[Serious ] LAZINESS JUST KILLED ME, HELP

I just told something to a 16 year old guy who thought c++ and blockchains are the way to go. So hard to start with it...

Now he is going to build feasible products at home using PHP and JS frameworks.

Newcomers always get caught up in this complex landscape wondering what they should learn.
These days I have been learning python because I believe I too can create great things
That's my motivation in a nutshell
 
These days I have been learning python because I believe I too can create great things
That's my motivation in a nutshell
The value I see in Python is Pytorch. Other than that, everything on the internet can be done fast and well in node.js and PHP.
 
The value I see in Python is Pytorch. Other than that, everything on the internet can be done fast and well in node.js and PHP.
tbh I don like PHP that much
It seems to be over complicating programming for nothing
 
you need to be consistent, make a list of targets is the best way you can try, You can start from the smallest habits such as brushing your teeth every day or making the bed after using it, from these small things you will learn to be consistent and then you can start setting bigger targets/goals.
 
Start with tiny tasks that suck and get used to it
You'll probably keep moving after a while
 
It's easier than javascript in my opinion. If you compare laravel to react, you will see why.
A'ight maybe I'll check that
I am currently learning how to build and deploy scripts on a cloud and boy my head is spinning ‍
I've set an objective to reach a good level in python by end of this year (6 months) and after that I'll move on with another objective and maybe a new language
 
To be honest I also have no idea how can people create their business without any digital marketing career beforehand. This shit is hard as fuck, i hate to bring a bad mood but no idea how can a newbie win a lot of money online in 2022.
I agree with this so much, you hear me waffle on all day about getting a project done, with me having the prior knowledge of what website owners require weekly or so for articles, how often an ad should be ran and all that good stuff.

Picking up some digital marketing I thought you could just run with it.
The fun comes when you start pairing things...

Silly goose :D
 
Laziness comes from the leak of passion.
But is not about what you are doing, but especially how you do everything in your life.
Being aware of all the things around might get you to a better place and hobbies.
good luck finding out your truly passion
 
A'ight maybe I'll check that
I am currently learning how to build and deploy scripts on a cloud and boy my head is spinning ‍
I've set an objective to reach a good level in python by end of this year (6 months) and after that I'll move on with another objective and maybe a new language
Yeah. Solo development requires devops and coding skills. Clouds, PaaS, containers (like docker), crazy tools like webpack (it's dying slowly happily), git, linux, mixed paradigms and more. Basically full stack and a little bit more.

I think the best is to remove windows and do all the stuff on linux. Writing all those commands and using CLIs seem more natural if I do this.

Otherwise, if I don't use it everyday, I want to end it as quickly as possible, like an impatient kid waiting for the end of a lesson.

If you can, get an intern level job. You will know what you exactly need and skip the bs. Tutorial purgatory is a place visited by every developer. Some never go out from there and quit. Some don't learn what a class is for years. OOP is the first thing you should learn as a programmer, imo.

Some concepts make such a difference that once you get a grasp of them, you feel like coding is almost easy and can focus on actually solving the problems.
 
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Yeah. Solo development requires devops and coding skills. Clouds, PaaS, containers (like docker), crazy tools like webpack (it's dying slowly happily), git, linux, mixed paradigms and more. Basically full stack and a little bit more.

I think the best is to remove windows and do all the stuff on linux. Writing all those commands and using CLIs seem more natural if I do this.

Otherwise, if I don't use it everyday, I want to end it as quickly as possible, like an impatient kid waiting for the end of a lesson.

If you can, get an intern level job. You will know what you exactly need and skip the bs. Tutorial purgatory is a place visited by every developer. Some never go out from there and quit. Some don't learn what a class is for years. OOP is the first thing you should learn as a programmer, imo.

Some concepts make such a difference that once you get a grasp of them, you feel like coding is almost easy and can focus on actually solving the problems.
That's it. There are some tutorials the moment I start learning them I feel like "Will I even need this along my journey??" Then I drop it and look for another one only to repeat the same thing.
But now it seems like I have found my way to go:
Take a project and learn by building it
And I think it's really a good way because it allows you to grasp some stuffs really fast
And then you create as you grow
What about you ? Is there a learning pattern you follow?
 
What about you ? Is there a learning pattern you follow?
I learn just in time. If I really struggle with something and can't find explanation in docs, I find a free course of someone experienced and check what they say. I never watch full courses. After 30 minutes of watching I have enough knowledge to code for weeks

I learn by reading docs while coding. I don't setup demo projects unless it's a completely new thing or a programming language for me.

Recently I picked up nest.js, knowing almost nothing about it. In 5 days I had an MVP up and going. I figure out the architecture and then constantly remind myself of that. And I see how it flows, then I put elements in place.
 
I learn just in time. If I really struggle with something and can't find explanation in docs, I find a free course of someone experienced and check what they say. I never watch full courses. After 30 minutes of watching I have enough knowledge to code for weeks

I learn by reading docs while coding. I don't setup demo projects unless it's a completely new thing or a programming language for me.

Recently I picked up nest.js, knowing almost nothing about it. In 5 days I had an MVP up and going. I figure out the architecture and then constantly remind myself of that. And I see how it flows, then I put elements in place.
You seem really good at it.
Yeah I discovered that you could also learn from the docs in my head docs were super complicated and long af, but this morning I was working with Twilio and some integrations and It took me way less time than expected

You know what?? I think I will continue on this path, constantly working and improving. This forum really changed me.
I think there a say that goes like "If you are the smartest in the room, then you are in the wrong room" and I am sure I was in the wrong place
 
find something worth working for bro. if you arent motivated maybe you dont believe you are capable of something truely special. set big goals. take the wildest vacations. fuck the hottest women. eat the most exotic food. whatever the motivation is find it and wnd work hard for it
 
I have a job, things are clear, it pays my bills.

But its sooo fuckingggg hardddd and boringgg as fuuuuuuuuuck.

I need some money to move out of my parents house and then start my real job which is something I dream of doing for years.

It only takes me 3 month of work to make enough Money for that but

I HATE TO WORK
IM PROCRASTINATING EVERYTHING
AND I FEEL LIKE THE LAZIEST FUCK EVER

Got any solutions:(
Bro since you are lazy to put in the work why don't you share your method with someone ( e.g. me) or partner with someone to put in the work I don't care how boring it is as long as results shall come I can put in the work.
 
Understand you. This is the delayed life syndrome. And the whole secret is that while you see life not here, but somewhere there: in 3 months, when I build a house, when I move to the sea, when, when, when ... While you are waiting for something there, then you're missing out on what's here. And all this depression and procrastination is a sign that it's time to take a look at what's here. I understand you. Breathe deeper bro
 
Bro since you are lazy to put in the work why don't you share your method with someone ( e.g. me) or partner with someone to put in the work I don't care how boring it is as long as results shall come I can put in the work.
What are u good at?
 
Understand you. This is the delayed life syndrome. And the whole secret is that while you see life not here, but somewhere there: in 3 months, when I build a house, when I move to the sea, when, when, when ... While you are waiting for something there, then you're missing out on what's here. And all this depression and procrastination is a sign that it's time to take a look at what's here. I understand you. Breathe deeper bro
Good advice. Make sure his current area is best or good?
 
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