Should you marry before being successful or after it?

[lookforfun]

Woman only marry successful man

who say

 

[Nut-Nights]

That depends on what you mean by being successful? For some people if they earn enough for good food and good clothes, they consider it successful, or some riding BMW and new hooker every night is considered being successful (Nut-Nights).

 

[johnyow]

who say

My search for a girl say if you have no income or Income which you hide in metaverse then no girl will come to you.

 

[Cryptochick007]

Good idea, but a trophy wife has a high maintenance cost and in the end she also only marries you for money. Ok, you will be able to fuck good for a few years, but in the end it will get boring too.

Find a beautiful and loving woman that makes big bucks herself. Although, such ones are not easy to be taimed .

 

[Cryptochick007]

It depends on the person, I married before getting successful and for some reason, my partner got crazy after I got it so I got divorced. Now I have a girlfriend which I am super happy about. Always find a loyal one and not so interested in money! Never show the money until you get to know each other.

Very true. Stay low profile. There are too many bitches around.

 

[chrisuchiim]

You can do both but note this:

1. If you are married when you are poor there is a high chance you have married true love.

2. If you are married when you are successful there is a high chance you have married a gold digger.

Like others advised you keep low profile, your true love will come naturally.

All th best

 

[Madonga]

You can do both but note this:

1. If you are married when you are poor there is a high chance you have married true love.

2. If you are married when you are successful there is a high chance you have married a gold digger.

Like others advised you keep low profile, your true love will come naturally.

All th best

ehh you shouldn't marry with that kind of thing in mind. find someone who makes you forget those preoccupations, someone who you just want to marry. also, not all relationships need to end in marriage. nowadays more than ever, it's okay just to be together.

Very true. Stay low profile. There are too many bitches around.

Good idea, but a trophy wife has a high maintenance cost and in the end she also only marries you for money. Ok, you will be able to fuck good for a few years, but in the end it will get boring too.

Find a beautiful and loving woman that makes big bucks herself. Although, such ones are not easy to be taimed .

Quite justifiably, no woman would prefer to marry a man who is financially struggling. So, do not get married while you are struggling financially. Get married when you are financially comfortable enough. Later during married life, you incase you encounter a phase where you are struggling financially, by then a bond, a relationship bond would have been developed between you and your wife, so she may not just leave you at that time if incase you encounter a financial struggle. She would most probably offer some support, so that you get back strong financially again.
But, then not all women (not all men) are the same and not all would react and respond the same under various scenarios.

it depends on your partner, will she support your business?

I've just come in to read the comments)))
But about weddings! I am sure everyone should marry with the lovely person. It doesn't depend on your age or success. Someone can find love in 20 and someone in 60)
Do not lie to yourself - you will feel when it happens!!!

Never marry if it is only for comfort or convenience. You will regret it when you are sick and tired of being together for so long and there is nothing you can do to let go and not hurt someone.

Success with your wife

If she is rich,you are already settled after marriage...swap roles xD

women - It's easier to make short term deals with escorts and less expensive.

It depends on the girl next to you. Marriage alone won't change anything if you're dating a girl. Only your relationship with your partner can make a difference. Some women make them stronger and motivate them to become successful, while others, on the contrary, are ruined.

Amazing feedback
Thank you all my friends

 

[Madonga]

I think the question is kind of miss-guided tbh.

If you have the ability and drive to generate wealth now, you'll have the same ability in 10 years. It's not a 1 trick pony that you must then safeguard for the rest of your existence on the planet, that's peasant mentality.

When you get divorced, you're wife will take 50% (usually) of $ earned during the years you're together. Pre-nups are fucking useless unless your making multiple millions per year or you're on the precipice of a windfall as it only protects $ generated during the relationship.

Everything you earn prior to your relationship is yours, everything you earn after the relationship is yours, everything you earn in-between is split 50/50 generally.

Unless you feel that you're only able to make $ in the next few years and nothing after, then what are you worried about? If that was the case, for me personally, I'd be more concerned with why I can't generate future $s

It depends on the person, I married before getting successful and for some reason, my partner got crazy after I got it so I got divorced. Now I have a girlfriend which I am super happy about. Always find a loyal one and not so interested in money! Never show the money until you get to know each other.

It depends on the person, I married before getting successful and for some reason, my partner got crazy after I got it so I got divorced. Now I have a girlfriend which I am super happy about. Always find a loyal one and not so interested in money! Never show the money until you get to know each other.

These are two seperated things, and you shouldn't postpone any of them from happenning just in waiting for the other thing to happen.

