Losing her slowly

[VibroHeavenUK]

This happened to me, I used to work nights and she would go out with her 'work mates' while I was at work, I didn't mind to start off with but then it became more regular and one night she was out with a female she works with but that female turned up at my house as she needed to get in touch with her urgently!

So basically, it was over. She moved out and was living with him within a month but she denied it started when we were together but that was bullshit.

Just be careful though, while she was living with this guy, she was giving me hints that we could get back together, basically keeping my hopes up but she was using me as back up in case it didn't work with the new guy.

But about 5 months later, I met this fantastic woman who has given me two beautiful children, so I'm really grateful she did cheat on me as I would never have met my now wife and we have been together 21 years.

 

[Zwielicht]

♪Please say he's just a friend (uh-huh)♪
♪Now, girl, let's not pretend (come on)♪
♪Either he is or he ain't your man (haha)♪
♪Please say he's just a friend♪

I'm still reading through this, but nobody here can tell you for certain what;s going on. You're better off talking to her about it and figuring things out for yourself.

But on a related note, if you're worried she's cheating on you at this point in your relationship, perhaps you should rethink marrying her, at least for the time being.

 

[llarasati]

We are being in a relationship for 3 years ,we arent married yet but we have plans of getting married.But recently she started spending time with a new guy who just joined the office ,she is saying its just friendship.I'm confused

Yeah, just friend (with benefit).

 

[GenesisOne]

You are young - you'll live and learn to answer this question on your own.
Bottom line - escorts don't have this issues.

 

[4440]

look like somebody placed a niche edit between you and your gf

 

[William702]

We are being in a relationship for 3 years ,we arent married yet but we have plans of getting married.But recently she started spending time with a new guy who just joined the office ,she is saying its just friendship.I'm confused

Yeah your going to get great relationship advice on an internet marketing forum full of nerds. Nice one!

 

[NirvanaWolf]

Text the new guy that you have gonorrhea and then dump your girl too.
Also, if you're young then don't get emotionally involved, remember the pussy is never yours, it's just your turn.

 

[Deleted member 1501362]

Yeah your going to get great relationship advice on an internet marketing forum full of nerds. Nice one!

Best believe I ain't no nerd, so you saying guys that make money can't be red pill aware and know female nature?

 

[William702]

Best believe I ain't no nerd, so you saying guys that make money can't be red pill aware and know female nature?

No I'm saying anyone who uses words like red pill or female wont be getting a woman anytime soon LMFAO!

 

[MoonStarz]

We are being in a relationship for 3 years ,we arent married yet but we have plans of getting married.But recently she started spending time with a new guy who just joined the office ,she is saying its just friendship.I'm confused

You gotta start doing the things he is doing yourself bro! Get in touch with the guy and ask him to stay aside.... he will know consequences. That's your lady!

 

[tiagocardoso]

What's your age, buddy?

 

[Deleted member 1501362]

No I'm saying anyone who uses words like red pill or female wont be getting a woman anytime soon LMFAO!

Lol, that's cap. Red pill means you see the world for what it is, it's not really just about women. But I understand your claims lol. It's the same with people calling themself alpha and all those terms. But that's not what you were saying, you were making it seems like the guys here are just nerds and into computers and don't pull bitches which I think is not so accurate.

 

[foghorn]

I think you should ask this on Reddit instead.

Reddit is the worst place for advice or almost anything. Thier relationship advice is "drop her and move on", ever time. Maybe you should figure out how you got this point? I lose chicks when I don't give them enough attention. Why do you do it?

 

[youngblacksmith]

Don't freak out. Don't show up that you suspect something. Just watch closely to investigate the case. With women, is never about what they say but what they do and how they behave...

Great advice. I agree actions speak louder than words

 

[foghorn]

Don't freak out. Don't show up that you suspect something. Just watch closely to investigate the case. With women, is never about what they say but what they do and how they behave...

Best advice here. Its a game man. The rules were made a billion years ago. Figure out why she is more interested in this guy than you and the rest doesn't matter anyway. Young chicks are not gonna sit around being bored by you.

 

[lifeisme]

You gotta start doing the things he is doing yourself bro! Get in touch with the guy and ask him to stay aside.... he will know consequences. That's your lady!

Worst move you can do and humiliate yourself like that, you a chicken or a man? Obviously she is enjoying the company of the new guy so what you gonna do force her? Dude might not even have a clue…So what you need to do is as harsh as it sounds ditch her she worthless anyways. Woman who have respect for his man dont just go to dinner with some random dude she just meet. Like someone else said pussy is never yours its just your turn. Its 2022 every normal looking guy can change 5 woman a week so finding something better is easy

 

[William702]

Lol, that's cap. Red pill means you see the world for what it is, it's not really just about women. But I understand your claims lol. It's the same with people calling themself alpha and all those terms. But that's not what you were saying, you were making it seems like the guys here are just nerds and into computers and don't pull bitches which I think is not so accurate.

First off it seems you take everything quite literally and forget the fact that sometimes people are trying to make jokes. Secondly the the fact you are now using wordage like "bitches" tells me everything I need to know and I totally understand why she is spending time with other guys. Good luck!

 

[Deleted member 1501362]

First off it seems you take everything quite literally and forget the fact that sometimes people are trying to make jokes. Secondly the the fact you are now using wordage like "bitches" tells me everything I need to know and I totally understand why she is spending time with other guys. Good luck!

I wasn't the one that's complaining about my girl getting taken out, now you see I was just joking and you are taking it serious now. LOL, relax my guy

 

[foghorn]

First off it seems you take everything quite literally and forget the fact that sometimes people are trying to make jokes. Secondly the the fact you are now using wordage like "bitches" tells me everything I need to know and I totally understand why she is spending time with other guys. Good luck!

How am I supposed to know when anyone is joking on the internet? I could tell about 6 years ago I think.

 

[William702]

I wasn't the one that's complaining about my girl getting taken out, now you see I was just joking and you are taking it serious now. LOL, relax my guy

Sure it was