I havent had a friend in a long time.
But there is something to be said about getting advice or opinions from people. And i may disagree up to a point with you OP.
Its like, if you give advice to someone and they just shit on everything for the sake of shitting on everything, thats one thing. Not great.
But ive encountered in life more than once situations where youd ask someone for advice, and theyd give it, and id start picking at it, either because picking at it could improve on it or get me to a better solution for my situation. And id like to pick it with the person that gave it, because they can probably answer questions about the details of the advice they gave.
But then i saw more then once where people get offended or annoyed if you pick at their advice. I dont like these people. Its like, are you giving advice or are you giving orders? You suck.
Its like if you came to me and asked how to have sex, and i told you you just put the thing in the thing. And then you said maybe you can put the thing in the back thing? And i got upset, because i already told you how to do it, and you shouldnt analyze it. Fucking stupid retarded shit.
So yeah, maybe you can put it in the back thing. I never thought of that. But it makes sense, it may work. Then you go, oh but what if i finish there, will it make a baby? Oh man i dont know about that really, you should google it or ask somebody else i dont know about that.
So but anyway, most people arent open for going deep on topics, unless those topics is some stupid bullshit that doesnt matter at the end of the day, like where they went for vacation or something retarded like that.