It seems to be a matter of mentality and upbringing. Although whatever this is the most critical correct and proper thing is feeling, sincerity, and love. Whether it is possible - you have to judge for yourself.

Much appreciated
Thank you

I got married in my 2nd year of uni

You're marrying a person, not a bag of cash. If you want to start a family and travel etc., you should have a career, as having kids and being married is a responsibility that shouldn't be taken lightly.

I think you're asking if you should get married if you start making a lot of money and are worried about a divorce. If you go with that mentality, you will never be happy, as it takes two people to become one to make a good marriage.

 

[shandar]

After reading all these suggestions and feedbacks from the experienced persons, I will marry soon probably in December

 

[patsi]

They say that marrying someone is the most important decision of your life. Make sure the one you marry doesn't destroy your success / in your way of success. They should be the one adding to your success! Cheers mate

 

[ExperimentalSEO]

Whats up with the assumption that women aren't successful and are a drain on your finances?

 

[AlvinUAW1]

I think you must get married on time like26,27,2829. No problem you are not successful (But) keep hard work for being successful, because when your kids will watch you to becomes a successful men so they will copy your hard work in his life.

 

[The Oracle]

Beauty and looks are a poor feature to look for in a long term partner, especially if you still have options to play with outside of the relationship and have had a successful/high notch count in your youth. Marriage is a disaster for sex between the married persons, doesn't matter how hot the woman is. The Spartans knew this and therefore had laws to separate couples except on a few nights of the month.

Of course, this doesn't mean you should marry an obese troll- you still want someone presentable and not ugly, but look for other dividend producing features or value adds to your own personal chess game.

Are you a citizen of a 3rd world country like India or Pakistan? Perhaps you should look for a national of a better country, doesn't have to be Norway or Japan but could be Malaysia or UAE.

Were you raised without being taught to care for your basic needs such as cooking and cleaning, or just have better things to do? The world is full of women who can do this for you. Access to tasty and well cooked food is a great value add.

The way to find a sustainable partner is to also ask what you can do for them or for their own chess game. If you can provide a modest amount of money, single moms outside of Western cultures are great bets.

The most valuable feature to look for is if they will listen to you and follow your plans. Willingness to grind or work hard is another excellent feature. This doesn't mean a doormat or a pushover, but if you are able to conjure up plans to deploy people in various roles- it's invaluable to have 1 high trust individual who can also be the custodian of your bail money if ever required...

 

[Thunder Digitals]

So much good advice here (In this thread) from experience people.

Loved it.

 

[airtman]

Beauty and looks are a poor feature to look for in a long term partner, especially if you still have options to play with outside of the relationship and have had a successful/high notch count in your youth. Marriage is a disaster for sex between the married persons, doesn't matter how hot the woman is. The Spartans knew this and therefore had laws to separate couples except on a few nights of the month.

Of course, this doesn't mean you should marry an obese troll- you still want someone presentable and not ugly, but look for other dividend producing features or value adds to your own personal chess game.

Are you a citizen of a 3rd world country like India or Pakistan? Perhaps you should look for a national of a better country, doesn't have to be Norway or Japan but could be Malaysia or UAE.

Were you raised without being taught to care for your basic needs such as cooking and cleaning, or just have better things to do? The world is full of women who can do this for you. Access to tasty and well cooked food is a great value add.

The way to find a sustainable partner is to also ask what you can do for them or for their own chess game. If you can provide a modest amount of money, single moms outside of Western cultures are great bets.

The most valuable feature to look for is if they will listen to you and follow your plans. Willingness to grind or work hard is another excellent feature. This doesn't mean a doormat or a pushover, but if you are able to conjure up plans to deploy people in various roles- it's invaluable to have 1 high trust individual who can also be the custodian of your bail money if ever required...

How do you mean marriage is a disaster for sex?

 

[johnyow]

The rule is in our city that black women rub dirty utensils as housemaid and white women sit, eats, and fart all day.

 

[aladin]

Before, but ...also ..live your life at high BEFORE

 

[The Oracle]

How do you mean marriage is a disaster for sex?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect
Gets boring with the same person over time, to the point of sex-lessness. Fate of most marriages, but people will deny it or try to hide facts.

 

[Madonga]

Thank you all for this amazing share

 

[GiraffeBurgersAndFries]

Better to find the one when you're in rags than when you're in riches IMO. Someone who will love you when you're low and coming up is better than trying to sift through a pile of gold diggers. Don't focus on looks too much. Physical attraction is important, but like your family jewels those titties will scrape Earth down the road. Personality is key IMO. My eBook on love is only $9.99, do I have any takers?