom left, probably i would change my mind
It's a question of money, responsibility, honesty, and loyalty.

Let me explain. Ask yourself these questions.


1) Do you want to take responsibility for children who aren't biological yours?

2) Do you want to have children of your own?

3) Is this person willing to have one or more children with you?

4) Do you want to raise her childrens?

These are important questions that need to be clearly answered beforehand. Personally, I would advise you against dating women with children if you want children of your own. The reason is easy to understand. People are not always being honest. They sometimes don't do what they say. You have to ask their motives beforehand. And even then, you don't know if they'll stick to it.
 
I personally would never raise another man's kid.

Might come off as shallow, but I'm just not doing it. I want my own kids. Nor would I want to deal with another man constantly butting his head in my relationship. Nothing good comes from it.
 
You should date each other!

I'm a single dad and while I'm admittedly completely undateable, I'd be pretty bummed out if someone turned me down just because I have kids.
Yeah, single mothers go through this all the time, I don't understand why single fathers should be privileged and get better treatment
 
Yeah, single mothers go through this all the time, I don't understand why single fathers should be privileged and get better treatment
It may be different for me now, my kids are 16 and 18, so it may change the landscape for some people if they realise they wouldn't be having to do any school runs. I just think dismissing someone because they're a parent is reducing them to being just a parent rather than viewing them as someone looking to have a fuller life. Like myself. Undateability notwithstanding.
 
It may be different for me now, my kids are 16 and 18, so it may change the landscape for some people if they realise they wouldn't be having to do any school runs. I just think dismissing someone because they're a parent is reducing them to being just a parent rather than viewing them as someone looking to have a fuller life. Like myself. Undateability notwithstanding.
Nah steve
you are undatable
you have TWO kids
that means you are twice as bad
TWICE as undatable
SINGLE FOR LIFE
your lucky you even have kids !
bad steve
 
It may be different for me now, my kids are 16 and 18, so it may change the landscape for some people if they realise they wouldn't be having to do any school runs. I just think dismissing someone because they're a parent is reducing them to being just a parent rather than viewing them as someone looking to have a fuller life. Like myself. Undateability notwithstanding.
Why exactly you don't want to date single mothers? It's not a small dating pool even, there's tons of them out there, surely at least one with similar interests and compatible temperament must exist.
 
I do not think of any such questions as long as you are committed and married to someone. You have tied knots to live and die with each other
 
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