We are being in a relationship for 3 years ,we arent married yet but we have plans of getting married.But recently she started spending time with a new guy who just joined the office ,she is saying its just friendship.I'm confused
Hi denzimmer. I'm sorry to hear you're in this situation. You must be hurting quite a lot, and feeling a lot of confusing emotions.
Obviously I have very little information to go off on, and I don't know anything about your girlfriend, however my initial reaction is this is a bad situation.
It is not uncommon for people to find a new partner (and establish it as a relationship) before ending things with their current partner.
It sounds like your girlfriend is currently setting this guy up to be her new partner.
She may not be physically cheating on you, yet, but there is probably some sort of emotional cheating going on.
If you started spending time with another woman, and going out for dinner with her, would your girlfriend think that's fine, or would she freak out?
I know you probably feel like it's the end of the world right now, and that you'll never find anyone as good as your girlfriend, but I promise you, with 100% confidence, that in a few years (assuming you break up because of this guy) you will have a low opinion of her as she cheated on you and then left you for another guy.
Question:
When you first started dating her, did she have a boyfriend?