F**k me, i'm dead inside (again)

[OccultKingdoms]

In this world, you gotta make your money first, then when you get the money you get the power, then when you get the power THEN you get the woman -Tony Montana

Yes, this is the correct order.

 

[Deleted member 1590654]

hit the gym!change the enviroment,escape the comfort zone!

 

[aicecmaro]

Whenever I become dead inside I listen to

"It's about drive, it's about power
We stay hungry, we devour
Put in the work, put in the hours and take what's ours (ahoo)"

 

[youveggie]

few weeks ago, over 5 million refugees from Ukrain got displaced all around the globe, little kids lost their mother/father... parents lost their children...you guys know whats up...and you are on this hack forum wining and writing about your GF leaving you... man you do need help...grow some balls!

Yeye, those problems doesn’t concern me as much as my own life!
and if you are concerned more about others than yourself you need to change your priorities.

 

[youveggie]

I understand what you are going through. But don't let go of that. Focus on your projects, make money, enjoy life. If you manage to be happy alone, with you, without a gf, then you are on the right track. Above all, you have to please yourself. The gf come later. It should be just a bonus in your life. I understand, especially if you were with her a long time. Courage, brother

I know how that goes. I have been there. And I can say without a doubt if you fall backwards with your addictions you will only compound your current problems. That's but a bandaid and those problems will still be festering underneath. Stay strong brother.

I remember how it feels man. But the problem is, you should not make your life depending on a gf.

Also not on a dayjob. Start your own business or switch job if you hate it.

I used to have this problem. Then its just cycles. Because nothing changes, no achievements.

After i started my own business i focused on that and nobody dare to touch my business. I just love doing what i do, and also to learn what i learn.

I think you need something you can build up. Where your work is not lost in a few years...

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God, I hear you. In this situation save me communication with another girl.
everything else didn't help

A bit young to give you advice but if you are listening:
Give it some time it will pass, and after it does (it will 100%) focus on your money. Take some risks, something you would never do ever and if it fails do it again.

Also, if there's nothing keeping you where you are go move to some island and start fresh. Drastic changes always help.
Get a job there on the beach, meet new people, go through the dating pool. You never know what will happen, who you might meet..
If it's not better than your life you can always go back and find another shitty job

hit the gym!change the enviroment,escape the comfort zone!

Whenever I become dead inside I listen to

"It's about drive, it's about power
We stay hungry, we devour
Put in the work, put in the hours and take what's ours (ahoo)"

Thanks to everybody, I knew i can come and ask for motivation here at bhw, you are amazing, gave me that little extra boost I needed, thanks a lot, appreciate your inputs!

might start a journey thread soon just want to get them big racks.

 

[CielTing]

Keep studying every day and try to improve yourself. Prove to her that missing you is her biggest regret.

 

[ikimmybee]

gf left me, not in a mood to do anything, my day job sucks balls, life is a bitch.
it happened again. again i'm so down and I can't get up, all my attempts to succeed at anything are making me fall back even more, I can't figure out whats wrong with me, i am a slave to my brain, literally.

holding strong to not fall back to my addictions.

It will pass. Stay strong. You got this.

IDK why she left, but I might be able to provide insight if you're willing to share. IDK what you do for a living, but you clearly do not like it - so change it. Yes, life is a bitch - I agree.
Why does it keep happening? Can you change it? Why are you failing? Are you doing the same thing you did when you failed the first or second or third time?
What's wrong with you? Are you depressed? I was once depressed. Took Zoloft - didn't work (had terrible tremors). I took Wellbutrin - didn't work (made me dead inside).
I dumped the meds, started exercising. Ate healthier. Rewired my brain using cognitive behavior therapy. I still have downs, but my rewired brain always tries to snap me out of it.
Was it easy changing myself? Oh hell no. But I was tired, so I took action.
Breathe my friend. We're here for you. You are not alone.

 

[Bigben Agency]

Everything will be fine, man. You have family and friends besides you, you have your a promising future in front of you. Don’t let a temporary person negatively affects you. You can be sad today, but there is a tomorrow is waiting for you. Forget the temporary person and move forward

 

[nakamura]

No worries mate, trust the process. Learn and improve. Live and let live.

 

[pryques]

gf left me, not in a mood to do anything, my day job sucks balls, life is a bitch.
it happened again. again i'm so down and I can't get up, all my attempts to succeed at anything are making me fall back even more, I can't figure out whats wrong with me, i am a slave to my brain, literally.

holding strong to not fall back to my addictions.

Sounds rough man. Maybe this can help
I started using a reframe...When I catch myself with terrible inner monologue, I add "and that's okay" at the end of the sentence. For example "My girl left me and that's okay". Hope it helps

 

[youveggie]

Such a great support from all of you guys, i knew that i can come here and ask for advice from the sweet and friendly BHW community!

It does suck, but as some of you mentioned I have to trust the process and let it go, fuck it, firstly it will be hard, but I guess it had to go this way to finally fulfil my own dreams and goals.

Gonna make a journey thread soon! once again im going to try to make it in the ecomm, thats where i started thats what i know the best (i do have plenty of other ideas too), have to pick some my shops which are covered with dust for a long time as i havent finished them, will figure out the ones that have the best chance of success and will push them forwards.

once again thank you all!

 

[IM Addict]

go for daily walk as it will help you control diabetes. bath daily with soap. Read newspapers daily.

Whatever you do, if you don't want to get into a deep depression - DO NOT read the newspaper or watch the news daily!! They're made to keep you or put you into a constant state of fear and anxiety, and that will get you into you know what... Depression!! Or a "milder" version called dysthymia.

 

[bartosimpsonio]

Seeing more and more of these threads recently.

This tells me you folks gotta develop the right mindset for IM. Plenty of threads about risks x business x social life in here.

Balance is the key. Work out, keep a healthy body and mind, etc. Doesn't take much to be able to enjoy and then do profitable IM, but it takes some discipline.

Good luck mate.

 

[ramuite]

Whatever you do, if you don't want to get into a deep depression - DO NOT read the newspaper or watch the news daily!! They're made to keep you or put you into a constant state of fear and anxiety, and that will get you into you know what... Depression!! Or a "milder" version called dysthymia.

TRUE. THAT'S MY MOTIVE. I myself is a hippie.

 

[SilverClouds]

Goddamnit, this thread is so motivating, I got super motivated already. Go, go, go bhw!

Yeahh, don't date to distract yourself from your problems, it always ends bad, been there, done that. Very bad idea - you're relaxed for a short while and then you have MORE problems than you started with.

 

[GenesisOne]

Looks like you are still too young.
Growing up is an inevitable painful process everyone has to go through.
But it will pass.

 

[charles133]

I am sory for you my friend i know how you feel but sometimes life hit as so hard that we get depresed ,sad etc .If it helps you think that you are still lucky beside of this bad period of life .Think that many people have hiv ,imobilizated in a chair or bed ,dont have legs etc .So milions of people will give all to change their life with yours even if its sad in this period .Dont wory it will pass ,it will make you stronger

 

[youveggie]

Looks like you are still too young.
Growing up is an inevitable painful process everyone has to go through.
But it will pass.

maybe i'm still too young for another heartbreak ,yes.

theres a lot of untold details that I want too keep personal, because of ethical issues, those are health related (no im good and healthy)

and for me women leaving is not just women leaving, because my mother left me when I was kid.

 

[lucha91]

We are on the same boat atm mate! Wish you the strongest mind possible, I know exactly what you mean!

 

[youveggie]

Seeing more and more of these threads recently.

This tells me you folks gotta develop the right mindset for IM. Plenty of threads about risks x business x social life in here.

Balance is the key. Work out, keep a healthy body and mind, etc. Doesn't take much to be able to enjoy and then do profitable IM, but it takes some discipline.

Good luck mate.

probably im just missing some vitamins, because i always feel tired after work and my focus is soooo offff, cant concentrate for long time.